Most of what I know today about writing and public speaking was self-taught. When I started, I had a flair for expressing but I didn’t have mentors and models that could hone my talents until much later in my personal development journey. I believe in paying it forward; unlike those weird lecturers who enjoy making life for their students owing to the difficulties they face – I opt to make it easier for those coming behind me by doubling down on knowledge-sharing. As a way of putting others on the game, I came up with creative yet instructive pearls about the craft of writing.

Today, I get a lot requests from people asking me to teach them how to write. But my response always stuns them. First, I tell them that they are already doing some sort of writing whether in their academics, at the workplace or even via social media. Second, I tell them that the first thing about writing isn’t writing – it’s thinking. Every great thing that has ever been created is rooted in the quality of thoughts. A famous Japanese car manufacturer in the 90s released an ad which captured the minds of the world; not just for the design of the vehicles but more for the tagline: “Yo shinai, Yo kangai” – which is loosely translated as “Good thinking; good product”.

In the book of Genesis, which is Moses’ account of creation, he starts by saying, “In the beginning, God created.” However, in John’s account of creation which thematically underscores the divinity of Christ, he starts by saying, “In the beginning was the Word”. These two introductions are important because in the etymology of the text, the original term for “Word” is “Logos” which means thought or thinking. What that tells us is that the calibration of creation as we know it wasn’t mere happenstance or some Big Bang theory but a result of intelligent thinking. Before there was any speaking, there was a “brooding over the waters”. Interestingly, the word “brood” doesn’t only mean to think deeply, it also describes how birds hatch their eggs – bringing ideas from the abstract to the concrete. That’s one of the ways you can activate your God mode as a creative or content creator.

Without equivocation, the Creator Economy is in full swing. People are better positioned to earn from content creation than at any other point in modern history. The prospects of monetising content have become both a blessing and a curse; some people have used their content to enhance their thought leadership while others have succumbed to their primal instincts to do anything for clout – including doing or saying dumb things with the hopes of going ‘viral’. However, controversy is not a strategy that works for everyone; what is sauce for Guinea might not be sauce for Uganda.

Gwo Gwo Gwo Ngwo!

When comedian, Chukwuebuka Emmanuel Amuzie, better known as Brain Jotter, used a song by Gentleman Mike Ejeagha, a veteran highlife singer in a skit, little did he know that the song that was recorded over four decades ago would not only bring about a celebration of the living legend but also usher him into notoriety. While the internet is awash with the viral dance from Brain Jotter’s skit, it was not lost on me that the song itself is a masterclass in storytelling. Ka Esi Le Onye Isi Oche, the song to which the now-popular refrain has assumed a life of its own, speaks about the classic mischievousness of the tortoise, who devised a cunning way to capture the elephant who was wanted by the king over his indiscretions. Using wit, the tortoise lured the elephant to the palace by misleading him into thinking he was being appointed as the chairperson of a famous festival.

Owing to their unique shared experiences and the misrepresentation of history against them, the South-Easterners mostly preserved their culture from one generation to another orally – as such they became storytellers by default. Mike Ejeagha belongs to the prestigious pantheon of Akuko-na-egwu (story-in-music) that includes Chief Dennis Osadebe, Jim Rex Lawson, Onyeka Onwenu, Oliver De Coque and Flavour N’abania. I remember going through my dad’s vinyl records that year, it made me look up Bright Chimezie’s song, African Style and his signature Zigima moves. He shared his hilarious adventures in Oyibo man’s country (Ala bekee) where foreigners called the cops on him while eating ogbono soup because, in his words, they thought, “The black man wey dey here is committing suicide o!”

The narrations in their music made us realise that it is wrong to put out content mindlessly. Tell a compelling story that will make the content stand the test of time, like Mike Ejeagha’s gwo gwo gwo ngwo.

Value or Vibes? Na Collabo!

Originality works for me, why I no go show? No be lie! There are times when I create content to educate and other times it’s to entertain. Most times I do both because I realise I can walk and chew gum simultaneously. I know how to be bourgeoisie and also be ratchet – anyhow e be, I go play my part. As much as I have a niche, I also show my range on a variety of topics as I have done recently: faith, culture, music, movies, geopolitics, and sports entertainment. One mistake most content creators make is to litter their work with buzz words without depth; once people realise that you’re just riding the wave, they will move on. Buzzwords are not a replacement for great content; they should be the icing on the cake and not the cake itself.

Jira! Jira!! Jira!!!

Every content creator should have a signature; whether it’s overt or covert; there must be certain features that stand you out from others. It could be how you talk, how you dress, a certain phrase you use or how you edit your videos. Dan Bello has a signature phrase for his TikTok videos, “Jira! Jira!! Jira!!!” If you watch any of his skits and you don’t hear that phrase, you somewhat become disappointed. A signature could also be niche content like politics, health, food, business and technology. One of my signatures is intelligence, regardless of what the topic is, I do my best to share intelligent submissions on the subject. It doesn’t necessarily mean that I am always right, it just means you can count on me to put an intelligent spin on my thoughts and not to insult the sensibilities of my audience by putting out pedestrian arguments. A brand is a promise to internal and external stakeholders that they will consistently find congruence between the expectation and experience of a product.

RRR

Real recognises real. Although we throw the words around a lot, there is really nothing like a global audience – at best we are creating content for core and peripheral audiences. One of the ways you know a master storyteller is his or her use of language because messaging tells me what demography your content is designed for. Communication requires emotional intelligence; your choice of language, whether formal or colloquial, is a nod to your target market. A register is a peculiar vocabulary that applies to specific communities, once you know how to navigate it. Don’t get me wrong, 99% of my writing that you never get to see (as a ghostwriter) is strictly formal because it borders mostly on corporate communications. However, when creating content for phone-pressing demography, I switch it up. Nobody wants to go on the internet and read a dissertation. So whether I am being serious or jonzing, there is a method to the madness.

The Lifestyle Cost But Some Clients No Know

See what you do from three perspectives: art, business and politics. For example, football is not just a sport (art), it’s more of a business and it’s also being used for image laundering or public relations (politics). After creating content that makes sense, you have to ensure it makes money. Charging clients for your work is very important; you must have a scientific pricing model. Know your competence level and what your skillset commands in the marketplace. Learn to deconstruct the value proposition to clients so that they see paying you as an investment, not a cost. In this country wey billing dey everywhere and inflation no be your mate, you have to be active when selling yourself because these days even one million no dey last again. You can even sign up with a talent management company just like Layi Wasabi is plugged into Penzaarville Africa so you can focus on churning out content while experts take care of business for you.

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Growing up as a child in the 90s, we spoke our native language fluently. It was the official language of communication in our home, neighbourhood, church and market. There was no special effort towards inculcating the Igbo into our everyday life; it was simply a part of it. Interestingly, being grounded in our local language helped us learn and express ourselves in English better. It helped build our confidence in who we were and also indirectly taught us about other ethnic groups in Nigeria because they had a different language from ours.

As we celebrate International Literacy Day 2024 with the theme, “Promoting Multilingual Education: Literacy for Mutual Understanding and Peace,” I find myself reflecting on the situation in Nigeria. Nigeria is a vibrant and culturally diverse nation, boasting over 250 ethnic groups and about 525 native languages. Yet, despite this rich linguistic and cultural heritage, our native dialects are rarely used to educate the younger generation, which is a notable contrast from our childhood days. This disconnection from our indigenous languages is alarming because it threatens the gradual eradication of local languages and cultures in future generations.

Growing up, I was taught in English, just like the majority of Nigerian children today. English is the official language of instruction in schools, businesses, and government, and in recent years, there has also been a surge in interest in foreign languages such as French and Mandarin. Our children, it seems, are becoming increasingly globalised, often more fluent in these foreign tongues than in their native dialects. While fluency in multiple languages is undoubtedly beneficial, there is an undeniable cost when it comes at the expense of one’s mother tongue.

The languages of our ancestors are not only modes of communication but also repositories of our collective history, traditions, and worldview. Every Nigerian dialect carries with it centuries of wisdom, cultural values and core identity. By failing to promote multilingual education that includes indigenous languages, we risk losing an essential part of ourselves. This loss not only affects our identity but also weakens the very fabric that binds us together as ethnic groups and as a nation.

We need to recognise the importance of promoting literacy in our local languages alongside the global languages that open opportunities for Nigerians in the international community. Multilingual education fosters mutual understanding, respect for diversity and, ultimately, peace. In a country like Nigeria, where ethnic and religious tensions have been a persistent challenge, promoting mutual understanding through language could be a crucial step toward national unity.

Imagine if every Nigerian child could fluently speak their native language alongside English and other international languages. They would not only be multilingual but also deeply connected to their roots. Such a child would grow up with a sense of pride in their cultural identity while also being equipped with the skills needed to thrive in the global economy. Moreover, the ability to communicate across different Nigerian languages would foster greater empathy and understanding between the diverse ethnic groups in our country.

There is also a cognitive benefit to multilingual education. Research has shown that children who grow up learning multiple languages develop better problem-solving skills, enhanced creativity, and improved cognitive flexibility. Multilingualism broadens their minds and helps them see the world from different perspectives — something that is desperately needed in a country as diverse as ours.

But how can we ensure that future generations of Nigerians do not lose touch with their linguistic heritage?

One approach is to integrate local languages into our formal education system. Currently, most schools, especially in urban areas, focus primarily on English, with little to no instruction at all in local dialects. By introducing indigenous languages as part of the school curriculum, especially in the early years of education and giving it adequate attention, we can help children become fluent in both their mother tongue and other languages. Teachers could be trained to teach these languages, and learning materials could be developed to support them.

Beyond the classroom, parents and communities also play a critical role. In many Nigerian homes, English has become the dominant language spoken, even in families where both parents speak a local dialect. As parents, we need to be intentional about speaking our native language to our children, encouraging them to use it in daily conversation and take pride in their linguistic heritage.

As we celebrate International Literacy Day, I urge Nigerians to reflect on the significance of our indigenous languages and the role they play in fostering understanding and peace. Let’s not allow globalisation and the dominance of English and other international languages to overshadow the languages that make Nigeria unique. By promoting multilingual education that includes our native dialects, we can preserve our cultural heritage, promote national unity, and equip future generations with the tools they need to navigate an increasingly interconnected world. Literacy, after all, is not just about the ability to read and write; it is about understanding, communication, and connection. It is about preserving the stories of our past while building bridges to a brighter, more inclusive future.

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There’s so much that can be achieved in 24 hours, even though it often feels like 24 hours isn’t enough to accomplish to achieve our goals and highest aspirations. While some people underachieve in 24 hours, others achieve great results by maximising every hour. Many key factors, if balanced and properly implemented, can help anyone achieve great results in 24 hours.

Start the Day Inspired

How you start the day is crucial. For religious individuals, it might involve prayer or communication with God. Regardless of your religious beliefs, it’s important to start the day with a practice that leaves you feeling inspired and ready to embrace whatever the day brings—both the good and the challenging. Each day brings different experiences, and starting with inspiration prepares you mentally to face and succeed. If your day starts well, being inspired helps maintain momentum without becoming complacent. If unexpected challenges arise, staying inspired keeps you resilient when others might become pessimistic. Always begin your day with inspiration because it shapes how the day unfolds.

Get into Action Immediately

It’s easy to get sidetracked by social media, chats, or even family interactions. As enjoyable as these distractions are, they can delay you, causing time to slip by and some goals to become unachievable for the day. There are certain emails you can’t send at certain times, calls you can’t make, and meetings you can’t attend. Timing is everything. It’s important to act immediately. This might mean getting ready quickly or diving straight into work upon arriving at the office—whatever this means for you. It’s crucial to move into action immediately after finding inspiration.

Time Every Activity

If you need to pray, meditate, or engage in any practice to find inspiration, there should be a set duration and a consistent time each day. Whether it’s 10 minutes or 2 hours, it should be timed. Your work hours, too, must be scheduled, as well as your breaks. While many workplaces have defined work hours, self-imposed timing fosters discipline and ensures you accomplish everything within your work period. Focus on producing excellent results during work hours. It’s also important to allocate time for family and rest. Once you establish a specific sleep schedule, adhere to it strictly. Unless it’s crucial, do not alter your family time or sleep routine. How early you sleep impacts how refreshed you feel the next day. Also, set aside time for leisure, even if it’s just 30 minutes. Leisure could include browsing the internet or engaging in any other enjoyable and lawful activity.

Overcome Recurrent Challenges

Identifying and overcoming recurring challenges is essential. For instance, if there’s a goal that consistently unsettles you, you must tackle it so your days become smoother and more productive. The aim each day should be to conquer these persistent obstacles so they no longer hinder you. To solve a problem that others have addressed, research the issue and how it was resolved. Whether the challenge is traffic, navigating rain, or dealing with a difficult boss, there’s a solution for every problem. Be courageous in taking steps toward these solutions, even if they seem unconventional. It might be wiser to move to a smaller apartment closer to work than to risk being late every day and potentially losing your job. It could be more beneficial to leave a job with costly commuting expenses and seek a lower-paying remote position. Resolving ongoing challenges frees you to focus on the core tasks of the day and accomplish them.

Be Realistic

Being realistic is important. You know yourself and your routine. You understand your strengths and weaknesses. Set alarms when needed, keep your commitments, and establish consequences. Find an accountability partner and create a practical schedule. For instance, if you perform better early in the morning, arriving at work early will help you achieve more. To make this happen, your inspirational practices might need to occur even earlier. It may also require leaving home earlier if you commute. Don’t allocate 2 hours for family time when you only have 30 minutes. If 30 minutes is all you have, maximise it and make up for it on the weekends. Keep the end goal in mind. The purpose of all this is to help you achieve your life goals, which is what you and everyone who cares about you want for you. The more you succeed daily, the closer you get to realising your life goals and destiny. Meanwhile, in all this, ensure your sleep schedule remains unaffected.

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In an interview with Channels, Nigeria’s minister for education, Professor Tahir Mamman declared that “underage” students will not be allowed to sit for the examinations held by the West African Examination Council (WAEC) and National Examination Council (NECO) which would deny the students to seek university admission at an early age. According to his analysis, the prerequisite age to write the Unified Tertiary Matriculation Examination (UTME) is 18, therefore secondary school students are expected to graduate at the age of 17 and a half. While the minister’s breakdown analysis appears straightforward, it is rather flawed.

The minister’s stance raises significant concerns about the priorities of Nigeria’s education system. While the intent might be to ensure maturity before entering university, the reality is that many students in Nigeria complete secondary school before they turn 15. Which is not even a problem; it’s a result of the educational and cultural dynamics in the country. For instance, it’s common for parents to enrol their children in school at an early age, particularly if they show early academic promise. By enforcing an age limit on examinations like WAEC and NECO, the government is delimiting students for their academic capabilities. It contradicts the principles of merit and hard work that should underpin the education system. Instead of celebrating and nurturing young talents, the system seems more intent on stifling them.

While the minister is focused on regulating the age of university admission, there are far more pressing concerns in the education sector that demand attention. Schools across the country are struggling with inadequate infrastructure, lack of teaching materials, and underpaid teachers. These are the issues that should be at the forefront of educational reform, not whether a 16-year-old is mature enough to enter university.

But that’s not the issue. My issue is what appears to be more flawed in the minister’s analysis which is the context he used the term “underage”. A dictionary meaning will not describe underage as the inability to pursue education. It would rather describe it as a person “too young to engage legally” in some activities. Education is not age-bound; you can begin learning as early as a toddler to as old as your last breath.

My concern is how the minister’s analysis fails to address the broader societal context in Nigeria, where early marriage is still prevalent in many parts of the country, and there’s no law criminalising it. According to UNICEF, Nigeria ranks high among the countries with prevalent child marriages. Just earlier this year, a mass wedding was planned for about 100 underage girls. Meanwhile, the minister or any government personnel did not come out to describe the girls as “underage”. Suppose the government is genuinely concerned about the well-being and future of its youth, it should start by applying the same level of scrutiny to practices like child marriage as it does to the age of university admission.

Moreover, the global context shows that age should not be a barrier to academic or professional achievement. Take, for example, 17-year-old Lamine Yamal, who became the youngest player to win the Euros Cup. If Yamal were Nigerian, the minister’s policy would suggest that he is too young even to begin university. Yet, in Spain, his youth is celebrated, not curtailed. This highlights a difference in approach: while other countries nurture and promote young talent, Nigeria’s policies seem to hold them back. It is not unprecedented, which is why the majority of Nigeria’s young brightest leave the country for environments in the global world to nurture their dreams.

Nigeria has a broader issue of misplaced priorities. While the government is focused on regulating the age of university admission, there are pressing concerns in the education sector that demand attention. Schools across the country are struggling with inadequate infrastructure and there are millions of out-of-school children on the streets who need basic education to secure their future. The Unified Tertiary Matriculation Examination is designed to test the knowledge and preparedness of students for higher education. If a student can pass this exam, it should be a clear indication that they are ready to advance, regardless of their age. Denying young students the opportunity to pursue higher education because of their age is not only unfair but also counterproductive. Nigeria has so many problems, a 16-year-old in the university is not one of those problems.

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This week, we’re doing life with Rasaq Malik Gbolahan, one of Nigeria’s finest poets, and cofounder of Àtẹ́lẹwọ́, the first digital journal devoted to publishing work written in the Yorùbá language. Rasaq is the author of the poetry chapbooks Home In This Land, selected for Chapbook Box edited by Kwame Dawes and Chris Abani, and The Other Names of Grief, published by Konya Shamsrumi. He was shortlisted for the Brunel International African Poetry Prize in 2017. He was a finalist for Sillerman’s First Book for African Poets in 2018. Enjoy!

Hey Rasaq. How you are doing today?

Hello. I am doing fine.

Great! Give me a peep into your background and what part of your childhood influenced who you are today

I grew up in Iseyin. My childhood years were characterised by my mother’s passionate telling of stories that mapped my journey through the expansive world of the Yoruba people. My mother grew up in Igbo-Ora, and her father, an Alhaji and the Arowosadini of Igbo-Ora land was a man of the people. Growing up, my mother immersed herself in the reading of Yoruba literature, and this inspired me to read too. Even now, she still returns to some of the books she read in the past. Through her unrivalled zeal for reading and telling these important cultural stories, I felt motivated. In school, my teachers admired the way I read Yoruba texts in class. I remember Mr. Omoni, my Yoruba teacher in JSS 2, praising me in the presence of other students. My late English teacher, Mr. Hamzat motivated me to excel in English class. He would always ask questions in class, and I always tried to answer. There was a time when Baba Adebayo, a former principal, taught us Literature, and we enjoyed it even when he was tough on us. After Baba, Aunty Tosin taught us Literature. She played an indelible role in simplifying poetry for us. My zeal for poetry started in that class full of students reading poems by Kofi Awoonor, Andrew Marvel, John Milton, Timothy Wangusa, D.H. Lawrence, and others. Everything happened in Iseyin. That’s why it is inescapable to feature the town’s name in my narrative as a writer.

So poetry happened and started in Iseyin?

Yes. Yes.

So can you mention some early books that built you as a writer?

I was fortunate to encounter literary texts that grounded me in poetry. In my literature class, we engaged poems like Kofi Awoonor’s “Songs of Sorrow”, Timothy Wangusa’s “A Taxi Driver on His Death”, David Rubadiri’s “An African Thunderstorm”, and John Milton’s “On His Blindness”. It was after reading these poems that I wrote a poem for the late human rights activist, Gani Fawehinmi. I never thought I could write something, but I did and I felt fulfilled. Even when I didn’t have an idea of the literary world beyond my reading of these poems, I still went ahead and celebrated my little win. That event spurred me, set the fire burning, while my undergraduate years at the University of Ibadan tended to the fire. I read voraciously at the university. Poetry unlocked the door of hope to me as I read books that gifted me the light to walk, to reach my dreams. I read poetry collections that include Niyi Osundare’s “Village Voices”, Sola Osofisan’s “Darksongs”, Akeem Lasisi’s “Night of My Flight”, Jumoke Verissimo’s “I am Memory”, and others. These books contributed significantly to my life as a beginner poet. 

What moments made you believe you wanted to be a poet?

In 2017, I was shortlisted for the Brunel International African Poetry Prize. This happened after six years of submitting for the prize. As a result of being on the shortlist, APBF published my poetry chapbook, “Home In This Land” in 2018. Edited by Kwame Dawes and Chris Abani, ABPF has been cardinal to the promotion of African poets. When my manuscript was accepted, Kwame Dawes edited my poems, and he is a meticulous editor. The post-editorial stage was refreshing. My poems were revamped, and what I didn’t pay attention to became important to the possibilities in the poems. I learnt from what Kwame Dawes did in editing my poems that, when I write now, I pay keen attention to the open window of words, and how I can remove or add lines. I don’t rush my poems. I spend weeks/months on editing. I can’t fail to remember that doing the work matters, and it is always the one thing that matters. Also, I met great people through poetry. Being an active netizen, I have posted more poems online than I count. I started sharing my poems on Facebook in 2011. This is 2024, and I never stop sharing poems.

What is that thought about Nigerian literature, as it is often discussed today, that you wish to talk about?

You know, there has been a surge in the number of young Nigerian writers doing the work in recent years. The internet is a marketplace where we all meet and create. Nigerian writers are getting published everywhere. In Nigeria, literary festivals are happening annually. There are book clubs. There is the Ebedi Writers’ Residency founded by Wale Okediran. Imodoye Writers’ Residency is in Ilorin. Nigerian writers are doing MFA abroad. It’s delightful to experience. I have always claimed that the future of Nigerian literature is bright. There are enough testimonies already. Everywhere is filled with our work, our footprints. The growth is tremendous, and I can’t wait for what the years ahead will bring.

Do you think we have more poets and fiction writers in Nigeria than CNF writers?

I think it just depends on what people choose to write. I mean, there is no scarcity of writers in any of these genres. It’s a beautiful thing.

True. Given your years of writing, what would you say success means to you?

Over the years, people have engaged my poems in manifold ways. This is a delight – that somewhere, people are reading my poems, saying something about them. Thus, success to me is when I create poems, when I put my life in pieces that travel to places I have never visited, and when people approach these poems to find light, hope, love, and renewal.

It’s a beautiful feeling when your work travels beyond you

It’s a delightful feeling.

So how does your day go?

I pray. I prepare for the day. I go out with poetry books in my bag. I teach. I teach my students how to write, and how to engage other writers’ works. I tell them how beautiful the world is with all the creative pieces around us. I watch them write, bloom, and survive. I return home to write. I spend hours editing and looking through each line.

You always carry poetry books everywhere?

I mean, poetry is a part of me.

Is there a skill or hobby you picked up in the past year and enjoy?

None. Being a creative writer, I hardly find time for other things. I spend more time searching for new books to buy and read while I also return to books that I love.

One crazy thing you’d do when no one is watching?

Reading. Writing. I don’t think both are crazy things.

Haha, you’re right. They are not crazy. If you were given a grant of $1 million to do whatever you like today, tell us how you’d spend it

Creating a foundation for the needy. It has always been my dream. People need help. Children in the hospitals. Parents struggling to feed their children. People dying. War everywhere. How can I help? Yes, if I have that grant, I will help the needy.

Thank you for being on Doing Life With…, Rasaq Malik

Thank you for having me.

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Many thanks to Rasaq Malik Gbọ́láhàn for having this conversation with us and answering all our questions – and swiftly too, we must add.

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There are numerous reasons why people choose to buy from you, but I will focus on two important ones. Sometimes you see someone driving a long distance to conduct business with a company when there are closer alternatives. In other cases, you find yourself buying a foreign brand even when local options are available. People will pay a premium for a brand you might consider unworthy, even where there are cheaper alternatives. People buy for many reasons—prestige, satisfaction, and price—but two factors inspire customers to buy that are often overlooked by entrepreneurs.

Customers Buy Because They Like You (or Your Brand)

There are iPhone users who will remain loyal to Apple even when the company has a bad year and doesn’t release a great phone. Other brands may launch superior models, but these customers are so attached to the Apple brand that they remain loyal. I’ve had customers stick with me during tough months, even when they had other options. They’ve grown to love me to the point where they can’t abandon me over one bad month. To achieve this, you need to consistently exceed customer expectations. Your share of their loyalty must be so significant that occasional mistakes are overlooked. A price increase might cause a stir, but they will still stay with you.

Beyond exceeding expectations, you must genuinely show that you care. Customers know many businesses treat them like just another number, so they notice when you treat them with special attention. They won’t be swayed by a month or even a year of good treatment; years of consistent care will win them over forever. Some of my clients have been with me for years and have become so accustomed to my service that they’ve forgotten how to look for alternatives. I also experienced this during my time in the oil and gas industry. It’s possible to lose a loyal customer, and the way to do so is simple—let them believe you are no longer on their side. A bad month doesn’t mean you’ve abandoned them, but how you handle that month or their requests can show you’re taking them for granted.

When I retired from my oil and gas industry, I gave my major clients direct access to the market, but they valued our relationship so much that they refused to bypass me, even if it meant saving money. They waited for me to come out of retirement and continue doing business. For two years, I had consistently exceeded their expectations, and they were not willing to take a risk with anyone else.

Customers Buy From You Because They Trust You

Trust is a powerful word. It’s a serious and adult word. You don’t trust inexperienced people. If you say something will work, it must work. You need to know what you’re talking about and demonstrate competence. Trust is earned. If you make a mistake, you need to be honest and correct it. If you err, you must compensate your customers. Doing this consistently over many years will earn you a level of trust that defies reason. It will lead to customers recommending you to their friends and staking their reputation on your reliability. It will make you their go-to person for the solutions you provide.

Customers trust that Apple will never compromise their security. This trust didn’t start with the first iPhone; over the years, customers have observed how Apple protects their privacy compared to other brands, and they firmly believe that the iPhone is the best choice if digital security is a priority.

There are barbers you trust, doctors you trust, and lawyers you trust. It’s even better when you can get customers to both like and trust you, but if I had to choose one, I would pick trust. You might be liked without being awarded the contract, but if you are trusted, you will get it.

There are engineers you trust with your software, gadgets, and vehicles because they will deliver. You will drive miles to see them. You will overlook their shortcomings. You know it’s hard to find their equal. Trust is not just about great skill; it’s about great skill combined with consistent delivery. It’s crucial that once we gain these customers’ trust, we do not break it by failing to maintain our standards.

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I had stepped into my hotel room before I realised it was just mopped. Dirty stains from my slippers trailed behind. Something wilted in me; I felt like I had just ruined someone else’s job even though the room belonged to me for the few days I would spend there. And it’s their daily job to clean it. Yet, I didn’t feel okay anytime it replayed in my head. Since I got into the hotel room, I made sure I left whatever I used almost how I met it: I re-did my bed every morning; I cleaned the sink after brushing my teeth or performing ablution; I tried as much as possible to dust the under of my slippers so I didn’t carry the sand into the room. I don’t know why but I was putting myself in the hotel attendant’s shoes; although it’s their job, no one derives joy from cleaning other people’s mess.

Some days later, I met the man cleaning my room. I greeted and apologised for the mess I made the other day. He was surprised I apologised. He’s been at the job for over 4 years, no one ever thanked him. He never expected it too because it’s his job but he sometimes gets miffed whenever he meets a room poorly used. “Just yesterday,” he said, “I had to clean the WC because the guest did not flush out.” He can’t complain because if he does, he might lose his job.

I have realised that I try as much as I can not to misuse the room anytime I’m lodged in a hotel. It’s ironic because my own house is a tarpaulin of a mess – clothes spend days unfolded and the laundry basket and I do weekly staring competitions before I empty it. But at hotels, apart from hygienic purposes, I prefer to use my towels so I don’t dirty the ones provided. I return anything I might have removed from its original space. Probably there is a part of me that understands that people who offer these services are humans as well. Yes, they get paid, but money does not replace their feelings and emotions.

We should always take a moment to reflect on the impact of our actions on others, especially those who perform services that are often taken for granted. It’s easy to forget that behind every neatly made bed, spotless floor, or clean towel, there’s a person who worked to make it that way. These individuals often go unnoticed, their efforts invisible unless something is amiss. Yet, their labour is an essential part of our comfort and convenience.

This also reminds me about the issue of how we perceive and value different types of work. Cleaning, for instance, is often seen as low-skilled labour, and those who do it are frequently undervalued. Yet, this work is crucial to maintaining the standards of cleanliness and hygiene that we expect. When we fail to recognise this type of labour, it somewhat translates to dehumanisation, where the people doing the work are seen as less important. This is also a reminder that our simple acts of consideration can make a difference in someone else’s day. Acknowledging the work of others, even with something as small as a “thank you” or an apology, can have a significant impact.

In essence, being mindful of how we use spaces and how we treat the people who maintain them is a small but meaningful way to acknowledge the interconnectedness of our lives. It’s about recognising that every job, no matter how menial it might seem, is valuable and deserves respect. And it’s about understanding that our actions, whether at home, in a hotel, or any shared space, contribute to the well-being of others – not just because it’s polite or considerate, but because it’s a way of showing respect for the people who work behind the scenes. It’s a simple yet powerful way to create a more respectful and empathetic society, where everyone’s contributions are recognised and valued.

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Every year, parents face one of their biggest, recurring costs at the end of the long school holiday: school fees. Some parents have planned and saved in advance and are ready for this significant expense, whilst far too many are caught in tight corners, and find themselves struggling to make ends meet. But apart from school fees, there are surrounding issues. As a parent, how do you navigate the tight corners?

Ideally, parents should start planning for the school year well in advance. Shopping early allows you to take advantage of sales and discounts. This is probably the most expensive time to shop for the school year. Indeed, if there are items that your child doesn’t need right away or in several weeks, you might want to wait for when leftover school items are sold at discounted rates. Create a school budget that includes school fees, books, lunch, transportation, uniforms, allowance, and supplies. Prioritise your spending based on your budget and stick to your list while shopping no matter how tempting it may be to overspend. Also, review the school list. Take a close look at the school supplies list and identify items that can be reused from previous terms. You will also find that you do not need every single item on the list.

Can you afford the school fees? The most expensive school isn’t necessarily the best one for your child. Stay within your means. In today’s challenging economic climate, explore scholarship and educational grant opportunities for exceptionally bright and talented children. If necessary, consider more affordable schooling options to avoid financial strain. Be careful not to jeopardise your own livelihood and retirement plans to fund an education you simply cannot afford.

Don’t look down on “hand-me-downs.” Naturally, every child would love to have everything brand new each year but where older siblings or cousins attended the same school, it makes perfect sense to use hand-down uniforms if in good condition, even if you can afford to buy new ones. This is not the time to feel too big or too proud to reuse items that have already been worn but remain in good condition. Some parents organise a clothing swap with other parents to exchange gently used items and refresh the children’s school wardrobe without breaking the bank.

Buy in bulk. For households with multiple school-aged children, buying school supplies in bulk can be cost-effective. Single-child families can consider pooling resources with others to save on basic supplies. If you buy too much, the items may go to waste as they will get lost, lent out, given away, misplaced, or just never used.

Quality pays over the long run. It is tempting to buy a cheap school bag, lunch box or water bottle, but what may seem cost-effective now will just fall apart in no time. Invest in high-quality, durable school supplies. It pays to spend a little more on good quality, sturdy items that can last. Quality and durability are more important than being trendy or having the “latest” version. 

Keeping up with the Joneses is a major issue in our society. Children face enormous peer pressure and will interact with other children who have much more than they do. As a parent, take the time to talk through these challenging social issues to build their confidence. Foster accountability. This offers an opportunity to teach children about looking after their belongings. They should learn to be accountable for their possessions. Create an inventory of items they take to school. You might wish to reward them for taking good care of their belongings and encourage them to reuse items in good condition.

Extra-curricular activities are a critical aspect of your children’s education; they help children develop and nurture their skills and talents. They do come at significant cost though, so you do need to prioritise them to prevent undue pressure and financial strain.  Choose activities that align with their interests and talents; this is a great opportunity to identify those exceptional skills that will repay them throughout their lives. 

Look out for free or low-cost activities in your community. Some churches, social clubs and Non-Governmental Organisations (NGOs) offer affordable activity options outside of school. Parents can also be proactive about coming together to host one club or another for a small group of friends including swimming, chess, karate and others.

Before your children go back to school, a general health check is important – eyes, teeth, and general health to avert any festering problems. The premium on a family medical and dental insurance plan is a small price to pay to ensure that they have access to the best medical care. For day students, homemade meals are more nutritious than the fast-food alternatives, so make this a priority for their daily lunch.

Consider carpooling for the daily school run as well as for extracurricular school activities, after-school events or sports practices. There may be parents with children in the same school that live close. With carpooling, parents take turns taking children to the same school with huge savings on fuelling and running costs as well as freeing up some time from the hectic school run. For boarders, carpooling is also a good option for exeats, visiting days and holidays. Draw up a schedule with other parents and share the journey to cut costs on long-distance travel. The shared responsibility often builds long-term family friendships and bonds. 

Back-to-school money matters do not have to be stressful or overwhelming. With long-term education planning, you can reduce the pressure and navigate the financial aspects of the new academic year with ease. The incredible legacy of education should be a pleasure and not a burden.

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Rebecca Akindunjoye

Seyi Akinwunmi

In Abeokuta, Ogun State, Kuta Arts Foundation held its first 2024 art exhibition opening for the art community in the state. The exhibition was held on Friday, July 5th and Saturday, July 6th, 2024, with a series of cultural activities marking the opening of the art exhibition which ran till August 31st, 2024. 

The exhibition, themed “Super Nature,” is a unique showcase that celebrates the works of two cohorts of fellows from the Kuta Art Residency 2024. The exhibition features a diverse collection of art created over 17 weeks by 10 artists who participated in the studio and housing program for emerging and mid-career artists based in ‘rock city’. The exhibition weekend kicked off with a documentary film screening on the 5th of July at 4 pm at Nest by Kuta in Abeokuta, Ogun State. This was followed by an exhibition opening on the 6th of July at HSP Gallery, Totoro, Abeokuta.

Super Nature is a vibrant expression of resonance with and awareness of the extraordinary nature of the times. With the heightening pressures of living in a society challenged by changing climates environmentally, socially, politically, and economically, this exhibition showcases the optimism that is shared in a community where comradery, sisterhood, and art-making thrive. A reflection and product of art as a language for not only resilience but also praise and prophecy. 

Itunu Omotosho

This showcase is a joint presentation featuring works from 10 artists. With batiks rooted in cultural dialogues, sculptures calling for solidarity, and wools touching on feminine agency, among others, this exhibition offers an intricate buffet of dialogues on issues that are a part of the fabric of what we know as life, provoking thoughts about the intricate bonds that connect women, cultures, society, and the world at large.

Chinecherem Ifedilichukwu

Jadesola Olaniyan

From Faith Omole’s bold manifesto on feminine consciousness through symbolism, Olaniyan Jadesola’s use of cool colours; nodding at nature and how we are defined by our environment, Itunu and diverse exploration of the strength of community and collective memory to Rebecca’s portrayal of the strong black woman and Priscilla’s subject of nostalgia from childhood to adolescence through portraitures made with textile and ink. Peace and Obiwuru Esthe‘s exploration of culture via fashion and music, and Ololade Lawal’s story of reconciliation with Abeokuta through acrylic following a prolonged disconnect after the loss of her only connection with the soil (her grandmother). Through their diverse practices, these artists evoke a profound reflection on the interconnectedness of our world and the super nature that permeates it.

Faith Omole

Priscilla Akinremi

Kuta Arts Foundation was founded by Benita Nnenna Nnachortam in 2016 in Abeokuta and incorporated with co-founders Oluwakayode Adebiyi and Oluwaseun (Semic) Adeyemi in 2019. The foundation is empowering young artists and cultural workers in Nigeria by fostering art education, creative expression, and community development. Through establishing safe spaces for learning, cultural exchange, and creative practice, Kuta Arts Foundation is equipping youths to make social change and economic development through the arts thereby promoting value for indigenous craftsmanship, cultural heritage, and preservation.

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Chadwick Boseman made an indelible mark with his most regal role in the first instalment of the Black Panther franchise. He didn’t just body the T’Challa role, he owned it. It is said that art imitates life, I could also argue that the reverse is valid. A great story is multi-layered; the Black Panther movie certainly captured many poignant themes and subplots. On this anniversary of Chadwick’s passing, I elected to interrogate his leadership signature especially juxtaposed against that of his arch nemesis, N’Jadaka (Erik Killmonger). I found these scenes look too much like real life, for real.

The Origin Story

The Black Panther movie starts with Prince N’Jobu acquiescing to the curiosity of his young son, N’Jadaka, by telling him a story about the founding of their homeland. N’Jobu was on a War Dog assignment in the United States of America and his son had seen enough to question the decision of Wakandans in the diaspora to live under deep shadow conditions constantly. Fast forward into the not-too-far future, N’Jobu is personally confronted by his elder brother, T’Chaka, who is also the King of Wakanda at the time over the treasonous charge of conniving with notorious criminal and black market arms dealer, Ulysses Klaue, to infiltrate Wakanda and steal a quarter ton of vibranium at the expense of innocent lives. After initially denying the charges, King T’Challa demands that N’Jobu’s associate Zuri, who goes by the alias, James, blow his cover by uniquely identifying himself through iridescent inner mouth markings as a Wakandan spy. In his fury, N’Jobu draws a gun at James but not before T’Chaka intercepts him and fatally pierces his own brother’s chest with five panther claws. The king tells James to keep the event a secret as they scurry from the crime scene in the royal talon. As they say in law enforcement circles, “the cover-up is always worse than the crime”. N’Jadaka comes into the apartment to meet his father’s lifeless body and unknown to anybody, a monster had just been born. He would become the proverbial chicken that comes home to roost in the future. The lesson here for leaders is to identify and engage discontent in its infancy; ignoring legitimate agitation is not a smart political strategy.

An Unholy Alliance

Aside from being a rogue mercenary, Klaue had a personal vendetta with Wakanda since a former Black Panther killed his grandfather. On his part, Prince N’Jobu is livid with Wakanda’s conservative foreign policy; he is not the biggest fan of the hiding-in-plain-sight strategy when in his words his people needed “the tools to fight back”. He was clearly disgruntled over how people who looked like him were being oppressed in the Western world. Side note: many aficionados in the Marvel Cinematic Universe argue that this was a brilliant play on history; a veiled reference to the Black Panther – a revolutionary organization with an ideology of Black Nationalism and armed self-defence especially against police brutality. Similar sentiments are also echoed by W’Kabi, the Chief Warrior of the Border tribe. Losing both parents to that assault on the homeland by Klaue provided added motivation to support the use of Wakanda’s weapons against foreign nations. Unfortunately, N’Jobu’s death didn’t stop N’Jadaka, his now grown-up and more sophisticated son who went by the moniker, Killmonger. Killmonger would link up with his father’s partner in crime to plan an encore incursion of Wakanda. Although Klaue would tragically return to Wakanda in a body bag the whole scenario underscores how much people who claim they are on a mission to right a perceived wrong end up committing more atrocities. The lesson here is for people to interrogate leaders who in their quest for power, don’t mind forging alliances with forces that are hostile to the homeland. The rise of Manchurian kings isn’t just fiction, it is more factual than you think.

No Friends, No Enemies – Only Interests

This sentiment drives the foreign policy of most leading nations on the planet; it’s nothing personal. CIA agent and former Deputy Task Force Commander for the Joint Counter Terrorist Centre, Everett Ross, is a very interesting character. Not just because he is a very charismatic and personable figure but more importantly, he is connected to the major actors in this saga. Previously, for handing over Zemo, who was responsible for the bombing that killed King T’Chaka, Ross gave T’Challa a diplomatic pass and kept the existence of his bullet-proof catsuit classified. However, Ross was in Busan to buy stolen vibranium from Klaue just as T’Challa was in Busan to capture Klaue and extradite him to Wakanda to answer for his crimes – two opposed missions. T’Challa told his team that he had just, “spotted an old friend who works for the CIA. It just got a little more complicated.” He was effectively telling them that although he and Ross had a cordial relationship, he knew Ross was at the casino to advance his own country’s strategic interests. How right he was because Ross tells his team moments later, “The King of Wakanda is here. He cannot leave with Klaue.” Finally, when Ross is revived at a Wakandan lab headed by Shuri, his interests begin to shift and this is evident by how he starts saying the quiet part out loud about Killmonger not being a Wakandan but known to the CIA as Erik Stevens who joined a JSOC ghost unit as a black operative, which goes off-grind and amongst many other things, “take down governments”. The lesson here for patriots is to understand better foreign policy not just of their nations but that of others, you may end up making different but mutually beneficial alliances – it’s nothing personal.

Criticism Doesn’t Equal Competence

Killmonger shows up in Wakanda with the body of Klaue; a gift that triggers a sense of ability on his part and justice for those who suffered loss from Klaue’s terrorism. W’Kabi is plugged into this opp because Killmonger does what neither T’Challa nor his father could do – bringing Klaue back to Wakanda. Could Killmonger fight like hell? Yes. Was he of royal blood? Yes. Was he the king that Wakanda needed? No. Killmonger’s words and actions support my sentiments after he challenged T’Challa to a ritual combat. Red flag: Killmonger says at the Council Chambers, “I want the throne!” Upon interrogation by the king, he regurgitates the worldview that his own father, N’Jadaka had instilled in him, “there are about two billion around the world that look like us; their lives are a lot harder – Wakanda has the tools to liberate them all”. T’Challa responds that Wakanda’s weapons won’t be used to wage war on the world because it wasn’t Wakanda’s foreign policy to be “judge, jury and executioner”. T’Challa further defends his conservative approach by stating that he wasn’t king of all people but King of Wakanda. There is a thin line between disruption and destruction; he may have been charismatic but very quickly, N’Jadaka showed his disdain for the rule of law and conventional wisdom that had steered Wakanda to stability and success. Once he became king, everything went south; notably burning the royal garden where the sacred heart-shaped herb was grown so that no other king after him would have access to them. N’Jadaka wanted the mantles of the king but failed to live up to the utmost responsibility of being the Protector of Wakanda. The lesson here is for us to be circumspective when demanding change and be careful what we ask because we might just get it.

Save Your Country or Serve Your Country?

A short but powerful scene captures a very instructive conversation between Nakia and Okoye; Nakia is a spy while Okoye is a soldier – this explains their perspectives on their loyalty to Wakanda and the emergence of Killmonger as king. Nakia submits that Killmonger is an illegitimate king who overthrew T’Challa, Okoye on the other hand insists that Killmonger was of royal blood and he defeated T’Challa in ritual combat. Nakia wants to start a revolution but she needs Okoye, Wakanda’s greatest warrior to lead the charge. Okoye rejects this idea of a revolution and opts for a resolution instead, insisting that she is “loyal to that throne no matter who sits on it”. She wants Nakia to serve her country but Nakia would rather save her country. However, once Killmonger sits on the throne, Okoye gets a front-row seat due to his warped thinking and his willingness to upend the socio-political order. The last straw for her and the Dora Milaje is when T’Challa makes a shocking appearance; effectively creating a constitutional crisis because the ritual combat is only decided after one person yields or is killed – T’Challa being alive immediately makes Killmonger’s position as king untenable. Of course, Killmonger believes the Challenge is over to which Okoye finally gets an epiphany and replies to him, “You’re not fit to be a king!” This is the conversation patriots need to have, the need to understand that patriotism is loyalty to the country, not the government or worse – any politician.

Baba? Nyana Wam!

In his first journey into the ancestral plane, T’Challa meets T’Chaka, dotes on him and seeks counsel on how to be a great king. Here, T’Challa comes as a son to meet the former king. However, on his second journey into the ancestral plane, T’Challa comes as a king to meet his father. There is a seismic shift in the tone of their conversation as a result of what Zuri told T’Challa over the dark secret of killing Prince N’Jobu and abandoning N’Jakada in America. Perhaps, back then T’Chaka couldn’t spill the tea on family matters to his young son because he was really trying to keep it PG. In his words, “he was the truth I chose to omit”. This is when T’Challa looks at his father whom he adores and tells him “You were wrong!” More importantly, T’Challa questions Wakanda’s erstwhile foreign policy as practised by the pantheon of past Black Panthers, “all of you were wrong to turn your backs on the rest of the world! We let the fear of our discovery stop us from doing what is right. No more!” This uncomfortable yet necessary conversation lays the groundwork, not only for T’Challa to recover the mantles of King and Black Panther but also to overhaul Wakanda’s foreign policy fundamentally.

This scene is very personal to me because it reminds me of my biological father, a traditional man who, fortunately, understood the assignment that he had to raise transitional children. As such tête-à-têtes are a signature of our relationship with which we discuss the differences in our generational perspectives. In Africa, there is much discouragement against questioning elders, especially by young people even when things are not working, it is seen in many quarters as disrespectful. I get it that young people can display exuberance in their correspondence so I don’t hold brief for everybody. Yet, T’Challa shows us that we can respect our elders and still tell them when they are wrong – those two truths can co-exist. Tradition is a wonderful thing until it stops progress.

T’Challa will always be in our hearts. Wakanda forever!

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Khalil Gibran said, “Let there be space in your togetherness.” This, to me, explains how I believe a relationship should flourish.

When I got into a relationship with my husband 22 years ago, my understanding of a relationship was one where you were supposed to be consumed with each other. You were to spend each waking moment thinking of them. If you were not thinking about them, you should be with them. I was a 19-year-old with stars in her eyes. I became older and found out I needed some semblance of space. Did that mean I did not love him or grew weary of him? I still loved him but wanted some “me-time”. 11 years in, I came across Khalil Gibran’s works where I found the quoted line. 22 years in, I now understand clearly.

In the rhythm of life, we often find ourselves dancing between the poles of intimacy and independence. It’s a balance that requires both partners in any relationship to navigate with care. The desire to be close, to be intimately known and understood, is a fundamental human need. But equally essential is the space to breathe, to reflect, and to simply be.

Imagine a garden where every plant is given room to grow. Some reach toward the sun, others spread their roots deep into the earth. Each one thrives in its own way, contributing to the overall beauty of the garden. A relationship is much like this garden —each person must be allowed the space to grow in their own direction, to pursue their own interests, and to cultivate their own strengths. It is the combination of individual strengths blossoming in a relationship that transforms into something truly vibrant and resilient.

When we cling too tightly to one another, we risk stifling the growth that comes from solitude and self-reflection. In the rush to share every thought, every moment, we may overlook the quiet truths that surface only in stillness. Silence and solitude are not the enemies of connection; they are the soil where deeper understanding and empathy grow.

Apart from romantic relationships, platonic relationships with our friends and colleagues also fall into the discourse. Consider the ocean, vast, limitless and deep. Two ships can sail upon it, each with its own destination, yet they share the same waters. They may sail side by side for a time, then drift apart as the currents dictate, always knowing that the ocean will bring them together again when the time is right. In the same way, relationships thrive when each person is free to explore their own journey, secure in the knowledge that the bond they share is strong enough to weather any distance.

This very space in togetherness also allows for a richer, more textured and flavoured relationship. When we have the freedom to explore our own thoughts, dreams, and challenges, we bring new perspectives and experiences back to the relationship. These moments of individuality fuel the conversations that keep the connection alive and dynamic. They prevent stagnation and encourage continuous growth, both as individuals and as partners.

Ultimately, to allow space in your togetherness is to embrace the full spectrum of human experience; to acknowledge that love is not about possession, but about freedom. It is about recognising that we are each on our own journey, even as we walk side by side. In that recognition, we find not just love, but respect — a respect for ourselves and for the ones we cherish.

So, let there be space in your togetherness, not as a way to create distance, but as a way to cultivate a love that is expansive, enduring and true. In this space, you will find the strength to weather any storm and the joy of rediscovering one another time and again, each time with a renewed appreciation for the unique and beautiful souls you are.

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Writing this is influenced by Lawrence Yeo‘s article on how our reaction to an awareness forms our identity. The article explores the difference between data and information and how curiosity plays a major role in what determines each of them. Data remains data when it does not pique our interest in further research. For instance, according to Yeo, South Korea has an obesity rate of 4%. Some immediately rush to Google to find out if that is true or false. Some research deeper into how South Korea achieved that and how that can be compared to other countries. And for some, they read and move on, even if until right now, they didn’t know about the data. The reaction to that data determines whether it remains data or becomes information. Data does not necessarily need to inform you, it’s meant to support facts. But it can become information when it drives you to know more and more about the discourse.

But this article is not about data and information; it is about reaction, which is the base of the two.

One conclusion in Yeo’s article is how our identity is formed through the information we’ve consumed, which occurs through our reaction to it. When someone appears to be intelligent or wise, it is because of what they’ve consumed over the years — the books they’ve read, the conversations they’ve had, the experiences they’ve encountered. But what makes them who they are is their initial reaction to what they have consumed. When they see a book, their reaction towards it is to read it. When they find themself in a circle where brilliant conversation is held, they engage. All of what they become occurs through this reaction and interaction.

However, beyond the upper layer of identity or information intake, Yeo’s article made me wonder how our reaction to events or circumstances can also predict their aftermath. Every day, we encounter situations that require our reaction or attention within minutes. People say mean and nice things to us and we react based on what they’ve told us. But beyond or before reacting to things, what if we break them into tiny bits to explore the situations around them?

In the Qur’an, the tale of Musa and Khidr encapsulates this discourse. Musa asked Khidr if he could follow him to learn some of the wisdom that Khidr had acquired. Throughout their journey, Musa repeatedly questioned Khidr’s actions, unable to understand the underlying reasons behind them. Khidr, with his deeper insight, foresaw the outcomes of situations in ways Musa couldn’t grasp at the moment. This story illustrates the importance of perspective and understanding the broader context before reacting.

These days, I have observed that we are fast-reactionary than we should be. In my over two decades of existence, I have unprecedentedly witnessed the rush in our reactions. We want to respond quickly to a certain message. We immediately feel hurt when someone says something unusual to us. We get angry when we are delayed. We get over-excited when we receive a signal that something we’ve always wanted is coming to pass.

But what if we pause to dissect situations, understanding the hidden layers and potential outcomes before jumping to conclusions or actions? What if we pause and reason why someone said what they’ve said to us? What if we simply pause and observe how a discussion on social media will pan out instead of joining the bandwagon? What if we wait and see if our approach could lead to more measured responses, ultimately influencing the course of events in ways we might not have anticipated?

This does not take away moments that immediately need us to be fast-reactionary – when you need to insert the OTP before the minutes elapse; when you need to switch off the stove before the food burns and other similar situations that need us to be fast and quick. But some situations permit us to restrain and reflect, allowing us to react in an informed manner because we have dissected and broken situations into possible pieces.

Moreover, reflective thinking plays a crucial role in shaping our personal growth. When faced with challenges or new information, the impulse to react immediately can overshadow the opportunity for reflection. Reflective thinking encourages us to take a step back, consider multiple perspectives, and evaluate the potential consequences of our actions. By cultivating this habit, we not only improve our decision-making process but also enhance our ability to learn from our experiences. This deliberate pause for reflection can be the difference between impulsiveness, thoughtfulness and constructiveness. When we allow ourselves the time to process not just what is being said, but the intent behind it, we open ourselves up to a deeper level of communication. That can transform a mere exchange of words into a significant dialogue that benefits everyone involved.

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Like many things I was oblivious to, I did not know anything about Big Brother Naija many years ago. If I had not found myself working in digital media, I might not have been as familiar with the show as I am now. I knew it was a reality show. I knew when students in my university cramped into a single hall to watch what I now know as the eviction show. I used to hear loud noises from that hall whenever something eventful happened or perhaps, their favourite housemate was evicted. But I was never interested. To me, it was just another show like Game of Thrones or Star Wars that I might not bother to watch.

I wasn’t alone. I had friends who weren’t interested too. But the difference between me and these friends is that I wasn’t critical of the show. My friends hated the show because, they said, it distracts people from the country’s realities. I do not agree. I don’t believe a reality show – among the numerous mediums of entertainment in Nigeria – has much impact on us to forget our reality as a nation and people. For the past few years, Nigeria has experienced unrelenting socio-economic and political volatility. Even when you want to remain apathetic or apolitical, the harsh economic situation jolts you back into reality, one that a show like Big Brother Naija cannot alienate you from.

Yes, Nigerians are neck deep in the rising high cost of living. Things are hard and expensive. Inflation is strangling necks and tightening bellies. People are hungry. Lives are in danger. The unemployment rate keeps bumping up. Fuel costs are expensive. Living is becoming more difficult day by day. Yes, these are known facts but we can watch the show and still be critical of our government. We can be entertained while being politically conscious. The two are not mutually exclusive.

It is okay if discussions that emerge from the show do not touch on real societal issues like gender roles, relationships, and even the economy. But we must remember that it’s not Big Brother Naija’s responsibility to solve Nigeria’s problems. The show is designed for entertainment, and it does just that. Expecting a reality TV show to address the nation’s issues is a misplaced demand. People also say things like, “I cannot sit on my screens to watch other people,” but we also watch and go gaga over football or concerts. Every show is established for those interested. If you are not interested in following or watching the show, that’s a choice that no one will fault you for holding. You shouldn’t fault others for holding otherwise too.

Some people also complain that Big Brother Naija dominates their social media timelines, filling their feeds with content they’d rather not see. But in the age of algorithms, we have more control than ever over what we consume. If the show’s content is not to your taste, you can mute the hashtags, unfollow the accounts, or simply scroll past. The digital world is vast and diverse, catering to everyone’s interests. Complaining about Big Brother Naija taking up space on your timeline is you underutilising the tools at your disposal to curate your online experience.

I don’t consider it a fair critique to say that BBNaija diverts people’s attention from pressing national issues. Entertainment has always existed alongside societal challenges, and it is equally as important as political or economic issues. People need entertainment, not just to survive but to feel human, to connect, and to experience joy. The fact that Nigerians still find time to watch Big Brother Naija despite the country’s economic difficulties speaks to the fact that the show is meeting their need to be entertained and socially connected.  In the end, Big Brother Naija is a reflection of the society that consumes it. It may not be everyone’s cup of tea, but it serves a purpose. It brings joy, ignites conversations, and, for a few weeks, provides a shared experience in a country often divided by so much. Those who criticise it for being a distraction must also acknowledge the importance of distractions in a world that often feels overwhelming.

Big Brother Naija will keep airing, no matter what. If your values or religion does not share a familiarity with the show’s, the easy response is to ignore it. The show’s very existence might seem like a snub to the “seriousness” of the situation of the country, but perhaps the real affront is the expectation that people should be in a constant state of anxiety, never allowing themselves a moment of reprieve. In a country where survival often feels like a full-time job, a little entertainment is not just a distraction, it’s a necessity. Let people enjoy what they want, please.

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Over the years, Nigeria has witnessed a remarkable transformation in its real estate sector, fueled by the strategic development of its infrastructure. As the country continues to progress, the relationship between infrastructure and real estate has become increasingly evident, shaping the way Nigerians live, work, and invest.

Infrastructure, the backbone of any thriving economy, has played a significant role in the growth and development of Nigeria’s real estate market. From the construction of new highways and bridges to the expansion of public transportation networks and the upgrading of utilities, these essential improvements have had a profound impact on the accessibility, desirability, and value of properties across the country.

One of the most significant ways infrastructure development has influenced the real estate sector in Nigeria is through the enhancement of connectivity. The construction of new roads and highways has made it easier for people to commute between their homes, workplaces, and other important destinations. This increased mobility has opened up previously inaccessible areas, allowing for the development of new residential and commercial hubs.

“The impact of infrastructure on real estate in Nigeria cannot be overstated,” says Amina Isa, a real estate analyst based in Lagos. “As the government has invested in improving the country’s transportation network, we’ve seen a surge in the demand for properties in areas that were once considered remote or difficult to reach. This has led to the emergence of thriving suburban communities and the revitalisation of previously overlooked regions.”

The expansion of public transportation, such as the introduction of the Lagos Light Rail system and Abuja Metro, has also played a crucial role in shaping the real estate landscape. These efficient and reliable transportation options have made it more convenient for people to live and work in different parts of the city, reducing the need for lengthy commutes and increasing the appeal of properties located near these transit hubs.

“The availability of public transportation has been a game-changer for the real estate market in major Nigerian cities,” explains Chidi Nwoke, a real estate developer in Abuja. “Homebuyers and investors are now actively seeking properties that are well-connected to these new transportation networks, as they recognise the value and convenience they offer.”

Moreover, the upgrading of essential utilities, such as electricity, water, and telecommunications, has had a significant impact on the real estate sector. Reliable access to these services has become a critical factor for both residential and commercial investors, as it directly affects the livability and functionality of properties.

“Reliable infrastructure, especially in terms of power and water supply, has become a key selling point for new real estate developments in Nigeria,” says Fatima Adamu, a real estate agent in Kano. “Consumers are increasingly aware of the importance of these basic amenities, and they are willing to pay a premium for properties that can consistently provide them.”

The strategic placement of infrastructure has also influenced the patterns of real estate development in Nigeria. The construction of industrial parks, business hubs, and free trade zones, often supported by robust transportation and utility networks, has attracted significant investment and spurred the growth of commercial and industrial real estate.

A real estate consultant in Port Harcourt, Chinedu Okafor, says “We’ve seen a surge in the demand for commercial and industrial properties, particularly in areas where the government has invested in developing infrastructure to support economic activities,” he says. “Businesses are eager to establish their operations in these well-connected and resourced locations, which in turn drives the need for more real estate to accommodate their needs.”

Beyond the direct impact on property values and demand, infrastructure development has also influenced the design and sustainability of real estate projects in Nigeria. Developers are now incorporating energy-efficient features, water conservation systems, and environmentally friendly technologies into their projects to meet the growing demand for eco-friendly living.

“Sustainability has become a key consideration for both developers and homebuyers in Nigeria,” says Adebayo Oluwafemi, a real estate sustainability expert. “As the country continues to invest in renewable energy sources and sustainable infrastructure, we’re seeing an increasing number of real estate projects that prioritise energy efficiency, water conservation, and green spaces, all of which enhance the overall livability and long-term value of the properties.”

The positive ripple effects of infrastructure development on the Nigerian real estate sector are not limited to the major urban centres. Smaller cities and rural areas have also benefited from improved connectivity and access to essential services, leading to the emergence of new real estate opportunities and the revitalisation of existing communities.

However, the relationship between infrastructure and real estate in Nigeria is not without its challenges. The pace of infrastructure development has not always kept up with the rapid urbanisation and population growth, leading to infrastructure deficits in some areas and the creation of disparities in the real estate market.

“While the overall impact of infrastructure development on the real estate sector has been positive, we need to ensure that the benefits are equitably distributed across different regions and income levels,” says Amina Isa. “The government and private sector must work together to address infrastructure gaps, particularly in underserved communities, to ensure that everyone has access to quality housing and a decent standard of living.”

As Nigeria continues to invest in its infrastructure, the real estate sector will undoubtedly continue to evolve and adapt. The synergetic relationship between these two critical components of the country’s economy will shape the future of living, working, and investing in Nigeria, creating new opportunities and challenges that will require innovative solutions and collaborative efforts.

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Since the beginning of the Olympics this year, I have started researching more Nigerians in other sports besides football, which I’m more familiar with. From tennis to race, from long jump to boxing, it’s interesting to see that Nigerians – starting from the grassroots at home – have achieved splendid achievements on the global stage. This got me curious if I was oblivious to my country’s sports history or if proper documentation and celebration have been absent of those achievements. Without reading or doing heavy research, I encountered Usain Bolt, Serena Willaims and other athletes’ names subconsciously. Why didn’t I encounter my country’s athletes too?

Twenty-five years ago, Chioma Ajunwa-Okpara became Nigeria’s first Olympic Gold individual medalist with her long jump victory at the 1996 Atlanta Games. Certainly, her name was etched into the corridors of Nigerian sports history, a beacon of pride for the nation. Yet, as hugely important as that achievement was (still is) her presence in the public eye has not been as prominent as I’d have expected. She narrated in an interview how winning the gold medal at the Olympics was largely celebrated in the country. “The crowd I met at the airport was overwhelming and unprecedented. The government declared a three-day public holiday, we were driven round the country in a motorcade.” Today, I’ve been wondering: what becomes of Nigeria’s sports heroes after the applause fades?

In the UK, athletes’ careers often shift into new roles that keep them in the limelight. Footballers like Gary Lineker and Gary Neville transition into media roles, offering punditry on major sports networks. Serena Williams, after her stellar tennis career, has not only remained relevant through her business ventures but has also become a significant voice in sports and popular culture. Even after retirement, the visibility of these athletes speaks to a system that values and sustains their contributions beyond their active years.

However, in Nigeria, the story is not the same. Names that once commanded global attention in the world of football and other sports have largely receded from public view. I wonder why their achievements in the field have not translated into sustained visibility or influence off it.

I am seeking to explore why this happens, and what it says about how Nigeria honours, or fails to honour, its past heroes in sports.

Absence of Institutional Support

One of the most glaring differences between the experiences of retired athletes in Nigeria and those in places like the UK or the US is the level of institutional support. In these countries, there are structures in place to help athletes transition into new roles. For instance, the Professional Footballers’ Association (PFA) in the UK offers a range of services to help retired footballers find new career paths, from education grants to networking opportunities within media and coaching.

In contrast, Nigerian athletes often find themselves without such a safety net. The lack of a robust support system means that many are left to navigate retirement on their own, often with little to no guidance on how to leverage their sports careers into other ventures. Nowadays, most athletes with Nigerian roots would rather play for another country than Nigeria. This absence of support not only impacts their post-retirement success but also contributes to the erasure of their contributions from the public consciousness.

While this is not particular only to Nigeria, it speaks to the volume of misalignments and poor institutions in the country. This year, Favour Ofili was unable to compete in the 100 meters at this Olympic Games because the Athletics Federation of Nigeria (AFN) and Nigeria Olympic Committee (NOC) did not register her name. When the institutions failed to cater for the present and playing athletes, what assurance does that give they’d be concerned about the retirees?

Cultural Attitudes

Until a player or athlete becomes valuable on the international stage, I have also realised that Nigerians have a nonchalant attitude towards sports generally. This somewhat influences how the legends are revered. In households, everyone wants their children to become lawyers, doctors and engineers. Stereotypically speaking, no one hopes to raise a child in the country who wishes to become a footballer someday. In Europe and the Americas, children see morales and graffiti of athletes on the walls and streets, which subconsciously influence their future aspirations. Statues are erected, and their stories are told and retold, ensuring that their legacy endures and inspires generations. That celebration of legacy is not as ingrained in Nigerian culture. We often celebrate current success over past glories, with a focus on the present rather than a sustained appreciation of history. In a few years to come, some of the current athletes will quickly be forgotten as new stars emerge. And it somewhat reverses the institution. The Nigerian system does not regard sports as an exportable material.

The Role of The Media

I believe the media also plays a role in the public recession of former athletes. In the UK, for instance, former athletes are regularly featured as pundits, columnists, and commentators, which keeps them in the public eye. This constant presence helps to sustain their relevance and ensures that their legacy endures.

In Nigeria, however, the media landscape does not offer the same opportunities. There are even no platforms dedicated to sports analysis and commentary. This lack of visibility in the media means that athletes are quickly forgotten once they retire. Even the most decorated of Nigerian sports figures struggle to maintain a presence in the public discourse.

I understand that some of the athletes might not be easily accessible, but media is media for a reason; if there had been a thriving culture of dedicated platforms and ones that feature former athletes, featuring them wouldn’t have been as difficult. And this adds, again, to the volume of the character of the Nigerian system. The system does not appreciate sports enough to generate revenue which seeps down to the grassroots. The last budget for sports, N31.24 billion, was described by a former athlete, Sadiq Abdullah, as “Nigeria not ready to develop sports.”

If Nigeria is to do justice to the legacy of its sports heroes, there needs to be an effort to change the way athletes are treated, which would transfer into how they are treated during retirement. This could start with the establishment of better support systems for athletes during and outside active competition. A national body dedicated to the welfare of athletes, similar to the PFA in the UK, could provide much-needed guidance and opportunities. It doesn’t speak well that our athletes rewash their only jerseys throughout a tournament or that the bodies responsible fail to enter them for competitions.

If Nigeria is to truly honour its sports legends, it must address these issues and create an environment where their legacy can endure long after their playing days are over. Chioma Ajunwa-Okpara’s achievements, and those of countless other Nigerian athletes, deserve to be remembered and celebrated, not just on anniversaries, but as a lasting part of the country’s heritage.

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It’s midmorning in Accra and a group of bike riders are inspecting their motorcycles before hitting the capital city’s busy roads for the day’s deliveries as lunchtime orders start to come in.

Lawrence Akakpo removes a battery that powers his bike from its plug, fixes it to its seat on the two-wheeler, picks up his food delivery bag and moves quickly to a pick-up point where there’s an order waiting to be delivered to a client. He owns a Wahu bike — an electric-powered motorcycle that is part of a wave of electric utility vehicles impacting job opportunities and the environment across the continent.

Unsure of where to turn to after graduating from school, Lawrence came across Wahu as an opportunity to earn a living.

“Sitting at home as a graduate was frustrating. Approaching companies as a job seeker or other opportunities comes at a cost. I decided to give Wahu a try and so far, I can’t say I have regretted it,” he said.

Lawrence like the other 150 Wahu riders, owes his livelihood to the vision of Valerie Labi, co-founder and CEO of Wahu Mobility.

What started as a project in the northern part of Ghana with converting regular motorbikes to electric bikes with the help of like-minded friends, birthed what is known today as Wahu Mobility. The startup describes itself as an Electric Vehicle (EV) company that manufactures eco-friendly motorcycles providing a reliable source of income for youth.

“I ride almost the whole day; even at night, I enjoy riding. I make between GHC100 (US$6.8) to GHC200 (US$13.6) depending on the market. Sometimes you can go and come back with GHC40 (US$2.8) when the orders are less. I usually work with Yango but I have all the accounts such as Bolt Send and aside from that I do my private business too with the Wahu bike,” Lawrence explained.

The young rider feels he has more control of his life since powering the motorcycle requires only turning on a switch to charge the battery instead of being at the mercy of unpredictable fuel prices. Maintenance and support from the mobility company also offer riders like him much comfort.

“I charge my batteries once a day which takes about five to six hours which also allows us to get some rest. Some riders have moved from using combustible motorbikes to Wahu since it’s an affordable alternative that comes with jobs,” Lawrence said.

Adutwum Hagar Adutwumwaa, an engineer at Wahu Mobility, originally trained in marine engineering. Her curiosity led her to Wahu, where she oversees quality checks and bike assembly. Despite joining the company just six months ago, she’s already made a significant impact.

“It has been an amazing journey… I have learnt new things. Now I make batteries from recycled lithium iron cells,” Adutwum said.

Being the only woman among men during her study internship and national service, Adutwumwaa was happy to find other female colleagues who are also engineers at Wahu Mobility.

“I was drawn to the innovative technology and sustainable mission and I have not regretted it at all.”

A ride-to-own initiative is one part of the startup’s mission. Different payment plans are available to meet the pockets of would-be drivers, taking away the worry of interested riders who cannot afford to pay upfront.

“We have GHC300 (U$20.5) weekly for 24 months, GHC400 (US$27.2) weekly for 18 months and GHC600 ($40.8) weekly for 12 months. The payment plan you want determines the initial deposit,” explained Farida Mahama, the company’s Rider Champion Manager.

The average cost per charge of the battery is GHC4 ($0.27). That can take a bike around 70 kilometres.

Fortunately for the young start-up company, convincing traditional motor riders to switch to electric bikes has been easy because of the huge savings they make on fuel.

“Deliveries on a petrol bike, for example, cost around US$200 (GH¢2940) to US$250 (GH¢3675) a month but e-bikes are around US$30 (GH¢441) a month and that’s a huge saving. While they save money on petrol, we also give them the opportunity to earn consistently on our platforms,” Farida added.

Every Wahu bike rider goes through special training on how to use the e-bikes before hitting the road.

“Every rider has a score system using an app to check how well they ride. The system is designed to turn off the bike when unsafe riding is detected,” Valerie said.

Wahu also infuses technology initiatives into its operations. The factory where the bikes are assembled and maintained is solar-powered and completely off-grid, creating energy efficiency and sustainability.

The company is extremely particular about the impact of the business on the climate. The bikes are tracked to measure their environmental impact with every kilometre driven helping to prevent carbon emissions.

“We’re the first EV company to qualify for a compliance market deal. This means that we create genuine carbon credits as a way of also registering our impact. We track every bike and calculate for every kilometre how much carbon is being saved,” Valerie explained.

The environmental impact of the EV economy is getting national attention in Ghana, with institutions like the country’s Environmental Protection Agency (EPA) and the Ministry of Transport leading the charge.

“Are Ghanaians ready for electric vehicles? The answer is yes,” said Antwi Boasiako Amoah, from the EPA’s Climate Vulnerability and Adaptation team.

“But who should we target for this investment, and which vehicle types will maximise the benefits in a developing country like ours?”

Antwi emphasised that the EV industry offers vast opportunities beyond job creation, with the EPA working to promote investment in the sector.

“Some investors can focus on transport systems such as uber, taxis, delivery services using EVs. We offer guidance and advice on the understanding of the implications of such an investment in terms of laws, market appetite and others. We also work with other sister institutions such as the Ministry of Transport and Energy among others to cross-fertilise our ideas.”

A partnership was the breakthrough for Labi when she partnered with like-minded people to establish Wahu Mobility. Localisation was key, with Wahu aiming for significant local content in each bike.

“At least 85% every EV can be produced locally in Ghana or ECOWAS or Africa,” the co-founder said.

“We started with off-the-shelf-vehicles-to-digital conversions. We’ve worked all the way to the factory that we have and we have an over 24-month program underway for localization components,” she said.

However, though the Ministry of Transport adopted an EV policy in December 2023 to support the sector and address global warming, young companies like Wahu do not qualify for the incentives.

Valerie also expressed disappointment at the lack of regulatory measures for innovations in product development in the automotive industry.

“There’s only an automotive association for assemblers in Ghana, which means that if you’re designing a component or designing a vehicle, there’s no regulatory path for you as an innovator to get support from the government. And that’s a shortfall,” she said.

However, a National Electric Vehicle Policy is expected to be rolled out in Ghana in three phases between 2027 and 2035 to achieve an EV penetration rate of about 35%.

The policy includes a waiver of import duties on EVs designated for public transport and certified assembly companies will also enjoy tax exemptions on semi-knocked and completely knocked down EVs for eight years starting in 2024 and an extension of Value Added Tax exemptions on locally assembled vehicles for two more years.

According to Ghana’s Minister of Energy, Mathew Opoku Prempeh, the country currently has approximately 17,000 registered electric vehicles, including two-, three-, and four-wheel models.

Despite the challenges, Wahu is optimistic about its long-term goal of “turning the company into a revenue-generating asset over time” and exporting to countries across Africa.

“What we see in Ghana and a lot of African countries is that there’s no support for delivery riders and that is what the company seeks to change. We recently opened our office in Lomé, Togo where most of the riders are women.”

Wahu also currently has partnerships across all universities in Ghana and through this initiative trains and recruits new staff.

“We launch challenges at the universities and give students the opportunity to respond to these challenges and from there we often select our team. Through this, we realised Ghanaian youth are not just looking for job opportunities but a path to breakthrough. They need employers to hold their hands and co-create with them,” explained Valarie.

“I’m happy when I meet a Wahu rider. I’m proud to see a transition in many of their lives.”

Wahu hopes to be the number one producer of EVs on the continent.

“It’s about building a legacy for young Africans across the world to be able to use our talents and maximise to make a positive contribution,” Valerie said.

Lawrence envisions owning a fleet of electric bikes to run a delivery business through savings he makes from his partnership with Wahu.

“I would like to encourage the youth, especially those who are jobless, to take advantage of initiatives like this instead of staying home at all times to depend on their parents,” he said.

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“When you start a brand, there’s a perception people have about you and/or your business so why not be intentional about it and shape a narrative about it?” I heard this statement and it’s really stuck with me. I found it to be very true because if you think about any person or organisation right now, there’s something that immediately comes to mind, whether it’s positive or negative. The thought of them evokes a feeling, and that feeling can influence whether you want to be associated with them or not. A crucial step in intentionally building a strong brand, whether it’s for yourself or your business, is to define your brand goals clearly.

Establishing clear brand goals is essential for building a strong brand identity, increasing brand awareness, and driving overall success and growth. Brand goals are also important for your team, as they provide a clear roadmap and keep everyone focused and aligned with your objectives. Sadly, many people believe that branding is only for major players, but the truth is that you can’t become a major player in any industry without being intentional about branding. If you want to create a strong and recognisable brand for yourself or your business, you have to understand how to set effective brand goals.  

Define your brand purpose

Before you begin to set goals, you need to define the purpose of your brand. Why do you and your business exist? What problem are you trying to solve? This is beyond profit-making. Yes, generating sales is great but the world has evolved past just buying and selling. You must understand the value your business is bringing to your customers, your employees and the community your business serves.

Know your target audience

Now that you’ve defined your brand purpose, you need to know whose problem you’re trying to solve. While it’s great to have a good product/service offering, what makes the value you offer great is if your customer considers it great. The way you can do this is to know the customer. Identify their needs, motivations, interests, and frustrations. A good way to do this is to define your customer persona and have conversations with them. Get to know them better. Listen to what they’re saying and not saying. What better way to know someone than through an interactive conversation? After taking this step, you’ll know what goals you need to set that’ll help your brand resonate better with your target audience.

Make them SMART

Remember to set SMART goals. This means making sure your goals are specific, measurable, achievable, relevant, and timely. Specific goals are well-defined and clear, measurable goals have criteria for tracking progress, achievable goals are realistic, relevant goals align with your brand’s purpose, and timely goals have a set timeline for achievement.

For instance, write down “boost brand awareness through social media engagement on LinkedIn by 50% within the next quarter of 2024.” When you write it out like this, it’s easier to understand and feels less overwhelming. Anyone who reads this knows what you’re trying to achieve. 

Conduct a brand audit

It’s important to assess the current state of your brand to understand what you need to start, stop, and continue doing. Be honest when evaluating this with your team. A helpful method to try is conducting a SWOT analysis, which involves analysing your strengths, weaknesses, opportunities, and threats. Don’t overlook this step, as the results will inform the strategies needed for improvement. Brand building requires flexibility, especially because it involves establishing an emotional connection with your target audience. Continuously track your progress, pay attention to what your target audience or market is saying about the brand (both negative and positive), and make necessary adjustments.

Setting effective brand goals is such a crucial part of building a strong brand. When you’re able to do this, other aspects of your business such as marketing, PR, and customer success will be able to thrive better and business success is inevitable. Set your brand goals, stay focused and keep improving.

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During my teenage and youth years, I used to look at myself in the mirror and felt I was seeing a stranger. It felt as if every flaw on my face or body was magnified and screaming at me. I struggled with it for a long time and didn’t know it was a condition called body dysmorphia. I was in constant battle with a body I didn’t recognise and wanted to change.

Body dysmorphia is one of the extreme cases of body image concerns. It is a condition where people see distorted images about any part of their body (face, skin, body shape) versus what is there. In my case, it was my face. I believed that I was not beautiful enough. I didn’t realise I was not alone until I encountered studies that revealed the significant impact of body dysmorphia on people’s daily lives. In the US, 77% of individuals with BDD reported poor interference with work, school, or social activities due to their symptoms. Similarly, a UK study found that half of those with BDD are currently unemployed. In Africa, Nigeria specifically, Africans are leading consumers of skin bleaching products due to body dysmorphia disorder.

It is a condition that threatens you to constantly seek reassurance, check the mirror excessively, battle social anxiety, hide perceived flaws, and have intrusive thoughts. It steals the life of its victim, bit by bit and holds them back from embracing experiences, relationships, and full potential.

But everyone needs to understand that flaws don’t define us. I’ve been there. I remember experiencing anxiety,  and constant worry almost every time I had to go to school events during my university days. The acne would come and go, and it occupied my mind so significantly that it dictated my mood at times. When I thought about people seeing their faces without makeup, especially because I felt makeup was the cause of my acne, I declined to go out. At some point I began to avoid the mirror, but also continued to check my appearance from afar obsessively, hoping to love my face again. I wasted money buying skin care products, but nothing worked. The mind they say is the battleground; looking back I now see that my struggle was because I accepted it, either through my words or thoughts. I manifested what I believed someone else had told me about me.

As I battled with acne, I spent a lot of time grooming myself and practising ways to hide my face. I selected hairstyles that would cover the problem areas. Even when it was extremely hot, I wore a fringe to hide the acne. I also believed that I was allergic to powder and foundation, which I used to cover the problem areas. Therefore, I was very strategic in everything I wore.

They say comparison kills. When I was younger, I loved fashion and devoted myself to fashion magazines. Unknowingly, I became fixated on idealised images of celebrities, yearning for a flawless face like theirs. I believed that achieving this goal was my only way of finding peace and acceptance.

In university, I had a friend with clear, radiant skin. I constantly compared myself to her, naively believing that clearing the acne would grant me her level of beauty and popularity. This mindset fueled my lack of self-love. I never really believed compliments about me being beautiful. I thought I had to look a certain way and be perfect to be considered beautiful. I was always asking people what they felt or thought about my face. Most of them always said they could see the acne but it was not as bad as I always painted it to be.

I have now learned that God created humans with incredible bodies. Negative influences in what we listen to and see can distort how we see ourselves, on the outside and within. We need to treat ourselves more kindly, not with self-criticism. Knowing who we truly are and accepting is the key to freeing ourselves.

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Tough conversations on critical issues should be had, especially when any handshake goes beyond the elbow. The disgraceful outrage against Chidinma Adetshina at the Miss South Africa pageant underscores how low we have descended as a continent. The idea that a person qualified for a competition but shouldn’t participate in it owing to unfounded primal sentiments is appalling. However, it speaks to a larger malaise; our ancestors may have left the plantations but some of us as descendants are nostalgic about picking cotton. Picking on ourselves changes nothing – only true freedom changes everything.

We Were Africans Before The White Man Came

The first thing a coloniser does is to launch a scathing yet systematic assault on the identity of the conquered people. They change your nomenclature and culture and over time, you eventually hate your own origins. Colonisers rewrite your history in a way that disempowers you but more importantly, gives them an ideological superiority. It was simply the playbook of imperialists – the Persian, Roman or Babylonian Empire and others. Immediately after they were taken as slaves, Nebuchadnezzar changed the names of Hananiah, Mishael and Azariah to Shadrach, Meshach and Abednego respectively. They were forbidden from worshipping their own God and doing anything that reminded them of the culture of their homeland. After a while, colonised people feel inferior until they identify with the culture of their colonisers. Some people cannot wear an outfit made in their own country, even when they produce the best shoes – they put a label that says it was made in a foreign country.

As children, we were told that speaking our native language made us local and in school, it was referred to as vernacular. When somebody asked for my English name; I wondered if he had ever asked Tom Cruise what his Ibibio name was. If the world doesn’t have a problem pronouncing Volodymyr Oleksandrovych Zelenskyy then pronouncing Mfonobong Inyang shouldn’t be a problem. When you go to a high-end restaurant in Paris for a three-course meal and you are served the pièce de résistance – you don’t ask them to interpret, instead you respond to the culinary prowess of the chef with “je ne sais quoi!” Yet when the same people come back home, they start replacing suya with kebab, suddenly akara becomes bean cake and even garri wey we dey use see front is christened as cassava flakes. I once saw on Obasanjo’s internet how someone put on a ring light and said that eating fufu with bare hands is razz. Somehow in our minds, some of us have been convinced that local means inferior – when in reality, what we refer to as foreign is another country’s local. The difference between Sango and Thor is PR.

Her Story

History is something that reminds you of your heritage and can empower you for your future if properly told. It’s wild that xenophobia seems to have become mainstream in South Africa; Nigerians have particularly felt the brunt of this untoward sentiment – it’s a shame considering the history between the two countries. Nigeria’s role in bringing an end to apartheid is well-documented; we spent a whopping $61 billion in military and economic aid alone. The roles of Sir Alhaji Abubakar Tafewa Balewa and Chief Olusegun Obasanjo are not in doubt, the great Madiba found refuge in Nigeria when he was headhunted back home. Is this what Nelson Mandela spent 27 years of his life as a political prisoner at Robben Island for? I am sure he would be turning in his grave right now. Beyond state power,  Nigerian citizens deployed their soft power as a tool for advocacy: Veteran musician of blessed memory, Sonny Okosun, recorded a hit song, “Fire In Soweto”, to commemorate the fight against apartheid. Nigerian students skipped lunch and civil servants gave up 2% of their salary for what was then known as the “Mandela Tax”. Is this generational amnesia or something else we don’t know? Hiabo!

To my Mzansi friends, Nigerians are not your enemies. We were also colonised but playing the victim isn’t the best way to navigate the future. In our DNA, we’re go-getters, we can be very bold in our endeavours. Trying to stereotype Nigerians as the cause of your woes is lame; you cannot paint a whole country with the same brush – it’s people who do good or bad things, not their races. Just like I said when some people elevated bigotry to state policy during the elections last year in Nigeria: I haven’t seen a city, state or country in the world that is doing major economic numbers without the contribution of other nationalities; it’s called foreign direct investment for a reason – very smart people know that it’s always a net positive to have an influx of talented people.

Charity Must Start At Home

There is a phenomenon across Africa that is textbook hypocrisy; we blatantly ignore the plank in our eyes and instead call out the spec in our brother’s eyes. In South Africa where xenophobia has unfortunately become a staple, they are filing a case at the ICC against another country for a conflict in the Middle East. In Kenya, citizens were clamped down on by the police for disagreeing with a finance bill, yet they have sent a contingent of policemen to curb gang violence in Haiti. In Nigeria we’re outchea begging Niger, Burkina Faso and Mali to return to ECOWAS for the sake of democracy but in the same breath proposed a bill that effectively would proscribe protests and criminalise free speech. In what universe does that make any sense?

Where is the outrage for the forced child labour in Congo where they are being used to exploit copper and cobalt? Where is the outrage for over 600,000 people who died in the Tigray War? Yet we have heard more condemnation of the war in Eastern Europe from the same African leaders. In Nigeria, farmers cannot safely cultivate their farmlands owing to terrorism and this has led to massive food insecurity and food inflation, yet our leaders are the loudest voices for esoteric agendas that don’t move the needle in the country. I have nothing against extending our voices to far-flung causes but the performative activism just reeks of double standards. African lives are not more dispensable than others.

Diaspora FC

Nigeria’s foreign policy has been a mess for obvious reasons; aside from the stark incompetence – it doesn’t help that the lack of domestic political capital makes it harder to stamp our authority on the continent. We leave our diaspora community out to dry – an unfortunate treatment of people who send in north of $20 billion back home annually. I’m yet to see a strong consular concierge over certain actions where our citizens have been unfairly treated, there’s little or no leverage of soft power or other tools of diplomacy. This is why last year, young Nigerians gravitated around a presidential candidate who respected Nigerians in the diaspora enough to engage them even though they weren’t even eligible to vote – another travesty. Great to see the two leading candidates in the Edo gubernatorial elections following that path, it’s the way to go. We cannot covet black tax and remittances from abroad but when it comes to representation, we become Avatar Aang – when the world needed him the most, he vanished.

Ubuntu: You Can Banku On It

One thing I love is the vibes Nigerians and Ghanaians share, it’s just like siblings’ rivalry – it’s nothing deep. One minute we are throwing banter at each other over Jollof, next thing Nigerians are rooting for Thomas Partey to recover from his injuries at Arsenal even though his goal cost us participation at the last World Cup. You don’t see Nigerians frothing in the mouth or threatening that rap god, Sarkodie, is stealing our thunder on the hip-hop charts. When Moses married Maria, didn’t you see how we showed up and showed up in Accra? We even taunted Ghanaians for not turning up to the max when they wanted to close the wedding party earlier than we would in Nigeria.

Today we have a strong Anglophone/Francophone dichotomy that stifles progress – it’s the same divide-and-conquer strategy that has kept Africa where we are. Why is it that it’s easier to travel and transport goods across the Atlantic than it is to do the same within the borders of Africa? Hating on ourselves doesn’t necessarily translate to being loved by people with a different skin tone. As an African, it doesn’t matter whether you’re light, dark, faux, real, rich, poor, house or field – you’re still African.

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Water retention on a building’s walls is the accumulation of moisture within the structure of the walls, either on the surface or within the building materials. This moisture can come from various sources such as rainwater, groundwater, plumbing leaks, or condensation. When water penetrates the walls, it can become trapped, causing a range of problems that affect both the appearance and the structural integrity of the building. Water retention in a building’s walls is a serious concern that can result in structural damage, unhealthy living conditions, and expensive repairs. It is crucial for those involved in real estate, such as developers, property managers, or homeowners, to understand the implications of water retention.

According to construction experts, water retention can be seen as a sign of inadequate moisture management within the building’s envelope. The building envelope is the physical barrier between the conditioned interior space and the exterior environment, including the walls, roof, windows, and doors. A well-designed building envelope should prevent water from penetrating the structure, but when it fails, water retention can occur.

Causes of Water Retention

Several factors can contribute to water retention on the walls of a building. These factors can be construction-related, environmental or maintenance failures. For instance, the use of low-quality waterproofing materials or the improper application of these materials can allow water to seep into the walls. Design flaws such as insufficient roof overhangs, improperly installed flashing, or poor drainage systems can also lead to water accumulation on walls.

When there are cracks in the walls, often caused by settling, thermal expansion, or seismic activity, can allow water to penetrate. Buildings in regions with high rainfall or humidity are particularly susceptible to water retention. Constant exposure to moisture can overwhelm even well-constructed walls. In areas with high water tables, groundwater can rise and seep through the foundation, leading to moisture problems in the walls. Poor insulation or ventilation can lead to condensation, especially in colder climates. This can cause water to collect on the interior surfaces of walls. Failure to repair minor issues such as cracks, leaks, or damaged waterproofing can allow water to enter the walls over time. Gutters, downspouts, and drainage channels that are blocked by debris can cause water to overflow and run down the walls. Landscaping that directs water towards the building, such as sloping ground or poorly placed sprinklers, can exacerbate water retention issues.

Effects of Water Retention on the Walls of a Building

Water retention in buildings can lead to a range of issues, from minor cosmetic problems to severe structural damage. Prolonged exposure to moisture can weaken materials like wood, concrete, and brick, potentially causing wood to rot, concrete to crack, and metal components to corrode. These issues can compromise the building’s structural integrity, leading to foundation problems, including settling, cracking, or even collapse in extreme cases. Additionally, water retention often results in visible damage such as staining, discolouration, and peeling paint or plaster, which detracts from the building’s appearance and necessitates frequent repairs.

Beyond structural concerns, water retention creates an environment conducive to mould and mildew growth, which can spread rapidly and pose health risks like respiratory issues and allergies. The presence of these contaminants can degrade indoor air quality, making the living environment unhealthy. Persistent moisture problems can also decrease property value, as ongoing repairs and the potential for continued issues may deter potential buyers or tenants.

How Water Retention Can Be Managed or Avoided

Effectively managing water retention in buildings involves both immediate actions and long-term strategies. The first step is to identify the source of moisture through a comprehensive inspection, including the use of moisture meters and thermal imaging to detect hidden moisture. Addressing structural issues is crucial; this includes sealing cracks and gaps in walls, foundations, and roofs, reinforcing waterproofing in vulnerable areas, and ensuring that drainage systems are functioning properly to direct water away from the building.

Reducing indoor humidity is another key aspect of managing water retention. Improving ventilation in moisture-prone areas, such as bathrooms, kitchens, and basements, can help lower humidity levels. Upgrading insulation in walls, floors, and ceilings is also important to prevent thermal bridging and condensation. In cases where mould has already developed, professional mould remediation services should be employed, followed by preventative measures like using mould-resistant paints and maintaining low indoor humidity.

To avoid future water retention issues, it is essential to use high-quality, moisture-resistant materials during construction and ensure proper building design. This includes effective drainage systems, adequate roof overhangs, and the incorporation of ventilation and insulation to minimise moisture buildup. Regular maintenance is also crucial, with routine inspections to catch potential moisture problems early, and prompt repairs to address any signs of water infiltration, such as leaks or cracks.

Landscaping plays a significant role in preventing water retention around a building. Ensuring that the ground slopes away from the foundation can prevent water from pooling near the walls, while careful placement of plants and trees can avoid root interference with the foundation. By combining these strategies, the risk of water retention and its associated damage can be significantly reduced.

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The recent discussions surrounding the citizenship of Miss South Africa 2024 contender Chidimma Adetshina reflect my take on how the persistent xenophobic behaviour in South Africa is a case of internalised colonialism. I explored South Africa’s history of systemic racial segregation concerning the present-day xenophobic culture prevalent in the nation. Even though I was born in Nigeria, I grew up in South Africa and have lived there since I was six years old. I attended primary and high school and completed two university degrees in the country. I also fluently speak and understand a South African language. However, despite my deep connection to the country, I am still not considered South African due to my Nigerian heritage.

The prevailing argument on social media and some online news platforms regarding the case of Chidimma Adetshina is that she is not eligible to compete in Miss South Africa 2024 because she is not South African. Despite being born and raised in South Africa, Chidimma Adetshina is considered non-South African for two main reasons. One, she was born to a Nigerian father and a Mozambican mother. Two, Chidimma’s mother allegedly falsely claimed to be a South African citizen, making her an undocumented immigrant, leading to the perception that Chidimma herself should be considered a foreigner.

This situation reveals two truths: South Africans are displaying xenophobic and Afrophobic attitudes due to Chidimma’s Nigerian and Mozambican heritage, and due to allegations against Chidimma’s mother for falsely claiming South African citizenship.

In 2023, Melissa Nayimuli a former Miss South Africa contestant faced similar backlash for having a Ugandan father and a South African mother. Melissa, who at the time made it to the top sixteen of the competition, recounted how she was a victim of xenophobic slurs on social media because she was “not fully South African.”

Which makes me wonder: What makes one South African?

In some instances, a quick and easy response would have been provided but in this context, the answer is rooted in numerous ideas. There are two main issues related to citizenship in South Africa. The first is that there are widespread beliefs ingrained in racist, colonial, xenophobic, and Afrophobic thinking about who truly belongs in the country. Secondly, the Department of Home Affairs’ institutional biases and outdated policies perpetuate discrimination and contribute to the nation’s persistent xenophobic behaviour.

I love South Africa. It’s where I spent my early years and formed lifelong friendships. However, the irony is not lost on me that a country known for celebrating diversity still has strict views on citizenship and belonging.

After leaving Nigeria at six years old, I didn’t spend more than six consecutive weeks outside of South Africa until I moved to the United Kingdom. Despite this long-term connection, my sister, who was born in South Africa and has only known that nation as home, will only qualify for South African citizenship once she turns eighteen. Interestingly, if I had moved to the UK at the same age I was when I moved to South Africa, I would have been granted British citizenship by the time I was sixteen years old.

Given the increasingly globalised world we find ourselves within, all nations ought to restructure their ideas and policies surrounding citizenship and belonging. In the African context, these discussions should commence within the African Union and other regional blocs that exist on the continent. The idea that seeking safety and a better life in another country are labelled as illegal needs to be at the forefront of these discussions.

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In March, at a time when inflation was eating deeply into Tina’s pockets, she started planting peppers and vegetables in a garden she made at the back of her house to cut down expenses. Food items like beans, yam flour, rice, garri and other commonly consumed foods in Nigeria are slowly becoming out of reach for the average Nigerian. Since President Bola Tinubu removed fuel subsidies in May last year, the economy has plunged and inflation has reached a 28-year high of 33.20%. Like Tina, Nigerians have started employing ways to cope with the harsh economy, finding new ways to adapt, planting crops in their backyards, and cutting down on needs and wants.

What causes inflation?

Nigeria has faced challenges with food inflation for many years, with various factors such as fluctuating oil prices, government policies, exchange rate volatility, and structural economic issues, contributing to it. Achivi.ng analysed the increase in rice prices from 1994 to 2024 and its causes. In 1994, a bag of rice was N1,800, and it rose to N2,500 in 1999 due to tax levies and the devaluation of Naira. In 2004, it increased to N4,500 due to the importation ban. In 2015, it rose to N10,000 due to global food crises and the CBN foreign exchange policy on importation. It reached N25,000 in 2019 due to border closure and N88,000 in 2024 due to depleting Naira value and the continuous ban on importation.

Inflation in Nigeria is measured by the National Bureau of Statistics using the Consumer Price Index (CPI), which tracks the average change in prices of goods and services consumed by people for day-to-day living. With the removal of fuel subsidies, the International Monetary Fund (IMF) highlights that a significant portion of Nigeria’s historical inflation can be attributed to the expansion of the money supply. When the Central Bank of Nigeria (CBN) prints excessive amounts of money, it leads to an oversupply of Naira in the market, driving prices upward. This phenomenon isn’t unique to Nigeria. According to Liz Scheltens’s analysis of inflation, the cause of inflation in the US is “too much money chasing few goods.”

The major cause of inflation is the our currency’s lack of value. As the currency weakens against major global currencies, the purchasing power of the Naira decreases, making imports more expensive. This devaluation increases production costs, which are then passed on to consumers in the form of higher prices. Keystone Bank accurately points out that this exchange rate mechanism significantly contributes to the overall inflationary pressure in the country.

It’s Time To Do Something  

63% of Nigerians live in multidimensional poverty. This means that the majority of the population struggle to afford basic needs like food. Nigerians also spend an average of 54% of their total income on food items, due to their rising costs.

Everyday Nigerians, like Tina, are employing creative solutions to cope. People are cutting down expenses and removing expensive farm produce like protein from their list. Sellers are opening sealed and packaged foods, and selling in smaller quantities. Tubers like yams and potatoes are being cut into smaller pieces so people can afford them. Although, these adaptations demonstrate the resilience of Nigerians, it poses an even bigger problem of malnutrition and stunted growth and development of children.

In South Africa, urban farming initiatives gained popularity due to food inflation. Similar to Tina’s approach, people began to grow vegetables and herbs in small spaces such as balconies, rooftops, and gardens. However, there’s the question of whether or not people want to farm. Many working-class Nigerians want to be able to afford food items with their hard-earned money, without having to resort to gardening to feed. This means we must find long-lasting solutions to help manage food inflation. 

What the Nigerian government has done so far is distribute trucks of rice to 36 states and the Federal Capital Territory. However, rice handouts do not go far enough to address the worsening cost of living crisis. Distributing rice or encouraging citizens to plant ugu in their gardens are plastic solutions to a much deeper problem. Nigerians do not want to be handed 5kg of rice once or twice a year, they want to be able to afford food – the most basic needs of all.

Rather than handouts, the government can create targeted subsidy programs that will enhance people’s purchasing power and nutritional status at this time. Countries with strong welfare systems like Sweden, Finland, and Norway provide various benefits to their citizens including heavily-subsidised housing, food, clothing, and even education. These subsidy programs can target certain foods items or primarily benefit low income population groups for a period of time. This is to ensure that while long-lasting reforms and policies are being made to manage food crisis, low income earners can afford to feed and nutrient deficiencies are reduced to the barest minimum.

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Empathy is often lauded as a cornerstone of effective leadership. It fosters trust, boosts morale, and can lead to innovative solutions. However, there’s a common misconception that being empathetic means being a pushover. It’s essential to understand that empathy and efficiency are not mutually exclusive. They can complement each other to build high-performing, resilient teams. The key lies in striking a balance between compassion and clarity. Leaders who can genuinely connect with their team members while maintaining clear expectations and boundaries are more likely to build strong, productive teams.

Servant leadership is a prime example of empathy in action. Leaders like Nelson Mandela and Mother Teresa demonstrated an unwavering commitment to serving others while achieving remarkable results. Nelson Mandela, known for his compassion and resilience, emphasised the importance of forgiveness and reconciliation. He built a united nation by listening to different perspectives and finding common ground. While he was empathetic, he was also firm in his pursuit of justice and equality. Mother Teresa, renowned for her selfless service to the poor, was a beacon of compassion. She created a strong organisation based on empathy and care. Meanwhile, she was also a disciplined leader who set clear goals and expectations for her team.

By studying these leaders, we can learn valuable lessons about balancing empathy with efficiency. Empathetic leaders often find themselves in a dilemma. On one hand, they want to create a supportive environment where team members feel valued and heard. On the other, they must ensure that the team is meeting its objectives and deadlines. It’s a tightrope walk that requires careful navigation. To achieve this balance, a leader must adopt a few strategic ways. These strategies have particularly worked for me.

Set clear expectations

Define roles and responsibilities. Clearly outline each team member’s role and expectations. This provides a framework for accountability. Also, ensure everyone understands the team’s objectives and how their individual contributions fit into the bigger picture. Meanwhile, as much as you’re trying to create an open communication environment, you must also establish boundaries. While empathy is crucial, it’s equally important to set boundaries and make each individual understand where they fit and stand. This prevents team members from overstepping or taking advantage.

Actively listen and give feedback

Try to encourage open communication. Create a safe space for team members to share their thoughts and concerns. Practice active listening too. Show genuine interest in what your team members are saying. Provide constructive feedback by offering honest, respectful and helpful criticism.

Empowerment and delegation

Once you’ve provided constructive criticism, trust your team. Believe in their abilities and empower them to make the right decisions. Delegate tasks effectively based on team members’ strengths and skills. Provide support and offer guidance and resources when needed.

Prioritise self-care

Leaders who take care of themselves are better equipped to care for others. Balance work and personal life to prevent burnout and avoid taking on too much responsibility.

Empathy is a powerful tool for building strong teams, but it must be coupled with effective leadership skills. By setting clear expectations, listening actively, empowering team members, and prioritising self-care, leaders can create a supportive and productive environment. Empathy is not a weakness; it’s a strength that, when combined with clear boundaries and effective communication, can lead to remarkable results.

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I’m proud to be a young Nigerian; particularly to be part of the critical mass that moves the needle – we used to pray for times like these. Long ago I began sensing that the salvation of this country is in the hands her young people and the more I live, the more I have come to believe it so intensely such that nobody can tell me otherwise. I did a video some years ago ever before Gen Z became a thing where I stated categorically that I have not seen or read about any country in modern history that wages a war against its young people and won. They may be outsmarted in the short run but will never be outnumbered and whenever they get in formation – it’s game over. I was furious that year when young Nigerians were described as “lazy” so much that I wrote an entire book about it. Some of us are not emergency lovers of Nigeria, this is why I am committed to publicly documenting some of my thoughts despite my schedule because a time will come when I will just keep quiet and only reference what I have said before.

They Not Like Us!

We criticise public officials because their decisions are more consequential in scale on citizens than private people. This playbook of conflating issues by churning out lame narratives such as disrespect for elders is pure BS. How do you explain to a young person that a whopping N9 Billion was allocated for the 2024 Olympics but her name was not entered for a competition or that she had to borrow a bicycle from another country? We can’t continue perpetuating this incompetence culture by defending the indefensible with truckloads of baloney. If you ask me, the government should be grateful that despite their anger, some young people could articulate their demands very intelligently and in a very civilised manner. If the fundamentals of this agitation are not addressed, there might not be a heads-up next time and unfortunately, this chest-thumping and associated shenanigans won’t be enough.

We go jam for the junction

What political party does hunger belong to? What ethnicity is inflation from? What religious tenets does poverty subscribe to? Fela was in his bag when he recorded Original Sufferhead because the four things he adumbrated, “water, light, food, house” are still choking large swaths of the population today. If you understand the psychology of young people, they typically aren’t interested in politics. However, when your reggae starts to spoil their blues and they draw a straight line from their socio-economic outcomes to these voodoo policies, they will enter the chat. In 2015, Nigeria was the third fastest-growing economy in the world until that projection was interrupted by abominable leadership. You can’t gaslight this supposed phone-pressing generation; they have educated themselves on how those in power really think at inflexion points like the pandemic, October 2020, the 2023 elections and even now with the government’s response to their legitimate agitation. It’s peak fooling to think that this sabre-rattling will make them blink first. No wam, we go jam for the junction.

Sorry For The Laugh

It leaves me in stitches whenever I see some characters try to reprise their old tricks. All these undercover political operatives should know that they are not dealing with our parent’s generation wey dem run street that year. Everybody eyes don neat now, that format don cast – update full ground. God is all about justice, equity and fairness. Tomorrow, they will say young people don’t respect their elders but they will not tell you how some of these elders have ruined their legacy by trying to abuse the reverence that was otherwise statutorily accorded them. Not gonna lie, traditional stools and prominent custodians of culture being reduced to hirelings of politicians is not something I had on my bingo card.

I never thought the best that so-called master strategists could come up with was mobilising people for counter-protests, thuggery, veiled threats from security agencies and other acts of tomfoolery. I have always insisted that half of what we were taught as history is pure lamba because some folks who claimed to fight for democracy that year have been thoroughly exposed as ethnic irredentists and bigots with a sprinkle of dictatorship. Lousy-appointed public officials talking down on those who were validly elected via the ballot box is a travesty of democracy – a badly written joke.

People who are notoriously quiet when young people are going through hell but suddenly start dropping unfortunate quotes when the youths have been pushed to the wall should search their souls. We hear more about the economic impact of protests than the grand theft of 400,000 barrels of crude oil daily. Some choose to sing about our suffering but ghost on us when they should speak up – afroshege seems to be their favourite genre. Some intellectuals still think this is 2015 when dem dey form chef upandan, they should know that cooking is no longer an exclusive preserve of a few – everybody don get PhD for Culinary Studies. This generation no too get joy like that. If you do anyhow, you go collect woto woto. Coconut head generation na your mate? Dey play my fans. Once again, sorry for the laugh.

What Is It? Haven’t You Done Enough?

If you live in Nigeria, you no better pass your neighbour – being classist in the poverty capital of the world is not the flex we think it is. Individual success will never be enough to compensate for collective failure. As long as your neighbour is hungry, you’re really not balling. Young Nigerians aren’t lazy, they just need the basics and they will sort themselves out. Nigerians shall not live by palliatives alone; sharing of rice is not an economic policy – all these hand-outs are getting out of hand. A lot of young people are stuck between the devil and the deep blue sea; they are struggling to live, and neither can they leave the country. Cost of living wan kee the living and it costs an arm and a leg to japa. What belongs to Caesar no sure for am again; the average young person may never be able to travel abroad, build a house or buy a car in their lifetime and it’s not because they aren’t hardworking. They have realised that political leaders have mortgaged their futures to a large extent and if something is not done urgently, neither they nor their children are leaving the trenches anytime soon. Youths have lost valuable years to abominable governance and they are seeing the signs that they may have to sacrifice more of their youth for some more propaganda-driven leadership that cosplays good governance. The fear of their future and the uncertainty is why they are speaking up because the maths is not mathing.

I used to think it was just the nostalgia industrial complex at play but on closer interrogation, I see that there is a huge demand for encore vibes. I recently saw an ad where a brand had to recreate a famous TV commercial that struck a chord with audiences, more musicians are outchea sampling old songs more, people are reminiscing on old times when they perceived things were better, and a popular movie studio had to bring back one of their OGs to revive its franchise, even in certain political quarters there is a strong demand for encore leadership. Simply put, most young people seem to believe that under the current arrangement, their future looks bleak compared to their past.

The economic strength of young people seems to be an existential threat to certain feudalistic leaders and since it’s too late to make some of them illiterate, such leaders try to make them poor. It seems the plan has always been to attack the brain, pocket or both. Economic ventures championed by young people have gotten whacked with taxes, bans or obnoxious regulations. From Bitcoin, ride-hailing services, X, content creators (even though NFVCB classification doesn’t apply to online content), tech businesses and now there is chatter about taxing remote workers. It’s not about performative stipends and selfies, any politician that claims to love young people will show it through policy. No be cho cho cho, show workings. I will leave the small matter of WhatsApp possibly exiting Nigeria owing to excessive fines; apps wey our mama dey use answer tech sis? Na dem go enter streets, we no go even put mouth.

In the end, this Naija wey you see so, it’s our zone. These streets wey you dey see so, it’s our own. All the people wey we see, we love them to our bone. We will take our stand and build our land with faith to defend what is ours.

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Before joining the Almajiri Scholar Scheme, Hassan (this name is a pseudonym) dreamed of becoming a kidnapper. Hassan grew up as an Almajiri boy – little children entrusted in the care of an Islamic leader, splattered around the streets of some Northern states, bowl in hands and begging for alms. Without access to formal education, Hassan believed kidnapping, which is fast becoming a booming business in Nigeria, would be his source of wealth. This was until Victor Bello, the founder of an Almajiri Scholar Scheme, found him on the streets of Jos, Plateau State.

The Almajiri system prioritises Arabic education over Western education. From a young age, children are sent to their teachers’ homes to learn. It is a system of Islamic education practised in Northern Nigeria that involves young boys, referred to as “Almajiri,” and young girls, known as “Almajira,” with the plural being “Almajirai.” This system traditionally sees parents entrusting their children’s upbringing and education to Islamic schools, often relinquishing their parental responsibilities to the underfunded school authorities. When the schools are unable to feed them, the children disperse into the streets to beg.

Hassan’s story, along with many others he witnessed growing up in Kaduna, influenced Victor Bello’s decision to start the Almajiri Scholar Scheme in March 2022 with the goal of exposing these children to literacy and Western education.

Victor Bello had his first encounter with the Almajiri students in Kaduna and became curious about why children his age were restricted from acquiring a Western education. When he became an undergraduate at the University of Jos, he tried introducing Almajiri children to Western education but faced pushback from the community. In 2020, during Ramadan, he provided Iftar meals for about 15 children and used the opportunity to introduce his idea to the community. They declined, not only because Victor was a Christian but because the community had a rigid resistance towards Western education.

In 2021, during Ramadan, he repeated what he had done the previous year but on a larger scale. He took the iftar meals to the Jos central mosque where he met the leader of Almajiri education in the state, who liked his idea. This leader introduced him to Mallam Habali, who was in charge of a group of Almajiri children in the Angwan Rogo community.

When Victor started, he was focused on expanding to as many communities as he could in Jos. However, after the first month, he realised how demanding the project was going to be. He funds the project from his pocket, with some volunteers who are willing to teach the students for free.

“I really didn’t know that I was going to spend my time and money like that,” Victor reflects. “Till I ventured into the project fully, I think after six months, I said, nah, I need to just focus more on these children first, because even if I want to educate all the Almajiris in Jos, it’s still not enough. It’s still not up 10% of all the Almajiris in Nigeria.” According to UNICEF, there are 18.3 million out-of-school children in Nigeria, and 81% are estimated to belong to the Almajiri system.

Due to a lack of financial capability and resources to expand, Victor said he’s committed to training the students he currently has at the Almajiri Scholar Scheme. “I have 80 students now, which is a very good number. I should invest more in these children I have instead of expanding. When I have built my capacity very well, financially and otherwise, I will think of expanding. But for now, I’ll focus more on the ones I have with me.”

Proud Moments

Despite Victor’s Almajiri Scholar Scheme, the children still continue their Arabic learning with their Mallam. One day, the Mallam told Victor that the children sing the letters of the alphabet and the figures most of the time now. This knowledge made Victor proud, but it does not compare to when he travelled out of Jos and his students called him using their Mallam’s phone, saying, “Uncle Victor, please, don’t leave us. What you’re doing for us, no one has done before.”

“It made me realise that I’m actually on the right path, because, sometimes, I ask myself, ‘Am I really making an impact? Or am I just too emotional about the whole Almajiri thing?’ Sometimes I doubt the whole thing I’m doing, so that was really encouraging for me. It’s one of my proudest moments in this project.”

But it wasn’t just that. After a class, Victor gathered the students around to mention some Northern successful people they could look up to, to dissuade them from societal vices like kidnapping. After the encouragement, he asked the students to tell him about themselves and how they are living their lives outside the scheme training. One of them narrated that he was passing through a fancy restaurant when someone offered to give him food. When he opened the food, all he found there was bone. The child felt insulted and said he was going to eat a full chicken in that restaurant someday.

It was one of the most touching moments for Victor, one that swiftly turned into a happy one. “When he said that, I almost cried that day. I said, ‘You know what? All of you should get ready. Next week we are going to that restaurant.’ It is one of the biggest restaurants in Jos. They call it Bacardi. We went there and they had good food. They never stopped talking about that day. Even if I don’t feel fulfilled for anything, I feel so happy whenever I think of that day. I feel so excited because these are children that I have seen on the street since my childhood.”

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A few days ago, someone asked me to name the top 5 most influential mentors in my life. Without hesitation, I mentioned Sir K as one of them. One trait that all my mentors share is an admirable work ethic. They prioritise hard work and commitment over privileges, connections, and recognition. Sir K, in particular, sees hard work as the true measure of one’s character. His journey from Shomolu to the boardroom resonates deeply with my own from Surulere. I have been fortunate to learn from his wealth of wisdom.

His work as an executive director at the Sahara Group has helped to position the multinational conglomerate as a market leader in the fossil and renewable energies industry. His impact is felt in Nigeria, where he advises on the boards of several influential companies including the largest power distribution business and the largest thermal plant in the region, serving thirty million homes and businesses in Nigeria alone. He also believes in knowledge sharing and routinely accepts opportunities to share his experience on energy-related issues with industry leaders. Sir K has leveraged years of experience in management and business diplomacy and his Harvard and Wharton degrees to help governments across Africa devise innovative solutions to the continent’s energy problems. His contributions to the development of Nigeria’s contemporary economy are inimitable, and he demonstrates his belief in the potential of our young talent by facilitating the employment of 1,000 engineers across different functions across his organisations. 

As the chair of our company’s board of directors, he demonstrated excellent interpersonal skills and offered uncommon wisdom that helped us push our business to new frontiers. He was always available for meetings, punctual with obligations, available to guide in crisis, nurture in private, and promote our cause in public. When I have been at a crossroads in recent years, I have turned to him for his invaluable wisdom and his words have illuminated my path. 

When we began planning his 60th birthday, he made it clear that he wanted a small and solemn celebration. It was unexpected, especially for a Nigerian man of his standing. Here, it is expected that at 60, a man should receive tributes and praises that massage his ego and exaggerate his achievements. But not Sir K. He said, “I just want people to celebrate with friends and family. I want them and me to have fun. I want it to be a fun night. It’s not about me or my ego. It’s just a night to thank God who has made it all possible by feasting with friends.” Well, he isn’t winning that battle but that’s his desire and it shows the kind of man he is.

Sir K has a special gift of seeing a seed and the tree it can become. Many evenings, I have been invited to his dinner table to break bread with young entrepreneurs, tech, finance, oil and gas CEOs, comedians, and musicians; some upcoming, a few established. He always surrounds himself with young people especially those he can help up the ladder.

At his birthday celebration, the play presented is by a young group in his church. When we extensively discussed options, we had many groups with a proven track record of delivering excellent performances. Sir K was emphatic that this group should do it. He said, “I want to give them a chance”. Trusting his discernment, I encouraged the committee to let them audition, and if we were unsatisfied, we would make adjustments. 

And boy, did they deliver! When I watched the rehearsals, this little-known theatre amazed me, and, because of this great man’s belief, they presented before presidents, captains of industry and the high and mighty.

One shy to take centre stage, one not wanting to compete with God, one who just wants to be. I have walked into several rooms by his side where he insists I am accorded the same honour as he. He is a simple man who prefers subtlety to shows of power.

I remember one evening he asked me to come with him to an event where he wanted me to meet a president of a country. It was a last-minute decision and he hadn’t had the time to inform the organisers. On getting there, there was a bit of chaos at the door because of the lack of prior notice. The organisers pleaded that he be seated whilst they made accommodations for me. He thanked them but refused to go in. He stood with me until arrangements were made to seat me. 

This was a humbling and educational experience for me. A demonstration of the kind of consideration that has made him a friend to presidents. You would be hard-pressed to find a photo of him with a global leader anywhere on the internet, except for the rare occasions when official duties necessitate. But Sir K is a trusted advisor to many global leaders and captains of industry because he has earned their trust, proven his capacity and shown discretion. 

I know this will upset Sir K, but I feel the occasion demands that I break the strict policy of silence he has about his philanthropy and talk about some of the many ways he has given back to his community. His philanthropy encompasses infrastructural development, humanitarian work, education, access to healthcare, innovation and mentorship. Sir K is a quiet doer, not concerned with optics, only impact. Thousands of us are grateful beneficiaries of his limitless potential for charity.

Sir Kola Adesina is a present father to his children Oluwatimilehn, Oluwagbemisoke and Oluwafamimora, and an exemplary husband to Mosunmola, his wife. His devotion to his family and faith is only rivalled by his commitment to corporate excellence. Sir K would always say, “Be nothing and God everything”. He never jokes with his prayers at dusk nor his vigils at dawn and plays an active role in his church. Unlike many, he also worships at a local church and supports all their projects. He believes that God is everywhere, but like Elijah, he hears God best where there is less noise. With national honours to his name and global recognition, I couldn’t have asked for a better mentor. 

Today, I thank Sir Kola Adesina for giving me unprecedented access to learn from his life, for using his candle to light mine, and for holding my hand up as I climb the ladder of life. I doff my hat to a leader, a friend, a nation-builder, a mentor, and an exemplary husband and father.

Happy birthday, sir and thank you!

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This week, we’re doing life with Oyinlomo Barakat Quadre, a Nigerian tennis player and currently the highest-ranked Nigerian in the WTA women’s singles category. In 2018, she was ranked number one in Nigeria, ninth in Africa and No. 945 in singles. Enjoy the conversation!

Hey Barakat. How do you do?

Hello, I am doing great. Thank you.

Great! Can you give me a peep into what influenced who you are today?

I come from a tennis family where everyone except my mum plays tennis.  My siblings played tennis professionally and due to the huge age gap between us and my admiration for them, tennis quickly became something I dream about daily.

So I can say tennis runs in the blood?

You can say. I got introduced to tennis when I started showing up at my sister’s practice sessions. I was attached to her and would go everywhere with her, including the tennis court. I started playing tennis at the age of 4 and basically haven’t stopped ever since. It was difficult to manage playing tennis, going to school and also having a social life as a kid but we were able to work it out until I turned 12 when I officially moved to Morocco.

How would you describe your journey from being an aspiring player to becoming a professional athlete?

My journey has been nothing short of interesting. Like every other person I have had ups and downs but most importantly it was something I wouldn’t want to trade for anything else. The most difficult thing I have had to sacrifice in this transition would have to be time with family; I have missed a lot of milestones, celebrations and important moments in my family due to being a professional athlete. I have lived that life since I was 12 years old and I can’t tell you that it gets easier because it doesn’t.

Who do you play for now?

Right now, I play college tennis at FIU (Florida International University) which is in Miami, Florida.

Oh good. Looking back on your career so far, what moment are you most proud of?

I would say winning all the national tournaments at the age of 15, I was very proud of myself because those were the tournaments I grew up watching and being able to complete the Nigerian slam which was about 5 national tournaments and also winning the national festival hosted in Abuja. That moment was a standout moment for me because winning at home always holds something special.

I agree. Can you tell me about a match or tournament that was particularly memorable for you?

My most memorable set of tournaments would have to be in Togo and Benin where I played my first International Tennis Federation (ITF) Junior tournament and won the singles title in all three weeks at the age of 13. I went there with my coach at that time and many other teammates turned family. For me, it was so fun to play matches every day, to win multiple titles and to do it all while having fun.

Outside of tennis, what other passions or hobbies do you have?

Outside of tennis, I love reading, watching Korean series, trying new restaurants and dressing up. I repeat, I love dressing up!

How do you like to relax and unwind after a tough match or training session?

Most times I like to watch historical Korean series, they are very lighthearted and they just help me feel a bit normal because when you spend a lot of time playing tennis, you do a lot of things outside the court that are still related to tennis and that can be tiring. I also like to try new restaurants with my friends which means dressing up and eating which are two things that bring me happiness.

Any chance to dress up sha

Yes o.

Love that. What’s a typical day in your life? You know, what you’d from morning till night

7:00 – I do my skincare routine and grab a bar (I’m not a morning person and don’t eat an actual breakfast.) 7:30 – I start walking to the courts. 7:45 – In the locker room, I change, stretch and get ready for the session. 8:00 until 11:00 – I play tennis and do some strength and conditioning training. 11:00 – 12:00 – Sometimes I have extra sessions with my coach for about 30 minutes and then spend 30 minutes for recovery in the training room. Other times, I just do recovery directly after the official practice session. My afternoons are flexible due to my classes, which have varying timings. I eat lunch right after recovery and proceed with my day. Sometimes, I also do a one-hour unofficial practice session in the afternoon. After my classes, I cook dinner or buy dinner and spend the evening doing homework or watching Korean series.

What’s that unconventional thought you have about the world?

As humans, we always want to enjoy the good times. Some of us forget that the not-so-good times are actually a part of our life experiences. “Regression to the mean” is the unconventional thought I keep in mind and it just means that no matter how extremely right or extremely wrong something is (life, relationship, tennis, friendships), it would always come back to the midpoint slowly but surely. As human beings, we just fail to see it when it happens because we don’t practice the act of gratitude enough. So I tell myself that things will always even out, no matter how good or bad it gets, there will be a balance at some point (the middle). This has truly helped me prepare, accept and work through every situation I find myself in.

That’s a nice way to observe life

Thank you.

One crazy thing you’d do if the world weren’t watching you?

Give unsolicited advice to people on the internet. I am a natural listener so I am always drawn to people who just want to talk and I always just want to help out. I guess that’s why I majored in psychology.

How would you describe yourself in three words?

Stylish, kind and bubbly.

One thing in your everyday life that brings you joy?

Tennis! As crazy as it sounds, sometimes playing tennis heals wounds that aren’t even related to tennis and serves as a form of therapy for me.

Thank you for being on Doing Life With…, Barakat

Thank you for having me, BellaNaija.

Many thanks to Oyinlomo Barakat Quadre for having this conversation with us and answering all our questions.

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Nigeria’s real estate market is lucrative. Over the last century, property purchases and sales have been occurring more frequently. The population is growing, leading to more people living in cities and an increasing real estate economy. Foreign investors are interested in Nigeria’s real estate, and there are substantial opportunities for profit as the market thrives. However, it’s crucial to thoroughly understand the market and conduct proper due diligence before getting started.

One of the issues plaguing Nigeria is that there are not enough houses available for everybody. Nigeria requires 17 million new homes to provide housing for everyone, experts say. Meanwhile, it is a massive opportunity for investors because a lot of people are looking to buy or rent houses and apartments if you build them. Yet, building homes is an expensive and complex business that requires adequate planning in terms of location and timing.

Nigeria’s real estate market offers a variety of investment opportunities. You can invest in residential properties like homes and apartments for steady rental income. Commercial properties such as offices and shops can be profitable, but their success may be affected by economic changes. Industrial properties like warehouses and factories may offer long-term leases. Investing in land, particularly undeveloped property, can lead to increased value over time. Agricultural properties, particularly farmland, are growing in popularity too as Nigeria focuses on agriculture.

First and foremost, you should consider Lagos. The real estate market in Lagos, Nigeria’s most populous city, is booming. This vibrant metropolis offers ample investment opportunities. As Nigeria’s commercial capital, Lagos continues to experience significant population growth. Many affluent individuals in Lagos are seeking luxury homes, making it an attractive market for real estate development and investment. However, property prices in Lagos can be steep, so be prepared to make substantial investments. Real estate investment in Lagos presents opportunities for generating steady income, primarily through renting out properties. However, this does not mean investments in other Nigerian cities do not yield maximum profit. In fact, for future purposes, you should consider investing outside Lagos.

Governmental Support

The government has started supporting Nigeria’s real estate sector more because it realises its financial potential. It recognises the vital role that real estate plays in Nigeria, especially in its government. It is working to make property investment more accessible by formulating fresh laws to safeguard property rights, providing tax incentives for certain real estate investments, and making property registration easier. The government is also making efforts to provide affordable housing. These measures could simplify and reduce the risks of real estate investments in the future.

The game is changing with technology

In Nigeria, as well as globally, the technology sphere is revolutionising various industries, including real estate. New digital tools are simplifying the process of buying, selling, and maintaining properties. Online platforms are aiding people in finding and listing properties, while virtual tours enable buyers to view homes without physically visiting them. Additionally, apps are assisting landlords in managing properties and collecting rent. Blockchain technology has the potential to enhance the security of property transactions. If you’re considering investing in Nigerian real estate, it’s advisable to familiarise yourself with these new technologies as they can help you save time and money.

While there are numerous opportunities in Nigerian real estate, it is important to be aware of certain risks. Land ownership disputes are common, and some areas experience security issues. The legal system can be slow and complex, and there are still issues with corruption in certain parts of the industry. Property values can also be influenced by economic fluctuations.

Remember, the location of a property is crucial as it significantly impacts its value. Factors that contribute to a good location include proximity to good schools and hospitals, easy access to transportation, the safety of the neighbourhood, and nearby amenities such as shops and entertainment. When considering properties, carefully assess the surrounding area as a good location can increase the value of your investment.

Real estate can be a vehicle for long-term wealth building. Property values tend to appreciate over time, rental income can provide a steady cash flow, and you can leverage the equity in one property to purchase more. Investing in real estate can also help diversify your investment portfolio. If you make informed decisions and exercise patience, investing in real estate in Nigeria has the potential to significantly increase your wealth in the long run. While there are risks associated with the growing market, there are also numerous opportunities in major cities. Additionally, advancements in technology are reshaping the industry, different types of properties offer various benefits, and the right location is pivotal for success. Overall, real estate can be a sound long-term investment.

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This week, we’re doing life with Rach Idowu who is using her platforms to advocate for ADHD. She gives us a glimpse into her life, background and journey. Enjoy!

Hey Rach, how are you today?

I’m doing great today. I’m currently on holiday in the USA visiting family in a few states and getting to see new places on my bucket list.

Awesome! Give us a peep into your background 

I was born and raised in London to Nigerian parents. I am the middle child and had middle child syndrome being 2 years apart from my 2 sisters. Growing up, I had so much energy as a kid. I was always outside rollerblading, playing with neighbours, and an avid gamer. In school, I was always drawn to subjects that left room for imagination/interpretation like Sociology, Media Studies and Business. My teachers would tell me that I had the gift of the gab, I was charismatic and I had the attention span of a goldfish. In 2016, I graduated with a BA (Hons) in International Business with two years of study abroad from the University of Hertfordshire. During my studies, I spent a year abroad at the University of North Carolina Wilmington in the US and a semester at Universitat Pompeu Fabra in Barcelona. I also completed a 6-month internship working for a US company in Barcelona.

Tell us a little about your career  

I spent most of my career working in the UK Civil Service, doing a range of roles from Procurement, Contract Management, Commercial, and Policy. I tend to be drawn to high-pressured and high-profile roles that give me a lot of responsibility and enable me to engage with a range of stakeholders. I no longer work for the UK Civil Service; I currently work in the Utilities/Energy sector in the Electricity Markets. My role is more of an operational role where I work with stakeholders, experts and industry, ensuring the security of the electricity supply and working to ensure we operate a decarbonised electricity system by 2035.

Sounds like a lot. You’re vocal about living with ADHD, tell us about it

Around 2016, before I was formally diagnosed with ADHD, I thought I was developing early-onset dementia. I started to notice that I was forgetting things, poorly organised, and dealing with ADHD tax. I was just all over the place. I booked an appointment with my General Practitioner, and she gave me a memory test on the spot, which I passed. Fast forward to 2018, I started the process of getting assessed for ADHD. My GP initially said she didn’t think I could have ADHD because I graduated and had a good job. I had to push her to refer me to the psychiatrist for an assessment. In January 2020, at the age of 26, I was diagnosed with ADHD Combined Type. The whole diagnosis process took 1 year and 6 months via the UK National Health Service. I initially felt a sense of relief because I had answers. If it wasn’t ADHD, I was sure it was probably a brain tumour — thank God it isn’t. And then I felt sad, thinking about what my life could have been like if my ADHD had been identified earlier on because of the support and treatment I would have received, which would have helped. Since then, I have been raising awareness online, featured in many news publications (BBC, NY Times, etc.), and invited to speak about ADHD/Neurodiversity in the workplace.

We’re proud of what you’ve done, Rach

Thank you.

How has living with ADHD influenced your daily routine and lifestyle?

Trying to stick to a routine feels like I’m putting my on-the-go ADHD brain in a cage, that it doesn’t want to be in. I know that routines are meant to be helpful but I can’t help but feel restricted and bored with having a daily routine. I think it’s important to find what works for you, that doesn’t feel like a chore or self-punishment. There is no set way of adulting with ADHD but here are a few things that I have found helpful I have found a few things to be helpful: using a reward system, employing gamification methods, practising productive procrastination, using fidget toys, engaging in body doubling, writing a list to organise my thoughts before starting a task, picking 1-3 ‘must dos’ for the day, and setting daily markers instead of creating a strict schedule, which allows for more flexibility. I also use the ADHD Traits Flashcards I created which include a coping strategy for each symptom I’m struggling with, which makes things so much easier.

You’re very open about ADHD on social media. How do you maintain a positive mindset and stay motivated despite the challenges of living with it?

I only started my AdultingADHD Substack newsletter and also tweeting about my ADHD because my post-diagnosis appointments with the psychiatrists got cancelled due to the COVID-19 lockdown in the UK. I had no one to turn to, so I started my newsletter as an informal online buddy to anyone else feeling lonely and mainly for myself. It’s amazing to have over 11,000 subscribers now. I was dealing with internalised ableism and embarrassment so my Twitter account was anonymous for about 1 year which helped me develop confidence and build community online. I have good days and bad days but not chasing perfectionism has helped me a lot. I also have supportive friends and family and my faith in Jesus helps me tackle feeling defeated, down and not enough.

What advice would you give to others who have been recently diagnosed or are struggling to manage their ADHD?

Your brain isn’t broken, you’re not lazy or worthless. We need to reject every negative word given to us and try not to internalise people’s negative opinions. I know it’s easier said than done but it’s important to be said. Also, finding community makes a massive difference. If you don’t have an in-person community, tap into social media platforms and virtual groups. If you don’t know where to start, a simple search for ADHD or asking a question is a way to start. Also, a big thing that helped me was listening to ADHD podcasts like Translating ADHD, ADHD Rewired, ADHD for Smart Ass Women, and take control ADHD podcast. I find listening to guests who have ADHD and are in the working world encouraging and relatable and I learn a lot as well.

What’s a typical day for you?

I like to wake up between the hours of 5-6:30 am, whether I’m working from home or going into the office. The first thing I do is open the YouVersion Bible app where I read a bible plan and then I put on some gospel music on Spotify. I still have a bad habit of scrolling through social media though. If I’m working from home, I’m all showered and dressed before 7 and then I make myself a cup of coffee. I work on personal projects such as writing for my newsletter, editing a YouTube video or doing some coding before the day job starts.

I log on to work between 8:30 to 9 a.m. and then it’s meetings, tasks and deadlines. After work around 5:30ish, I have to decompress for at least 45 minutes. This is either going for a walk around the neighbourhood or lying flat in bed. After work on most days, I’m catching up with my fav TV series, meeting up with friends or going to an event. On Wednesdays, I have improv classes from 8-10 pm, and then I might go to the pub with my class at 10 pm. Then it’s bedtime. On the weekends, it’s mostly working on passion projects, meeting up with friends and family and then church on Sundays.

What’s that unconventional thought about the world that you think people might not agree with?

I’m not sure if this is unconventional, but I think governments should build underground bunkers. Everyone should be assigned bunkers based on locations in the event of an apocalypse happening. Entry should be optional, of course. You can probably tell I watch way too many sci-fi shows. Haha.

A moment or experience when you felt particularly proud of yourself?

I honestly never thought I’d be able to use my story to help many adults with ADHD, especially being booked to speak at different companies. Recently, I was helping someone with ADHD who was extremely suicidal and just felt lost and hopeless. They were diagnosed with ADHD but still didn’t have support or access to treatment. I spent some time listening to their issues and providing practical suggestions. I also gave them decks of the ADHD Flashcards. I was told by their relative (who introduced me to them) that they’re doing extremely well and life has turned around for the better. It was a special moment.

Awwwn. A skill or hobby you picked up in the past year and enjoy?

Improv! I completed Level 1 in May and completed Level 2 in July which ended with my first live performance in a packed room. The highlight was being able to be creative and be any character on the spot, it also helped that the audience found me funny.

One crazy thing you’d do if the world wasn’t watching you?

I would borrow a monster truck (like you see on TV) and ride it around town.

Haha, sounds fun! One thing in your everyday life that brings you joy?

Lately, I’ve been practising more gratitude. So being grateful that I’m alive, having friends that make me laugh and just being able to help people in any way that I can.

Rach in three emojis?

Thank you for being on Doing Life With…, Rach

Thank you for having me, BellaNaija.

Many thanks to Rach Idowu for having this conversation with us and answering all our questions.

Do you love this content, have any feedback for us or want to be a BellaNaija Features contributor? We’d love to read from you. Shoot us an email: features@bellanaija.com. Join us on Saturday for the next episode!

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Investing in stocks may seem tasking, but it’s simpler and more accessible than you might think, especially with the ongoing public offers by Nigerian banks. There have been many conversations about stock investing, with people wondering whether they should participate in the bank’s public offers or not. Whether you’re new to the world of finance or looking to diversify your investment portfolio, there are ways to understand stock investing in a straightforward and relatable manner.

Understanding Stock Investing

Stock investing involves buying a small piece of a company, which makes you a part-owner and entitles you to a share of the company’s profits, often distributed as dividends. If the company’s value increases, the price of your stock also goes up, allowing you to sell it at a higher price than you bought it. Investing in stocks is not limited to the wealthy; it’s for anyone looking to build long-term financial security and grow their wealth. By owning shares in reputable companies, you can create a diverse investment portfolio that balances risk and potential returns.

There are several reasons to consider investing in stocks. There is long-term growth where stocks have historically provided higher returns compared to other investments over the long term. There is dividend income where many companies, including Nigerian banks, regularly pay dividends, providing a steady income stream. And there is ownership where owning stocks means you have a stake in the company’s success.

When investing in stocks, it’s important to understand the associated risks. Firstly, there is always the chance that the company you invested in may not perform as well as anticipated. Additionally, be prepared for price fluctuations, as stock prices are not stable and can rise and fall. However, if you invest in solid companies, you can rest assured that in the long run, you will likely see favourable returns. 

Why Are Nigerian Banks Selling Shares?

You might be wondering why many banks are currently selling shares. Is there cause for concern? The answer is no. Nigerian banks are participating in the CBN Banking Sector Recapitalisation Program. Similar to the situation in 2005 under Soludo’s regime, banks are required to recapitalise. Commercial Banks with international authorisation must have N500 billion in their capital and commercial banks with national and regional authorisation must have N200 billion and N50 billion, respectively.

To meet these requirements, banks are raising funds by offering shares to the public. This presents a unique opportunity to be a part-owner of these institutions and potentially increase your wealth. Many Nigerian banks have been reliably paying dividends, making them appealing for long-term investors. Don’t rush into the offer just because it’s popular and the banks are actively promoting it. Take the time to research and comprehend the figures and financial reports. If possible, seek advice from your financial advisor and make an informed decision for yourself.

How to Get Started

Each bank has a subscription form, which you can download from their website or walk into the bank branch. But there is an even more straightforward alternative through the newly launched NGX INVEST platform by the Nigerian Exchange (NGX), the stock market regulators. This platform consolidates all primary offers, making it easy for you to invest in any public offer securely. Stock investing can be a powerful tool for building wealth. Whether you’re interested in banking stocks or exploring other industries, the key is to educate yourself, research the companies you wish to invest in, stay informed, and invest wisely.

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Aderonke Adesola, a passionate Nigerian sports fan, is making waves as a female Yoruba language radio presenter. Her lively commentary and deep sports knowledge have captivated millions – and with the Olympics kicking off, millions more are likely to tune in.

“…and it’s a corner kick for Man City!”

“They’re trying by putting pressure on Arsenal’s No. 18 but their defender Ben White kicked it out, so he isn’t a ‘Ben 10’!”

“Raya is pushing Akanji…while saying ‘Akanji don’t push me?’”

“Pep Guardiola clearly needs a water break!”

“There is no end to the bullets in the guns at Arsenal!”

It’s 6:30 PM on Sunday and Aderonke is live. The popular sports presenter has about three million listeners within Ibadan, Nigeria’s third largest city. Her lively updates and analysis of soccer, motorsports, golf, and even racket sports have fans eagerly tuning in several times a week.

Her show “Jawonsi” means “let them know” in the Yoruba language, and is hosted on Splash FM. The station is based in Ibadan, from where it reaches most of the country’s southwestern Oyo State. The broadcast is entirely in Yoruba, one of Nigeria’s main languages.

Adesola says she’s been obsessed with playing and discussing sports – especially soccer – since childhood. Her mother bought her a radio set after she finished high school. She spent countless hours following sports and debating with her three young brothers about the English Premier League.

Her mother had hoped she would go on to nursing school, but Adesola chose to study mass communications instead.

Adesola knew it was going to be difficult convincing sports media owners to front a woman. She was also aware that her desire to present in Yoruba would make breaking through the glass ceiling even harder.

Her determination paid off when she called into her favourite Yoruba sports show to ask a question. The host and producers were impressed by her knowledge, confidence, and her age. She was invited for an internship and was allowed to host the programme.

African media outlets are part of the global industry’s pivot towards youthful audiences, women’s sports, cultural content, and social media integration. Splash FM was ahead of many. In 2019 the station put out a call for Yoruba-speaking sports presenters, specifically women.

Adesola was ready.

‘’I know what I want. I know my onions. I’m disciplined. It is a male-dominated field but I can also be heard, I can also be known, and that’s why I present in a unique way,” she said.

When she is not on the radio, she keeps the banter going on the internet where “Jawonsi” is video streamed. Adesola is known on social media as “Olori Sports”. Olori means “queen” in Yoruba. The Summer Olympics in Paris is currently her hot topic on the air and on social platforms that enable her to reach and engage with followers beyond Ibadan.

She is also now a vocal advocate for gender equality in sports media. ‘’I can’t wait to see more women doing this job. We should also be given as much as the guys, you just need to know your stuff and be passionate,” she said.

Adesola – who recently became a mother – spends considerable time researching and scripting the 30-minute show, which also airs on Mondays, Wednesdays, and Fridays. “I have checks and balances for myself from time to time so that I don’t let my job affect taking care of my home and child,” she explained.

She’s also keen to continue promoting Yoruba culture. The language is also spoken in neighbouring countries like Benin, and Togo, and in the diaspora. According to Ethnologue, a database of languages, cultures, and communities, there are at least 47 million Yoruba speakers.

Sunday Adegoke, who lives in Ibadan, is an avid listener of Adesola’s radio show.

‘’I am a Yoruba man and if you can understand what she says, her Yoruba is the real one, it is not the Yoruba of nowadays, it is the bottom line, concrete Yoruba,” said the civil engineer and soccer fan.

Nigeria has a relatively high radio penetration rate, especially in some rural areas where access to other media and the internet is still limited. A study conducted by industry researchers mediaReach OMD in 2020 found that radio reach in Nigeria was at about 81% of the population – or 169.7 million listeners. Adesola has big plans based on radio’s dominance, social media’s exponential growth, and her Yoruba heritage.

“My goal is to work with big brands and organizations that are willing to take Yoruba to the global stage, like Chinese, Korean, Japanese, yes you can also get a translator for Yoruba in the world of sports,’’ she said.

When Adesola is in the studio, however, she’s not thinking about the future. She gets so caught up in the action when commenting live, that she often has trouble staying in her seat. It’s what some refer to as the magic of radio.

Her listeners can’t catch the twinkle in her eye when she’s saying something witty or see her animated expressions. But the sound waves somehow carry her enthusiasm and dedication to the listeners – and they adore her for it.

Akinrinsola Oladayo runs a viewing centre in Ibadan where sports fans can come to watch or listen to local and international matches. There are other Yoruba language sports shows, but he says there’s a reason why Adesola is the queen.

‘’I love the lady’s Yoruba commentary. She adds spices to it. She says things that make you laugh, her ginger (energy) is awesome,” he said.

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As we celebrate Africa’s Women’s Day, a pivotal moment in African history, it’s a good time to revisit a gathering that took place in Tanzania in 1962 when women from across the newly independent nations of Africa converged in Dar es Salaam, united by a singular purpose: to create a more promising future for the continent. It wasn’t a social gathering, but a strategic assembly — the inaugural conference of the Pan-African Women’s Organisation (PAWO).

The PAWO conference wasn’t just a milestone for African women; it was the beginning of something great for the continent. A year later, in 1963, the Organisation of African Unity (OAU), the precursor to the African Union (AU), held its first summit in Addis Ababa. While the men deliberated on continental unity, PAWO had laid the groundwork. The courageous and determined women had set the stage for pan-Africanism, encouraging collaboration and a shared vision for a stronger Africa.

Pioneers with Purpose: Building from the Ground Up

The women of PAWO weren’t simply spectators of change; they were architects. I wonder why I had never heard of these women nor read about the PAWO conference in history books until Faith Adhiambo, the communications officer of the AU 2063 Agenda took us through the halls of the AU building, showing us images of this important meeting that has shaped the continent.

Growing up in Nigeria, we were introduced to everything the Organisation of African Unity (OAU) represents. It was one of the most popular acronyms taught in elementary schools and was nearly impossible to miss. But until I visited the African Union Headquarters, I never knew that women like Yeshi Tadesse of Ethiopia, Barkire of Niger, Lutaya Kanza of RDC, and Kamara Da Costa of Guinea Bissau, amongst others had united as founding mothers of the Pan African Women Organisation one year ahead of the OAU. These women understood that Africa’s true potential could only be realised by empowering all its citizens, especially women. Their focus wasn’t just on political independence, but also on social and economic liberation. 

Forty-three years after the inaugural PAWO conference, their foresight came alive with the adoption of the groundbreaking Maputo Protocol by the AU in 2003. The Maputo protocol is a protocol to the African Charter on Human and Peoples’ Rights on the Rights of Women in Africa. It advocates for women’s rights in conflict, peace, and development – a direct echo of the concerns raised at the PAWO conference.

Today, the echoes of Dar es Salaam reverberate in the halls of the African Union. Women like Wynne Musabayana who heads communications of the African Union Commission, Leslie Richer, the AU’s Information and Communication Directorate, and Faith Adhiambo, the communications officer of Agenda 2063, are evidence of the success of PAWO’s vision. I have had the privilege of meeting remarkable women such as Monique Nsanzabaganwa, Deputy Chairperson of the African Union Commission, and other influential women like Minata Samate Cessouma, Carine Maro, Oby Ezekwesili, Tuyeimo Haidula, Nobantu Modise, Leyla Benhmida, Melissa Babil, and many more. These women are working tirelessly to lead the continent towards a future where gender equality is not just a goal, but a reality.

How The AU Media Fellowship is Retelling The African Narrative

PAWO is an inspiration, not just for Africa, but for the entire world. It shows us the power of collective action, of women taking their rightful place at the decision-making table, even in the face of historical disregard for their contributions. This critical role of women in the continent’s development is recognised in the African Union’s Agenda 2063 and has birthed initiatives such as the AU Media Fellowship (AUMF), in collaboration with the European Union, to ensure that Africa is at the forefront of defining and telling its narrative through new and emerging technologies.

The Pan-African Women’s Organisation may have been a spark, but the fire it ignited continues to burn brightly. As Africa charts its course toward a future of prosperity and peace, it does so with the invaluable contributions of its women—those who came before us, and those who walk among us today. Their legacy rings a powerful reminder that a continent that empowers its women empowers itself, and I am proud to be witnessing it today.

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The Caine Prize

The Caine Prize for African Writing, one of the most prestigious and coveted literary awards for African writers, has once again spotlighted the continent’s literary talents with its 2024 shortlist. The prize, established in 2000, continues to recognise exceptional short stories from African authors, promoting their works on an international stage. This year’s shortlist, featuring three Nigerian writers, is a diverse array of voices, reflecting the richness and complexity of contemporary African literature.

The 2024 Shortlist

Five exceptional stories with different perspectives and narrative styles have been shortlisted. The shortlisted stories explore a wide range of themes, from identity and migration to love and loss.

Here are the shortlisted writers and their stories for the 2024 Caine Prize for African Writing:

Tryphena Yeboah (Ghana) – The Dishwashing Women

is a Ghanaian writer and the author of the poetry chapbook, A Mouthful of Home (Akashic Books). Her fiction and essays have appeared in Narrative Magazine, Commonwealth Writers, and Lit Hub, among others. She is currently a Ph.D. student at the University of Nebraska-Lincoln, studying English with an emphasis in Creative Writing.

Nadia Davids (South Africa) – Bridling

Nadia Davids is a South African writer, theatre-maker and scholar. Her plays (At Her Feet, What Remains, Hold Still) have been staged throughout Southern Africa and in Europe. Her debut novel An Imperfect Blessing was shortlisted for Pan-African Etisalat Prize for Literature. Nadia’s short fiction and essays have appeared in The American Scholar, The Los Angeles Review of Books, Astra Magazine, The Georgia Review, the Johannesburg Review of Books and Zyzzyva Magazine. She’s held residencies at Hedgebrook, Art Omi and The Women’s Project, and was a 2023 Aspen Words Writer. Nadia has taught at Queen Mary University of London and the University of Cape Town and is the President Emeritus of PEN South Africa.

Samuel Kolawole (Nigeria) – Adjustment of Status

Samuel Kolawole is the author of a new, critically acclaimed novel, The Road to the Salt Sea. His work has appeared in AGNI, New England Review, Georgia Review, The Hopkins Review, Gulf Coast, Washington Square Review, Harvard Review, Image Journal, and other literary publications. He has received numerous residencies and fellowships and has been a finalist for the Graywolf Press Africa Prize, International Book Award, and shortlisted for UK’s The First Novel Prize, and won an Editor-Writer Mentorship Program for Diverse Writers. He is a graduate of the MFA in Writing and Publishing at Vermont College of Fine Arts; and earned his PhD in English and Creative Writing from Georgia State University. He has taught creative writing in Africa, Sweden, and the United States, and currently teaches fiction writing as an Assistant Professor of English and African Studies at Pennsylvania State University.

Uche Okonkwo (Nigeria) – Animals

Uche Okonkwo has stories published in A Public Space, One Story, the Kenyon Review, Ploughshares, The Best American Nonrequired Reading 2019, and Lagos Noir, among others. She is the author of the debut story collection A Kind of Madness: Tin House (2024); Narrative Landscape (2024); and VERVE Books (2025). A former Bernard O’Keefe Scholar at the Bread Loaf Writers’ Conference and resident at Art Omi, she is a recipient of the George Bennett Fellowship at Phillips Exeter Academy, a Steinbeck Fellowship, and an Elizabeth George Foundation grant. Okonkwo grew up in Lagos, Nigeria, and is currently pursuing a creative writing PhD at the University of Nebraska-Lincoln.

Pemi Aguda (Nigeria) – Breastmilk

Pemi Aguda is an MFA graduate from the Helen Zell Writers’ Program at the University of Michigan and the winner of the 2020 Deborah Rogers Foundation Award. Her writing has been published in One Story, Granta, Ploughshares, American Short Fiction, Zoetrope, and other publications, and has been awarded the O. Henry Prize for short fiction in 2022 and 2023. She is the author of a collection of stories, Ghostroots (W.W. Norton, 2024; Virago Press, 2024; and Masobe Books, 2024).

The winner of the 2024 Caine Prize will be announced at an award ceremony scheduled for September 2024. For more information about the prize, visit here.

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This partnership aims to spotlight successful African immigrants in Dubai, bringing you stories of their everyday lives.

This week, we are having a conversation with Temitope Senbanjo, a marketing and communications strategist with experience across the Middle East and Africa. She runs a podcast series, “Navigating Purpose with Temi,”, where she focuses on helping women drive impact and live meaningful, authentic lives. Enjoy!

How has living in Dubai been so far as an African?

It’s been quite interesting and different from when I lived and worked in Ras al Khaimah UAE in 2018. Before, Dubai was mostly considered a temporary place to live, but now more expatriates are moving here for various reasons. Many are drawn to the city for its higher quality of life, convenient location for travel, and financial benefits. People are attracted to the higher wages and tax-free status, as well as the safe environment to raise families. As an African expat, I find living in Dubai to be a great experience. The city’s diverse population, with around 85% being expats, is very welcoming. It’s nice to see a strong presence of African professionals, business owners, and freelancers. There are African shops around the city that provide familiar groceries and food, creating a homely atmosphere for me as my family is back in Nigeria.

Give us a glimpse into your background and what brought you to Dubai

I have over eight years of experience in marketing, creative brand management, corporate, and consumer communications, global/local events and crisis communications. I graduated with a distinction in Management from the University of Kent and completed my undergraduate degree in Mass Communication from Redeemers University. I have lived and worked outside Nigeria since 2018 in three countries. I started in Ras al Khaimah in the UAE, moved to Ankara in Turkey for a year, and then to Qatar. I moved back to the UAE in 2022, and have lived and worked in Dubai since then. Work brought me here as with the other places I have lived, and I currently work in a global hospitality company in communications as part of the Middle East and Africa (MEA) team. My projects focus primarily on the African continent and it’s been a rewarding experience. 

Tell us about your professional journey back home and now in Dubai

I lived in Nigeria and worked in various roles at Heirs Holdings and in Transcorp Hotels Plc. as their pioneer Marketing and Communications lead. My story with Heirs Holdings is quite an interesting one. After completing my Master’s degree in the UK, I moved back to Nigeria looking for my big break. To be very honest, I was expecting to get a managerial role in maybe one of the Big 5s. I was happy to be interviewed at Heirs Holdings because it was such a great company, but my first role in 2016 was as a Client Relations Officer – Receptionist. It was a very humbling experience but I took on the role with dedication. I always put myself forward for new challenges and made sure I was present. Six months into working in that role, I was seconded to UBA as a Digital Marketing Consultant to work on a few initiatives and my career picked up from then. I recall the move to Transcorp Hotels Plc in Abuja at the time also, I had noticed an opportunity to improve and implement key projects to further position the company as a leading hospitality organisation. Although it was already breaking its records on excellence and execution at the time. I pitched the idea to the leadership team and became the first Marketing & Communications Manager for the publicly listed company. 

This led to me pursuing a career in hospitality. I joined my current company as a graduate management trainee, which is how I got to move in 2018 to the UAE. The application process was quite rigorous and thorough. I submitted the online application and had to complete psychometric tests – verbal and quantitative reasoning, a HireVue interview (pre-recorded), an in-person online interview and then an assessment centre in Türkiye. The assessment lasted two days with about 15 prospective candidates across MEA. We completed group and individual exercises and presentations and I was selected as one of the five trainees that year. I have been with the same company for six years. 

What are the challenges you faced as an African in Dubai?

One of the greatest challenges many expats face is finding meaningful connections – with friends or even romantic relationships. Having done this for about six years, I am more vocal about seeking genuine connections and speaking to friends back home to connect me with people they might know anywhere I reside. I also ensure I am plugged into communities including church and social groups which allow me to meet and connect with new people. It is also important that in your social circles, you are perceived as someone who adds value and is helpful. 

That’s really helpful. What about highlights?

One of the greatest highlights of living and working as an African in Dubai is the access it gives you to experience multiple cultures and destinations around the world. I will say Dubai is a melting pot and a hub for this. If properly harnessed, you can build wealth and change your life.

Can you share any insights or experiences regarding the job market in Dubai for Africans? 

I will focus on Nigeria because I am most familiar with this market. It is currently tough due to strict immigration policies and measures implemented by the authorities regarding border control and employment. Compared to six years ago, the situation is less flexible, but companies are still hiring and processing applications for eligible candidates. The job market has become highly competitive, with an abundance of skilled labour available, which may be disheartening for Nigerians and some African countries. Working for a multinational organization with a strong track record increases the likelihood of securing employment in Nigeria. 

What obstacles have you faced, if any, in terms of securing employment, advancing in your career, or having access to certain industries or positions?

I believe that the higher up you go, the less it becomes solely about your technical expertise. It is no longer about how hard, but about how smart you work, and also how you are perceived across various teams and people you interact with. Discussing with friends here, I find that it’s also become difficult to pivot to new industries at mid-management, and it is recommended to get career coaches as it is an ever-evolving employment landscape.  

It is safe to say you have settled in alright and become successful in Dubai. What would you consider as special ingredients to your success story?

I believe the first secret to success lies in your prayer room. As you walk and commune with God, asking Him for help, favour, and direction, He is never wrong and is always right on time. Another important thing is your network. I am surrounded by strong, intelligent people who I can rely on. This takes a lot of time and effort, and you need to be very deliberate about your circle of friends. I am never afraid to ask for help, and I now do this more often than not because there is just so much to do and to learn I simply cannot be everywhere at the same time and need my support system. Also, personal and professional development is very important. You need to constantly take courses, train, learn, and unlearn. The process might be uncomfortable in the beginning, but it usually pays off. You need to be a master of your craft. You need to show up and strive for excellence.

Comparing lifestyles in your country of origin and the country you currently reside in, what changes did you have to make to settle in? 

The first thing I would say was focusing on my finances. It is very easy to be swayed by the glitz and glam in Dubai and not save money. The Emirate already allows you to earn above what you would have back home, and it is important to take full advantage of that and try as much as possible to avoid lifestyle inflation. I opened investment accounts, budgeted and tracked where my money was going. I ensure I live within my means and have set clear actionable goals and a budget to achieve financial freedom and independence. I also got a life insurance policy outside of what the office provides to add a good buffer. I have regular conversations with my friends about wealth management and constantly look for the best opportunities where possible. I think it’s also important to be flexible and have an open mind to accept other people and cultures. Be willing to make new friends outside of your race and always seek to add value anywhere you are. 

What are the things Africans looking to relocate to your country keep in mind?

The UAE is a nation with high morals and value systems. Although it is primarily inhabited by expats, they are big on their culture and customs and you must be willing to obey the rules they have set. Dubai is very fast-paced and it is very easy to be distracted. It’s important to have a plan and set clear goals about the type of life you desire and work towards that. You do not need to live in the fanciest neighbourhoods or drive the latest cars. Your concern should be about what’s in your bank account, the legacy and impact you want to achieve and also improving the lives of the family you have left back home. I have heard so many stories of people who come here and have nothing to show for it. So, it’s important to keep your eyes on the prize. There is something for everyone here depending on what you are looking for. Dubai is also a safe place to raise a family for people considering making the big move.

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Have you ever wished for more time? Has the day ever ended, leaving you wondering how quickly it passed? Worse still, have you ever felt so tired yet achieved so little? You haven’t done any real work but feel drained, with low energy levels? There are several reasons for this.

In a world where everything is accessible via your smartphone and the internet, we are constantly distracted by irresistible skits, videos, and pictures from strangers, friends, and family. When you escape it on Instagram, you get stuck on WhatsApp status or a link to a TikTok or Snapchat video. If you try to be too serious, an interesting post on LinkedIn might catch your eye, leading you to Google more about the topic while all your planned tasks for the day suffer. The distractions are constantly in our faces, and before you realise how much time you’ve spent on the internet, your important hours are exhausted. It is important to ask ourselves, what kind of person must we become to maximise the 24 hours we have each day?

In the past, all we had was TV. Local TV stations had our lives planned for us because we could only watch movies at night and watch the news for one hour. But now we have 24-hour news networks. You can watch thousands of movies non-stop, and you can watch hundreds of thousands of music videos. You have millions of music selections you can listen to anytime. You can read millions of stories or books anytime, anywhere. We have too much of everything, anytime we want it.

According to statistics, the average person spends over 3 hours per day on their phone, which totals more than 20 hours a week. Another report by the American Psychological Association found that multitasking with digital devices can reduce productivity by up to 40%. This constant influx of information and entertainment significantly impacts productivity and focus.

We deserve to have fun and enjoy the gift of unlimited content and entertainment, but we must also learn to manage our time and avoid distractions. These should not replace the necessary work we need to do to achieve our goals. They must not encroach on our reading time as students, our work time as employees or entrepreneurs, or our time for spiritual growth and connection with God. While addictive, these fun distractions should be treated as such, and we should only engage with them when our schedule allows.

It’s challenging to label these activities as distractions because many social media posts, YouTube videos, and movies can be helpful. However, just as it’s wrong to close your eyes to pray while driving—not because prayer is wrong but because the time is inappropriate—it’s also wrong to use time meant for other tasks to indulge in social media, movies, 24-hour news networks, or internet browsing. The point is to allocate and schedule specific times for these activities.

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I just left the airport, I said I must come here – there was no way I was going to miss this chance to cook. I admire Luke’s MO, the brilliant raconteur who was inspired to give his readers an important addendum. Having originally written the third synoptic gospel, he would go on to critically document the Acts of the Apostles which he started by making a veiled reference to his previous work, “the former treatise have I made, o Theophilus”. A little over a year ago, I made some submissions about the leadership archetypes of David and Saul. So it’s only imperative that I share a sequel to those original thoughts.

Some of my original thoughts: “A king that would appropriate the best of state resources to himself and his cronies while taxing them (citizens) to high heavens without commensurate delivery of a social contract clause.” “Some ‘intellectuals’ swore that he was the best thing since the cedars of Lebanon.” “He repressed fundamental rights and religious freedoms; the civic space had so shrunk under Saul’s tyranny.” “Whose CV is riddled with falsehoods, misrepresentations and exaggerated achievements.” “He is heavy on propaganda.” “Just as he was over-hyped before becoming king, he proved to be a spectacular failure in office.” “The overall best in oppression, junketing and looting the treasury dry but when it came to delivering good governance, he was unavailable.” “You shall cry on that day because of the king you have chosen.”

My views on Saul were neither personal nor partisan; I merely described him based on the intelligence extrapolated from his dossier. Nothing he does surprises me, I am familiar with his game. From his origin story, the best thing they could say about him was his aesthetics, not his competence. I established in no uncertain terms that Saul was a pseudo-messiah – he was not touched by the feelings of the people’s infirmities. He was just a ceremonial king with no gravitas; the lack of legitimacy hounded him from the beginning of his reign till its abrupt end. The people no send am; they were more fascinated by whatever David did or said. Imagine being an incumbent king and hearing the people you govern over dancing and singing: “Saul has killed a thousand enemies; David has killed ten thousand!” Saul wasn’t a prophet, his act of prophesying was circumstantial. It was so odd that people asked themselves what afterwards became a famous question that year, “Is Saul now among the prophets?”

Saul was not a priest, Samuel rebuked him twice for carrying out burnt offerings without authorisation. The second time when he tried to be clever by half, Samuel said “Do you think all God wants are sacrifices? Empty rituals just for show?” Saul, ever incorrigible, failed to realise that the hood doesn’t make the monk; obedience will always be better than sacrifice.

Conversely, David wasn’t just a true king, he was also a prophet and a priest. David was so great a king that Jesus during his time on earth would give utmost priority to anyone who recognised him by his ancestral title, “Son of David”. As a prophet, David prophesied about the resurrection of Jesus over a thousand years before it happened. As a priest, David is after the order of Melchizedek. That’s why when the ark of the covenant was being returned from Obededom’s crib to Jerusalem, the very same city where Melchizedek once ruled as a priest-king – David was outchea dressed as a high priest and looking dapper in a linen ephod. Trust me, David is the real city boy, he just doesn’t brag about it. He blessed the people and distributed portions to them because he’s evidently a high priest who is touched by the feelings of their infirmities and he’s also relative to those he is called to redeem. Saul’s daughter, Michal, was clearly raised by a father who was heavy on aesthetics. No surprise she was angry about how ordinary David looked over the joy of having the ark back.

The unfortunate thing about Saul was that he knew he was in trouble and his reign was coming to an inglorious end, yet he was goading his followers. Saul had admitted to David privately that David would be king. God had already told Samuel that he had rejected Saul. Yet Saul, ever full of hubris, tried to stop David’s prophecy with propaganda. Till the very end, Saul was so desperate to get a co-sign from Samuel which he considered a form of legitimacy that he surreptitiously went to consult a witch at Endor for that purpose.

Let me put you on game; I only ask that you come through with some critical thinking. When Goliath was outchea smacking his gums for forty straight days about a worthy challenger, you would expect Saul to step forward as the leader and go mano-a-mano with the opp but that doesn’t happen and it doesn’t inspire anyone else in the army to come forward. However, David comes into play and takes care of business – that blud don’t miss. You would think that should earn him a statue right? No, it earned him a target on his back! Riddle me this, how come a supposedly timid king who couldn’t face a giant suddenly found courage, not to even issue an APB but to personally lead 3,000 of the finest military men to headhunt David? I then fooled around and found something rather intriguing: there was another battle that broke out but there weren’t swords or spears in the hands of the army but surprisingly, Saul and his son had weapons. Then I discovered that there wasn’t a single blacksmith in the homeland such that everyone who wanted to keep their farm tools such as ploughshares, mattocks, axes and sickles sharp, had to go to the Philistines territory to “refine” those tools. What was even more fascinating is that this arrangement is by design from the Philistines, they literally said, “Lest they develop their weapons.”

This throws up an obvious question, what kind of king would be comfortable with such an arrangement? Certainly, not a patriot because this had gone beyond socio-economics; it bordered on national security. Suddenly it clocked that when Saul was ‘crowned’ king, the Philistines were strangely quiet. On the flip, the very day David was crowned king, the same Philistines came out in their numbers and spread themselves in the Valley of Rephaim ready for battle – ever before David officially formulated his foreign policy because they knew that anyone willing to take on Goliath must certainly be a patriot, not a puppet. When you triangulate these blocks of circumstantial evidence, you don’t have to be a trained intelligence operative or forensic psychologist to suggest that such a king might be Manchurian – an asset owned by the opps. While you chew over that, let me share some OT: be careful of the white noise – a situation where ‘intellectuals’, global organisations and other nations become not only critical but actively try to undermine good governance but are strangely quiet when you are suffering from bad governance. Forget about the smokescreen of megaphone diplomacy, behind closed doors – your individual and collective success is a direct threat to their strategic interests.

Those who were rooting for Saul should have asked themselves what Jonathan knew about Saul that made him voluntarily give up his opportunity to inherit his father’s throne but instead, aligned with an outsider. About those who deliberately misled others into rooting for Saul, I wonder whether the reputational damage they have suffered was worth it. Today, a lot of them have become a byword and a proverb, to be remembered as one of those who sold their souls for a morsel of cornbread.

Some of us have vowed to say the truth and nothing but the truth despite the lush overtures by Saul and his surrogates who are willing to pay a princely sum for us to help him bear false witness. It’s righteousness that will exalt a nation, not propaganda – skulduggery is a reproach. My generation is gifted for such a time as this; we’re patriots – not political jobbers. Since some elders like Eli are now moving funny, God has bypassed them and put his word in the mouth of little Samuel. Indeed, out of the mouth of babes and sucklings hast God perfected praise. David is him; tested, approved and trusted – na why we dey call am GOAT. The horse is prepared for the day of battle but victory comes from God. That’s why some of us will never fold; we are standing on business. I told them from the start, right from the very start. I told them they were gonna see this but for some reason, they didn’t believe it – so here we are.

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Barack Obama’s quote, “Surround yourself with people who dream of the future, not the past” resonates deeply with my experience leading the Mandela Washington Fellowship Alumni Association of Nigeria (MWFAAN). The journey hasn’t been without its challenges. There were moments when scepticism and negativity threatened to extinguish the fire in my belly. However, drawing inspiration from the American inspirational speaker, Simon Sinek’s infinite mindset framework – a framework that emphasises the “why” behind our actions – conversations with young, passionate leaders and alumni of MWFAAN became my lifeline. Their unwavering belief in the mission not only reignited my purpose but also served as a powerful tool for navigating periods of burnout. I learned some key lessons from leading the association.

Embrace the Power of Your “Why”

Building a strong organisation is like building a house. A clear and compelling “why” is the foundation. When doubt creeps in, revisit your “why.” What ignited your passion for this cause? What impact does your organisation aim to create? For MWFAAN, the “why” was simple: to empower African youths through education and leadership development. This unwavering purpose became a North Star, guiding us through moments when the path ahead seemed blurry.

Cultivate a Community of Believers

Surrounding yourself with those who share your vision is crucial. Seek out mentors, colleagues, and supporters who believe in your mission as fiercely as you do. Their unwavering belief fosters a sense of camaraderie and shared purpose, providing much-needed encouragement during challenging times. MWFAAN thrived because of a vibrant community of alumni and young leaders who became vocal champions for the cause. Their enthusiasm was contagious, reminding me of the positive change we were making, even when external scepticism threatened to dampen our spirits.

Celebrate Small Wins

Progress takes time. Don’t become discouraged by the absence of immediate, earth-shattering results. Acknowledge and celebrate every milestone, no matter how small. Each positive step forward, each life impacted, is a testament to your dedication. Celebrating these “mini-victories” keeps your team motivated and reinforces the value of your work. For MWFAAN, small wins included seeing our alumni execute projects or land coveted partnerships. These successes, while seemingly insignificant in the grand scheme, confirmed the effectiveness of our efforts and reignited our commitment to creating a brighter future for young Africans.

Embrace Open Communication and Transparency

Scepticism often thrives in the shadows of secrecy. Foster a culture of open communication and transparency within your organisation. Be open to feedback, concerns, and diverse perspectives. This not only builds trust but also allows you to address doubts and uncertainties head-on. At MWFAAN, we held regular town halls and fostered open dialogue with our members. This openness not only fostered trust but also allowed us to address any underlying scepticism and collaboratively develop improvement solutions.

Prioritise Self-Care

Leading during times of doubt is mentally and emotionally taxing. Don’t be a martyr. Prioritise self-care and establish boundaries between your work life and personal life. A well-rested, rejuvenated leader is a far more effective leader. My dedication to MWFAAN almost resulted in burnout. However, through honest self-reflection, I learned the importance of taking time for myself. This allowed me to return to my work with renewed energy and a clearer perspective.

Leading in times of scepticism is no easy feat. However, by remembering your “why,” cultivating a community of believers, celebrating small wins, fostering open communication, and prioritising self-care, you can not only weather the storms but also emerge stronger, more resilient, and even more dedicated to making a positive difference.

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Two days before my traditional wedding, I stood in the kitchen of my apartment in Lagos with my mum, ticking off items on the wedding list dad had brought from his village visit. Faint beats of Davido‘s “Unavailable” drifted gingerly into the kitchen, a spillover from the birthday party happening downstairs.

Our neighbors were throwing a party for their one-year-old, and the whole place buzzed with life. In Lagos, these parties were a constant source of joy, a welcome disruption from the usual hustle and grind. Usually, everyone in the compound was unofficially invited unless you’d had a recent fight with the host. It was an unspoken agreement. The closer you were to the host, the more you “owned” the party. In fact, if you felt close enough, you could extend invitations to your friends. And when they ask whose party it is, you’d casually say, “Oh, it’s my neighbours’, but it doesn’t matter.” While going out to join the party wasn’t on our agenda, the music’s infectious beats had a way of sneaking into our apartment. Here, in the privacy of our own space, we would let loose, dancing in ways we wouldn’t dare in public. Even when the noise threatened to burst our eardrums, we knew a plate of steaming jollof rice and chicken, a communal appeasement for the noise, would soon arrive at our doorstep accompanied by cans of coke and malt. This, after all, was Lagos in its essence – a city of captivating opposites, where salsa nights on Tuesdays coexist with strip clubs and church vigils’ on Fridays. It could make you laugh out loud even as it tested your tolerance and somehow squeezed joy out of every honk, shout, and beat.

Amidst the celebratory chaos, my mum, usually composed and stoic, suddenly started speaking in a voice barely above a whisper. We weren’t a family known for emotional displays, so I cast a questioning glance her way, a cynical ‘Is everything alright?’ hovering in the air. This conversation, however, would feel different. It would become the first, and perhaps, only time we truly shared our vulnerabilities as mother and daughter. As if sensing an opening, she started talking about her life. A life where she wasn’t the strong woman I admired, but a girl who had things done to her, things she had no say in. Sex, she confessed, wasn’t something she ever enjoyed, but one of forced pleasure, and faking moans to avoid whispers and judgment. She spoke about how she was handed over to a man, barely out of teenagehood by her own family. Then, the word slipped out from her lips: circumcision, a word that felt too clean for what it really was. She had had what they call complete removal. Her brothers, even her parents, saw her coming of age and decided they needed to ‘fix’ her. She pulled down her skirt, unwrapped her undergarments, and showed me a faint scar. A thin line that looked like a young plantain tree they’d chopped down before it ever had a chance to grow. Anger bubbled up inside me, hot and simmering, not just at my uncles and grandparents, but at these traditions that boxed us in, told us we couldn’t control our bodies, and dictated our lives before we even had a chance to live them.

Like the thick Lagos humidity, the weight of my mother’s words settled upon me that evening. Sleep, which had been a recent companion, deserted me. I stood up to shut the window from the deeply infuriating sound of our slightly overused generator, yet, I tossed and turned, praying for sleep, and hating my insomnia for rearing his head after a long time of its dreadful absence. You see, I suffer from what some might call ‘occasional insomnia,’ and my last bout was when Uncle Deyide, my Dad’s cousin and an upcoming musician, had trended on Twitter for two days for clapping back against an acclaimed African Afrobeats star, who had a cult-like of followers.

Feeling frustrated, I picked up my phone just to distract and lull me to sleep, but instead, it sent me down a rabbit hole of information on Female Genital Mutilation (FGM). It was during this exploration that I stumbled upon the news of The Gambia potentially repealing the FGM ban. Immediately, I dialled Abdullah’s familiar number, my Gambian friend from the African exchange program I participated in two years ago. Abdullah, with whom I’d shared many conversations about our home countries, seemed the perfect person to talk to.

‘Hi, Abdullah,’ I stammered, voice tight with worry. ‘Did you hear about… The Gambia?’

‘Hear about what?’ Abdullah’s voice came through the line, laced with concern.

‘The law!’ I blurted. ‘The one that stopped… erm…They might get rid of it!’

‘The FGM ban?’ He quipped, unsure if it was what I meant.

‘Are they really thinking of getting rid of it?’ I asked.

Relief washed over him, ‘Finally! Someone to talk to about this. Yeah, it’s true. Crazy, right?’

We talked for a while, and then Abdullah paused, then continued, ‘Listen, this reminds me of something…something that happened to my sister, Isatou. Remember Isatou?’ he asked.

‘Yes, yes. Your beautiful elder sister,’ I replied.

‘I was just a kid, maybe six or seven,’ he began. ‘Two strange women and a man showed up at our house. They took my mother outside, and when she came back, she was carrying this brown bag – it looked like trouble even to my little eyes. They told me to get my teenage sister, Isatou, and then shooed me outside to play. I was happy for a break and a chance to play outside. I had been inside arranging the clothes my mother wanted to send to Auntie Fufa the next day, I didn’t even notice the fear mum was trying to hide.’

‘What happened then?’ I whispered, already dreading the answer.

‘Then I heard screaming, Isatou’s screams and mum’s muffled sobs. I didn’t understand, but fear made me want to run inside. I tried to, but the man grabbed me rough, shushing me away. He was at the door while the two women were inside. So I cried, sitting helplessly by the closed window. A while later, the first woman came out, disheveled but strangely happy, like she’d done something good. Her skirt, a flowery yellow Ankara, had bloodstains and was seated one-sided and unevenly on her waist. The man guarding the door was gone, so I snuck in. Isatou was lying on the floor, with blood all around her. She looked pale like she had been running for three days nonstop. I shivered. She called my name, her voice weak and pained. I looked at mum, but she was busy talking to the other woman. Even when I called her, she wouldn’t look or answer me. It was like that for a whole week. One minute talking to herself, the next praying silently. Later, I learned she felt guilty, torn between protecting her fiercely-beloved Isatou and this… tradition.’

‘After that day, a piece of Isatou seemed to vanish. Her playful spirit, her teasing laughter that built gradually before cascading down her throat, faded away. Occasionally, glimpses of the old Isatou would resurface when she played with our youngest sister, Binta, but it would flicker and disappear just as quickly. Sometimes, she’d appear lost in a world of her own. Other times, the smallest thing could trigger an outburst, her anger boiling over like a forgotten pot on the stove. We learned to tread carefully around her, never quite knowing which Isatou we’d encounter – the simmering one, the withdrawn one, or the one on the edge. Even a simple request like ‘Isatou, can you help…’ felt like a gamble. We’d either approach a request with cautious optimism, hoping for the gentle Isatou or brace ourselves for a flare-up.’

Abdullah’s voice hitched slightly, heavy with emotion. ‘It was impossible to predict,’ he said softly. ‘You never knew how she’d react. Slowly, over months, Isatou began to piece herself back together. It wasn’t the same, but we cherished and held those glimpses fiercely. When she decided to get married, a bittersweet relief washed over us. Later, my sister would confide in me the horror of her experience, and the betrayal she felt towards our mother who stood by and watched. She described the helplessness, the searing pain, and the way they used hot water to cleanse the wound. It was a constant message that her worth was tied to childbearing, not her pleasure. Being female, she realised, seemed to come with a lifetime of pain.’

‘Two years later, during one of Isatou’s visits, I overheard a conversation. Tears streamed down my mother’s face as Isatou confessed, ‘I can’t… I can’t have intimacy. It is always painful, always, and I am finding it difficult to conceive. My husband is angry; I am angry. We can’t consummate the marriage properly because… Her voice broke, replaced by a sob.’

‘I saw shame flicker in my mother’s eyes,’ Abdullah continued, ‘I was quite shocked to hear my mother admit that she and my father had made a terrible mistake in letting Isatou get cut.’

A cold dread settled in my stomach. This was more than just Isatou’s story. It could have been mine too. I stood up pacing the room frantically. Abdullah continued to explain how the bill to reverse the ban on FGM enacted in 2015 had not only passed the first and second readings but was now at the committee level! How could 42 out of 46 legislators, sworn to uphold and protect the rights of its citizens, judge that this ban was unnecessary and so had to be repelled? Was it blind adherence to tradition or due to a deeply-seated, overriding belief that pushes one against all features of sense and sensibilities as well as our collective human empathy, even if it caused harm? Or was it something more sinister? I had so many questions inside me.

As I began to think deeply about it, it dawned on me that this exposes a deeper issue: the power imbalance between men and women. Men like Almameh Gibba, the bill’s sponsor, wielded the twin blades of culture and religion to control women’s bodies, dictate women’s experiences, and reduce them to mere vessels of tradition while hiding behind that veil to argue that the ban violated cultural and religious rights. Whose rights were they prioritising? I wondered. The right to inflict a lifetime of physical and emotional pain on girls, all under the guise of tradition? This very tradition that had shattered countless lives, like that of Jaha Dukureh, the UN Women Ambassador for Africa, who was forced into marriage as a child, and had to travel alone from Gambia to New York City as a young girl to be with a complete stranger. Only later did she find out that she had undergone type 3 FGM, the most severe form as a baby, leaving her with lasting physical and emotional scars. Years later, these scars prevented her marriage from being consummated and forced her to endure yet another painful surgery.

Is this what tradition looks like? Can a tradition that inflicts pain truly be considered progress?

This, I realised, was the essence of power: The ability to change, to shape reality. To name. To be. To do. To be ill-concerned with the critical nature of oneself while being protected from intrusion by the other. Yet in this situation, power creates brutal extremes: powerful versus powerless, predator versus prey, rich versus poor, strong versus weak. There was no middle ground, no blissful neutrality. There is only context, and context shape power. In Nigeria, just like many other African countries, power structures were deeply flawed, and tipped heavily in men’s favour. The lack of strong female representation in these structures only amplifies this problem. So, we are left with no choice but to fight for representation and power to control our own destinies.

My mind raced with frustration and I started to imagine some analogy to describe this situation to Abdullah. It was like a bull – arrogant and oblivious – demanding a lizard change its red scales to fit its colour choice. The lizard, fearing rejection, obeys, only to be left forever wounded. This absurdity mirrored those who controlled women’s bodies while ignoring their well-being. My legs began to shake like they do when I get intensely worried. I shrug it off and continue to explain to Abdullah. Understanding, I told him, was the key to dismantling this oppressive system. Were the women who supported FGM brainwashed pawns in a game of tradition? Or was it something more nuanced? Perhaps these women genuinely believed FGM was necessary or that it offered them a sliver of control in a world dominated by men. Perhaps they feared societal rejection if they spoke out. I desperately needed to understand their perspective. Dismissing them as brainwashed wouldn’t solve anything.

‘Even in the aftermath of the 2015 FGM ban, enforcement was nonexistent. Despite the law stating that knowing about FGM without reporting was a crime, and practicing or supporting it was an offence, people continued the practice, either discreetly moving from the cities to the villages or by crossing borders to neighbouring countries. The numbers spoke for themselves: less than five arrests since the ban, while FGM remained rampant,’ Abdullah elaborated.

The situation in The Gambia frustrated me more. This peaceful and welcoming country, a stark contrast to Lagos’ vibrant chaos, had banned FGM. Disappointment gnawed at me. I confided in Olaedo, my activist friend, a woman who had faced threats and attacks on her home yet refused to back down from fighting for women’s rights. She mirrored my frustration perfectly. ‘They preach about tradition,’ she scoffed, ‘but have they ever felt that cold blade on their body?’

In Nigeria, women’s voices are but a whisper in government. With only 3 out of 109 Senators and 17 out of 360 Representatives in the 10th Assembly being women, the lack of female representation is stark. The Gambia wasn’t much better, with just 6 female legislators out of 58. How could men, with no personal experience of the practice, understand the devastating impact of FGM? Olaedo shared a personal story to illustrate the point, ‘A friend of mine, Hadizah, went through FGM as a young girl. Years later, she confided in me about the constant pain, the difficulties she faced during childbirth, and the emotional toll it took on her.”

Sadly, Hadizah’s story isn’t unique.’ Olaedo continued, citing statistics from the WHO. FGM could cause severe bleeding, urinary problems, and later cysts, infections, complications in childbirth, and an increased risk of newborn deaths. In the most extreme cases, it could lead to shock and death. This reality clashes harshly with the tireless work of women’s organisations. Years of constant fundraising appeals has created donor fatigue and skepticism about fundraising’s effectiveness and the authenticity of some activism, and progress feels stagnant. Abdullah’s story of his sister, Setatu, who could finally conceive only after expensive fertility treatments, is another stark reminder of the consequences of FGM. The fight against FGM is a marathon, not a sprint. If this ban is overturned, it sets a dangerous precedent, even across other African countries. Some people might see the repeal as God’s will, and further entrench the practice. ‘This isn’t over,’ Olaedo stated, her voice regaining its steely resolve. ‘We can’t let them win. We need to speak out, educate our communities, and show them the true cost of this tradition.’ I nodded, a newfound determination sparkling in my eyes. For the first time, I truly understood. This wasn’t just about a ban; it was about a girl’s right to choose, to live a life free from pain and fear. The fight against FGM had just begun, and I am fully ready to join.

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Do you dream of an amazing career, one that keeps growing, keeps you satisfied, and lets you reach your full potential? For a lot of people, that dream remains a perpetual pursuit, leaving them wishing for a better tomorrow that seems never to arrive.

While many work hard to excel in their job roles, they often overlook the need for the same level of dedication when it comes to charting their career path. This oversight is a recipe for an unfulfilled career. In today’s rapidly changing world, simply working hard is no longer enough to succeed. Everyone now requires an arsenal of strategies to navigate their career effectively. 

Let me share three proven career strategies drawn from product management. These are time-tested tactics that every professional can adopt to grow their career.

Build your career the agile way

People are usually advised to start with an entry-level job as the foundation for a successful career, then gradually ascend to managerial roles. This advice holds true for many, but it doesn’t account for the diverse circumstances that professionals encounter in today’s dynamic job market, especially if they aim for accelerated career growth.

A typical career now often involves horizontal navigations, upward moves, and at times, a willingness to temporarily take some steps down the professional ladder, which can involve accepting positions with lower job titles or salaries in a bid to explore more promising career paths.

This kind of adaptability is at the core of agile methodology commonly practiced by product managers. They understand that product development constraints are always complex and unstable. Hence, they employ an excellent approach of building products in short, iterative phases.  The goal is to create products that are flexible enough to meet the ever-changing market demands. 

In your career as well, you should always position yourself to grasp great opportunities as they arise. This is a crucial point to note as you make career decisions or acquire new skills.

Career growth analyst, Marti Konstant, defines an agile career as “a self-reflective, incremental career path, guided by response to change, evolving job roles, and designed to optimise creativity, growth, and happiness.” Konstant further advises professionals to “lean into change and make adjustments to career status, rather than sticking to a rigid plan. Acclimate to economic developments and corporate adjustments by uncovering engaging projects.” 

Use feedback as a growth catalyst

To accelerate your career growth, you must go beyond your official performance objectives and appraisals. Actively seek candid informal feedback from your colleagues regarding their perception of your performance and personality. This process will highlight your strengths and weaknesses and ultimately guide you on the competencies you need to focus on that will improve your job performance and enhance your chance for success in future endeavours.

“Be open to receiving feedback even if it is incorrect,” says Kiran Bondalapati, a technology leader and career advisor, “You are still getting data about how you are being perceived. Aggregate feedback and find common threads and unique viewpoints. Taking control of your career is too important to be left to your manager.”

You certainly need feedback from colleagues, friends, mentors, and even family members to continuously improve on critical growth areas that will catalyse your career.

Identify and manage your stakeholders

Just as a diligent product manager relies on effective stakeholder management for success, the same principle applies to career progression. The stakeholders in your career are as vital and multifaceted as those for typical products.

A career coach, Caroline Ceniza-Levine, describes them as “People who have a vested interest in the success of your career because it helps their career, because they happen to like you, or because what you do makes their job easier. These people will fight for you when plum assignments are given, when raises are decided, when restructuring means someone gets the short end of the stick.”

Beyond merely recognising your career stakeholders, you need a well-thought-out strategy to manage them. Understand the unique roles they play in your professional journey and identify the aspects of your career objectives that pertain to each stakeholder. This approach, as highlighted by organisational performance consultant, Jo McDermott, “requires you to think through all the players and come up with both an action plan and a communication plan for each. It will likely crystallise your thinking of the next steps and speed your career on its way.”

In all, regardless of your profession’s specific field, always treat your career as a valuable product that you need to manage diligently. This paradigm shift can propel your career growth to unprecedented heights.

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Be Inspired By MKO Abiola

Further hard work ensured he was promoted to Vice-President of the company’s Africa and Middle East sectors. A few years later, he moved to the United States, overseeing ITT’s operations in Nigeria, and set up numerous companies. His wealth grew exponentially. His companies ranged from publishing houses, to football clubs, to oil and gas companies. One thing they all had in common was that they promoted the economy of Nigeria; one of MKO’s lifetime goals. Due to his personality and his outgoing nature, Abiola was friends with everyone. One time, he threw a party for the world’s elites, and gave them only one day’s notice. Everyone cleared their schedules and showed up, even though some were fashionably late. But Abiola did not discriminate; he loved the regular people and they loved him back. He invested heavily in the lower classes by donating to charities and for scholarships. Abiola even fought to restore Africa’s lost integrity. He actively sent petitions to the United States and certain European countries, asking for compensation for Africa for the many decades of colonialism and African enslavement. His political beliefs were already evident, long before he became a politician. MKO’s business sense is celebrated to this day. He is considered one of Nigeria’s most successful businessmen of all time. He even managed to become the President of the Nigerian Stock Exchange; not bad, right? Among his most famous companies are Abiola Farms, Abiola Bookshops, Abiola Football Club, RCN, Concord Press, Concord Airlines, Wonder Bakeries, Summit Oil International Ltd., and Habib Bank.

Be Inspired By Ellen Johnson Sirleaf

Many people wanted Ellen to be free. Liberians knew that Ellen was a good person. So many people came out to protest. Even Ellen’s friends at the World Bank fought for her release. Shortly after her arrest, Ellen was released. When she was released, everybody rejoiced. Ellen did not leave Liberia again. She tried to run for a seat in the Senate. The general elections were not free and fair. So, even though she won the election, Ellen refused to accept the senate seat. Ellen wanted Liberia to be a great country. And she knew she had to play her part. In 1997, Ellen ran for president against Charles Taylor. Ellen didn’t win the election. She was exiled to Ivory Coast for a while. But Ellen wasn’t going to give up yet. In 2005, Ellen ran for the President of Liberia again. This time, she won! After so many years, Ellen became the 24th President of Liberia and the first female President in Africa.

Be Inspired By Fela

Years after his death, Fela is still a musician that is greatly celebrated across the world. He is most often referred to as the king of afrobeats with many African songs and international sounds originating from the popularity and similar sounds to the beats he used. The lyrics of his songs have been quoted and used by many musicians across the world, far and wide. Fela’s legacy lives on with his children, who are doing excellently well in Nigeria and internationally. He won many musical awards in his lifetime and even in death. His legacy for good music still lives on with several international Grammy Award nominations held by his children who play in the music space. The Legacy of Fela Anikulapo-Kuti indeed lives on in the lives of many African and International people who identify with his beliefs, music, truth and stand for justice for people and in countries around the world. Fela is an icon, a legend even, and will always be remembered and celebrated for his stand for the truth, injustice, his distinctive music and African legacy.

Be Inspired By Me

Almost eight billion faces around the world, and there will never be another me. No one else will ever have the same combination of talent, ability, birth story, upbringing, tone of voice, colour of eyes and skin that make me.

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She launched The Oliver Nakakande Foundation in 2022, advocating for education by offering teenage mothers in Uganda a chance to return to school. In 2023, I also published my debut book, “The Escape: How I Ran from Shame to Fame.”

Oliver has been featured across various platforms, including Lovin Dubai, Khaleej Times, Virgin Radio, Daily Mail, NTV, Vanguard, and more.

Holla Oliver!

Hi BellaNaija.

Quite a portfolio you have up there, well done

Thank you.

So, how has living in Dubai been so far?

It hasn’t been a smooth journey, but it’s been fruitful overall. I have spent most of my twenties in Dubai. As a young African lady exploring the city, working, and studying opportunities, Dubai has challenged me to level up and become a more informed, modern lady. 

Interesting. Give us a glimpse into your background and what brought you to Dubai

I came to Dubai shortly after I had lost my mother in Uganda. To me, it was like an escape plan from the loss I had just encountered. I wanted to live in a place away from home but not far from home for easy back-and-forth travel. At the same time, I had just graduated with a Diploma in Journalism and was looking for work opportunities. 

How did this search pan out?

Searching for my first job in Dubai was no joke! I dropped off my resume at different offices, had hundreds of online applications, and attended a few interviews. Unfortunately, I wouldn’t say I liked most of my offers. After my three-month visa expired, I decided to renew for an extra three months and try again. I was lucky enough to be interviewed for a sales position in a real estate company, and I got hired. Because I had zero experience, I took a real estate course at the Dubai Land Department and qualified as a Dubai Real Estate Agent.

What are the challenges, lessons, and highlights of your journey (career, lifestyle) as an African in Dubai?

Dubai is full of opportunities, but my challenges surpassed the opportunities. As an African exploring opportunities in Dubai, I realised many opportunities were entailed for different nationalities, and only a few are limited to Africans. I learned to be extremely patient, persistent, and prayerful to breakthrough. 

Have you experienced any forms of pushback because of your race, country of origin or accent?

Absolutely! Especially when job hunting, it saddens me that to this date, there are plenty of companies indicating “All nationalities except Africans.”

How did you deal with this?

Whenever I find myself in such a scenario, I always remind myself of my worth, and I ignore any racial comments or events.

Can you share any insights or experiences regarding the job market in Dubai for Africans? 

The job market in Dubai for Africans is tough; survival is only for the bigheaded go-getters. It’s easy to quit job hunting and become a freelancer like myself. I was blessed to find a decent job which led me to leave to pursue my studies. After getting my undergraduate and postgraduate degrees in Dubai, I expected that it would be easier for me to get a better job with reasonable rates without looking at my ethnicity; I was lying to myself. 

Ooops

Before, I thought I was underqualified, but now that I have the qualifications, I still need minimal GCC experience, which is hard to achieve with my nationality.

So it is safe to say you have settled in alright. What would you consider as special ingredients to the success made so far?

Despite all the job issues, Dubai is an excellent city to live and thrive. I realised that I didn’t need a full-time job to achieve my dreams; I discovered that ‘the gig economy’ in Dubai works even better. I embraced all my talents and developed my personal brand. I have managed to become a successful model, author, host, and advocate, plus I still get the privilege to enjoy my free time and travels.

Comparing lifestyles in your country of origin and the country you currently reside, what changes did you have to make to settle in? 

Uganda and the UAE are highly different on almost all levels. I had to get used to the hot weather, spicy foods, and Arabic terms, and I found it hard to make friends and find a community.

What are the things Africans looking to relocate to Dubai need to keep in mind?

They should be mindful of the UAE’s laws, rules, and regulations. I recommend they research the lifestyle, work life, accommodation, cost of living, and so on, before taking a flight. For an African planning to relocate to Dubai, three key considerations are crucial: understanding and respecting local culture and customs, being well-versed in Dubai’s legal and regulatory framework, and ensuring a solid plan for accommodation, employment, and financial stability. These factors are essential for a smooth transition and successful integration into life in Dubai.

I agree. What are the little things/habits/actions Africans in Dubai can adopt to help them thrive?

Africans in Dubai can thrive by embracing diversity, adapting to local customs while maintaining their cultural identity, building strong networks within the African community and beyond, staying informed about local news and regulations, learning Arabic to enhance communication, practicing good financial management, prioritizing health and wellness, continuously learning and developing skills, engaging with the community through volunteering and cultural activities, and respecting laws and customs to avoid any misunderstandings or legal issues. 

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Many thanks to Oliver Nakakande for having this conversation with us. Catch up with the next episode on Wednesday. Do you want to be featured on BellaNaija or share your essays with us? Shoot us an email: features@bellanaija.com

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As a new mum, it’s easy to feel overwhelmed. What’s worse is feeling very alone too. 

There are conversations on social media about how being a new mum being so much pressure, and then there are images of perfect mums who seem to have it all together, pictures of spotless homes, smiling babies, and mums who look like they just stepped out of a fashion magazine. 

Let’s take a step back and remember something important: much of what we see online is curated and carefully chosen to present an idealised version of reality. So, can we become more self-aware, filter what we expose ourselves to and appreciate the beautiful bits?

I believe in the power of sharing our real experiences with other mums. You would be surprised by how many people feel the same way you do. Building a support network where you can be honest about your struggles can be incredibly comforting. It reminds you that you’re not alone and that it’s okay to ask for help.

I had my first child 8 years ago and I remember feeling so clueless a lot of the time. Yes, there’s your natural instincts, you have your doctor on speed dial, and your mum has your back. However, little things like the decisions you have to make daily can suddenly become overwhelming. Online mum support groups can help here. I remember going to the store recently and was shocked to see that there were newer diaper brands on the shelf. How would a new mum know how good they are? Who does she ask? Can you imagine what it’s like having to decide what brand to use from over 20 options?

Social media platforms provide an easy way for new mums to connect with others who are going through similar experiences, offering emotional support and understanding. Many experienced parents also share practical tips and solutions to common parenting challenges.  Hearing from other mums who have similar experiences can validate feelings and reduce feelings of isolation.

There’s also access to professional advice as many paediatricians, child psychologists, and parenting experts share valuable advice on social media, offering reliable information at your fingertips. 

I would say social media offers numerous benefits for new mums online. The most important thing is for you to establish what your values are, and then follow pages that not only align with your values, but also don’t make you feel less than. Every family is unique, and what works for one may not work for another. What’s important is that your child is loved, cared for, and happy.

Here are some advantages of social media for mums:

Parenting Inspiration

Creative Ideas: Social media is full of creative parenting ideas, from crafts and activities to educational games that keep children engaged and learning.

Motivation and Encouragement: Inspirational stories and achievements shared by other mums can be motivating and uplifting.

Practical Support and Resources

Product Recommendations: Mums can find reviews and recommendations for baby products, gear, and services that have worked well for others.

Resource Sharing: Access to shared resources like meal plans, support guides and how-to videos can be very helpful.

Convenience and Accessibility

24/7 Availability: Social media groups are accessible any time of day or night, which is particularly useful for mums who may be up at odd hours with their babies.

Easy Access: Information and support are just a few clicks away, without the need for travel or scheduling appointments.

Community Building

Virtual Events: Many online groups host virtual events, webinars, and Q&A sessions with experts, providing interactive learning opportunities.

Shared Celebrations: Mums can celebrate milestones and achievements with a wider community, receiving support and congratulations from their peers.

Reducing Loneliness

Combating Isolation: New mums, especially those who might be at home with their baby, can feel less lonely by engaging with others online. Instant messaging and live chats allow for real-time interaction and support.

On social media, mums also get to share their stories, experiences, and opinions, contributing to a collective voice that can inspire and effect change.

Parenting is a learning process, and it’s filled with ups and downs. By letting go of the need to be perfect, you can reduce your stress and enjoy the journey more. 

Remember, your worth as a mother isn’t determined by how picture-perfect your life looks. It’s about the love and care you provide for your child. Your child doesn’t need a perfect mum; they need a happy, healthy, and present one.

So, the next time you find yourself feeling pressured by the idealised images on social media, take a step back. Remind yourself that everyone has their struggles, even if they’re not visible online. Focus on what works for you and your family, and give yourself the grace to be imperfect. After all, it’s those imperfect moments that often make the best memories.

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Earlier this month, Americans celebrated the 248th anniversary of the nation’s birth, better known as Independence Day. I will preface my subject by reproducing some insights I shared with my audience which I thought were instructive.

You have to respect the Americans for one thing, they are master storytellers. What makes the United States of America a superpower today isn’t merely owing to its military or economic might but its soft power – their ability to use culture to shape perception and influence behaviour is top draw. Culture is one of the four pillars upon which civilization stands on and when unboxed, you will find elements such as media, education and art therein. I discussed the four of these pillars in my book, Hope Is Not A Strategy. This is why their media houses aren’t just news channels but machineries for shaping how information is being consumed. Their academic curriculum is weaponized for purpose and their art is a veritable tool for propagating their agendas. No surprises that their government is a critical stakeholder in Hollywood.

Check these out. The Madison Square Garden in New York, colloquially known as ‘The Garden’ or simply ‘MSG’, is always referred to as the most famous arena in the world. The state of Delaware is referred to as the incorporation capital of the world. Las Vegas in Nevada is referred to as the entertainment capital of the world. American baseball matches are referred to as the “World Series” when in reality all the games are played on American soil. In global politics, their leader isn’t just called president – he or she is referred to as the leader of the free world. I can continue with a litany of examples but you know where I am going with this – the common word in all those descriptions is “world”. We may all be on the same earth but we live in different worlds; the first world countries know that culture is not just a way of life but a means of social engineering. If you don’t have this cultural intelligence, you will experience culture shock when you meet someone at the airport who is acting like he or she is on top of the ‘world’ – they may not be arrogant, they have just been programmed to think a certain way.

As you may know, I am very invested in the Marvel Cinematic Universe – not just for the entertainment value for the subtle cultural exchange. There is something I learned many years ago from the patriarch of the Marvel Studios, Stan Lee. He had a signature when developing his characters and describing the superheroes. He didn’t just say Spiderman, he named Peter Parker as “The Amazing Spiderman”. He didn’t just say Hulk, he named Bruce Banner as “The Incredible Hulk”. He would also name the quintessential quartet as “The Fantastic Four”. Even if these people weren’t all that, we heard the superlatives enough times to believe they were! The cultural intelligence we can extrapolate here is that the way you celebrate your stars might be the way the world does; if you loud your own – the rest of the world would have no other option than to follow suit!

Enough of the shalaye, let me bring this home. That’s where Ayo Balogun comes in: so this piece isn’t about Wiz, it’s about The Big Wiz! You gerrit now?

Woli Wiz!

It’s his confidence for me. It takes a lot of gumption to name your very first album as a recording artiste, Superstar. That for me was a statement of vision and prophecy. At this point, we have to run Bankole Wellington and Tunde Demuren their flowers, for believing in Big Wiz at the earlier part of his career. I remember that one time at the Headies Awards when Banky W boldly declared that the world should watch out for two of EME’s signees at the time – Wiz and Skales. Today, we aren’t in doubt of the talent, hard work and impact of his career. Even from humble beginnings, his drip and fashion sense was giving finesse. I recall when Big Wiz would rock his signature burgundy checkered shirt, Mohawk haircut and his Obey snapback. He was already a style icon, mirroring his wardrobe was how you showed your guys and the ladies that you were part of the big boys club – got me looking like Machala that year. In his song, Don’t Dull released in 2010, he had some aspirational lyrics therein: “if you see me sitting in a corner, don’t dull. In my Gucci and Gabbana, don’t dull.” Fast forward to 2019, he was strutting the runway alongside Naomi Campbell and other top names on the Dolce & Gabbana Fashion Show. That ‘Lil Prinz’ has now become a king!

Unbothered FC

Like DJ Tunez put it, everyone became an Essence warrior some three odd years ago but we have to put some respeck on dem day ones who have been hollering at the boy from the jump. We simply can’t talk about Big Wiz shutting down the O2 in London, United Kingdom for three nights in a row without talking about the fans who were bumping to his music more than ten years in Small London – a suburb in Lagos State, Nigeria. From Surulere, Ojuelegba, Masha-Kilo, Akerele to Shitta – you must understand why FC carry him matter for head like gele because it hits different when they see one of their own carry the city on his back and take that culture to the ends of the world. Big Wiz already knows this and you can tell that it inspired the release of Made In Lagos – an album which was certified gold by the RCAA, the very first African album to achieve such feat.

Biggest Bird

Beyond awards, music sales and recognitions – what Big Wiz did and is doing for the culture is very important in a world that is controlled by the power of narratives. Three years ago, I wrote a piece about doubling down on exporting our culture in which I submitted about Big Wiz, “we’re doing numbers but even that doesn’t do justice to the fact that our music is a certified staple in the global market.” Let me stun you with some hard fact; an unfortunate example the single story at play. There is no credible list of countries with the highest rates of cybercrime where Nigeria pops up on even the top three but the single story is that the ‘Nigerian Prince’ is the avatar for cybercrime. It’s partly our fault because our corporate information machinery as a country has been used to play Ludo and spew pedestrian propaganda when it should have been used to play chess and weaponized for global image-making. So don’t let anyone sell you that baloney of some international artiste is putting Big Wiz on, it’s Big Wiz putting that artiste on and that’s on Mary had a little lamb! At the end of the day, we have to get better at telling our own stories, regardless of whatever field we find ourselves. Nobody is going to rewrite history or tell our stories for us on our watch. Massive shout out to all the legends who blazed the trail and paved the way; we used to pray for times like these.

Ofoju Jo Wizzy!

For my love for writing and my many other talents, I don’t enjoy scribbling eulogies – especially when I had the opportunity to give flowers to that person. I don’t plug into this necrophilia thing where we only show love to people when they are dead. I believe that most, if not all the things that are said at funerals should really be said on birthdays, people should get their roses when they can still smell them. It’s beyond what they do, it’s what they represent. Great people are not perfect people – none of us are. Congratulations are in order for Big Wiz on his upcoming project, Morayo – an eponymous and truly personal homage to his dear mother who unfortunately passed on last year. As he continues to own the global music scene and dominate the charts, those of us on these streets will never stop supporting one of our own – a superstar that was truly made in Lagos!

Superstar Generation

In the end, Big Wiz is only but a synecdoche in the grand scheme of things. Unfortunately, Nigeria has become an African Giant that is not gianting. Asides from being the most populated black country on God’s green earth, we are not posting Ws on governance, currency, security, education, electricity, housing etc. The only exception to that is the uber-talented Nigerian youths. Young people are killing it in music, tech, sports, comedy, art, fashion and every other sphere where they have got their audience in a chokehold. Almost every time we get great PR as a country, we all know which demography is responsible for that. That’s why I am committed to celebrating young talents. One day, we will have leaders that get the memo.

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When you enter the home of a Yoruba woman preparing the famous rice and ata dindin stew, and the distinctive aroma of iru doesn’t greet your nostrils, something is undeniably amiss. Iru, also called locust beans, undergoes a laborious fermentation process before it can be used, distinguishing it as a resilient delicacy. By choosing this title, Bisi Adeleye-Fayemi immediately seeps her narrative into the Nigerian experience, particularly through the lens of women and girls. We are quickly pulled into the lines, verses, sentences and paragraphs that make up the entirety of this collection. Immersed in the experiences of these women and girls, we are swept by a tidal wave of anger, sorrow and delirious faith in womankind, all at once.

Bisi Adeleye-Fayemi diverges from her usual style to present an anthology of short stories and poems, offering a refreshing and deeply engaging exploration of complex societal issues. “A Tray of Locust Beans” is a testament to her versatility as a writer and her profound understanding of the human experience. It explores womanhood, identity, and resilience within Nigerian culture and beyond. As an acclaimed feminist and activist, Adeleye-Fayemi’s narrative is rich with the authenticity of personal experience, cultural depth, and political awareness. 

At the heart of “A Tray of Locust Beans” lies a powerful feminist message. Adeleye-Fayemi uses her narrative to spotlight the struggles and triumphs of women in Nigeria and across Africa. She addresses issues such as gender inequality, societal expectations, and the pervasive impact of patriarchal structures. She does not shy away from depicting women’s harsh realities but emphasises their strength and resilience. 

The anthology masterfully captures a wide spectrum of emotions, from passion and pain to inspiration and hope. Adeleye-Fayemi’s writing is evocative and powerful, eliciting strong emotional responses from the reader. The stories and poems move seamlessly between moments of laughter and tears, reflecting the complexities of life and human emotions. “There Are No Strangers Here” shows us how similar women are even if their experiences differ. “Did you hear a pregnant woman died yesterday? No cash and network for the POS.” “Please Help Us Beg Them” takes us back to 2020 in the heat of End SARS and how pregnant women became collateral damage. This emotional depth is a hallmark of Adeleye-Fayemi’s writing.

“A Tray of Locust Beans” features diverse voices and perspectives, reflecting the varied experiences of women and girls. From the high-flying lawyer, Sharon, to the locust beans seller, Mabel. This diversity is one of the anthology’s strengths, providing a comprehensive view of the societal issues it addresses. By including different perspectives, Adeleye-Fayemi highlights the interconnectedness of women’s experiences and the collective struggle for equality and justice. “Our Girls Now Wear Spanx to School” is a deeply affecting poem that explores how rape has become a sport in places of formal education. In recent times when stories of rape are now used to score cheap points and placed on a scale to weigh the depth of the brutality of each woman’s story, this poem is important. 

It is also refreshing to see some of Bisi Adeleye-Fayemi’s influences through the pages of this anthology. When a writer writes about another writer like Bisi Adeleye-Fayemi wrote about Toni Morrison in this collection, it shows that the admiration runs deep. She writes Ms Kudirat Abiola as someone “who made it possible yesterday for us to have a today and tomorrow.” It signifies the depth of the sacrifices of the women before us who crawled so we could stand tall and walk. Some of these women are prominent, and their names are written boldly in history books, but some are not. This does not diminish the extent of their sacrifices, which is what this anthology reinstates.

“A Tray of Locust Beans” could be a metaphor for women’s collective experiences. Just as a tray holds numerous individual beans, the anthology holds multiple stories of womanhood, each contributing to a broader picture of gender and social dynamics. The tray provides a unifying motif that ties together the various narrative threads. Just as a tray gathers and holds the beans, the book collects and presents diverse stories and experiences. This symbolism aligns with the feminist concerns of the book, where Adeleye-Fayemi highlights the interconnectedness of women’s lives and the shared struggles against patriarchal constraints. This unity reinforces the book’s overarching message about the importance of community, shared history, and the collective memory of women. It serves as a reminder that individual stories, when brought together, create a powerful and cohesive narrative about resilience, empowerment, and cultural pride.

Women across diverse backgrounds and experiences share common threads that bind their stories together. Now, more than ever, it is crucial to document these experiences in literature. When we fail to tell our own stories, we relinquish the power to shape our narrative, allowing others to define us. There is no one better equipped to tell these stories than women themselves. 

In poetry, we distill the essence of our experiences into a single, powerful thought. In prose, we carefully construct our narrative, hoping the reader understands the depth of our message before the final sentence. By sharing our stories, we create a strong web of voices that reflect the richness of our lives and the diversity of our experiences. This literary endeavour not only empowers us but also paves the way for future generations to find strength and solidarity in our words. This is what Bisi Adeleye-Fayemi is doing with her works. She is not only telling these stories, she’s showing us that there is strength in knowing that we are never alone in our experiences.

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The Essence Festival is more than just a party. It’s the economic heart of New Orleans, drawing crowds that infuse life (and cash) into the city’s vibrant atmosphere. This year’s event, held from July 4th to 7th, was truly legendary. As I left my state last Wednesday and headed Southwest, I could feel the 30th-anniversary excitement of the Essence Film Festival in the air. This wasn’t just any event; it was a testament to Essence’s enduring impact on New Orleans, a city known for its lively spirit and annual extravaganzas. I enjoyed my time there last year and am glad to be back again this year. There are a few things that stood out to me.

NOVA Foundation Event: Supporting Black Filmmakers

Kicking off the list was an annual NOVAC Foundation event called “R&R” Reel reSET, in partnership with Film New Orleans, Office of Cultural Economy. In America, July 4th is Independence Day, and it’s refreshing to enjoy it with good people and listen to iconic music. The event was held in a house party style, in a quaint house with colourful exteriors and intricate ironwork. It was adorned with the tiniest little CRT Tellie screens chronicling the industry’s long history, making it informative and inspiring. I had the pleasure of chatting with India King Robins, and I learned that the NOVA Foundation event has been educating and providing opportunities for Black filmmakers since 1972. There were so many creatives in this small house, and fireworks sparked in the sky across the street. I particularly enjoyed some nice moments with Uche Jumbo, Eso Dike, my lovely South African Namnam, star of Savage Beauty, Nambitha Ben Mawazi, and CNN Africa’s Stephanie Busari.

Nigeria Panel at Cultural Connections Stage: Celebrating Nollywood Giants

Trust Naija not to carry last. This year’s Nigeria panel “Building Bridges: Collaborating with Nollywood for Global Success,” brought together influential figures from the Nigerian movie industry. The panel included Omotola Jalade, Uche Jumbo, Eso Dike, and a young rising star from “Iwájú” Simisola Gbadamosi. Moderated by, Stephanie Busari, and convened by Toyosi Etim-Effiong, the panel showcased Nollywood’s skyrocketing influence. Toyosi addressed the importance of exposure, and her questions consistently championed the interests of Nollywood. Omotola dropped some serious wisdom about perseverance and the importance of knocking on doors, emphasising courage and resilience as keys to success in the industry. She and Uche spoke from their experiences as mothers and stressed the necessity of balance. Uche’s mantra, “produce locally for the global audience,” underscored the importance of consistently telling our own stories and getting them right, to the best of our abilities.  Eso explained that an actor’s resume is cradled in their last film, so it’s best to give it all in every film an actor performs in. This session proved to be a powerful testament to Nollywood’s growing global footprint and the inspiring journeys of its stars. It was inspiring to watch the young star, Simisola sitting among her senior colleagues in the industry.

A Kismet Holiday for a Romantic Saturday

After the panel, we enjoyed some cinematic gems. I watched “A Kismet Holiday,” starring Derrick King and Nigerian-American actress Karen Obilom, who was dazzling in her first leading role since her standout performance in “Games People Play” opposite Lauren London. “Kismet” is a heartwarming Christmas movie about two strangers finding love in the most classic rom-com-y way imaginable, written by the talented Bree West. The film’s charming portrayal of Black love, combined with beautiful lighting and a compelling story, made it a festival favourite. And guess what? It won the overall Best Film award at the festival. I couldn’t be happier for them.

Nine, the Movie: A Cinematic Masterpiece

If the verse “we battle not against flesh but wickedness in high places” were a film, it would be “NINE”. It is one of the most unique films I’ve seen at Essence. Screened on Sunday, this international fantasy thriller, produced by Angela White co-executive produced by Vinny Curry and Glenn Singleton was a visual and narrative delight. Directed and produced by Chris Attoh, who also starred in the film, “Nine” boasted a stellar cast from South Africa, Nigeria, Ghana, and the United States, including Kate Henshaw, Rosemary Zimu, Juliet Ibrahim, and Damien D. Smith. The film’s stunning visuals, high-quality audio, and captivating story were evident. The plot revolves around a series of witchcraft-related murders in Ghana, with a grieving homicide detective and an elite all-female assassin group racing against time to prevent supernatural warfare. The film’s execution, reminiscent of the special effects seen in Netflix’s “Supacell,” pushed the boundaries of African cinema, delivering a visually stunning narrative that maintained cultural authenticity while appealing to international audiences.

Global Panel on Representation: Authentic Global Storytelling 

Another major event on Sunday was the global panel on representation themed “Authentic Global Storytelling.” The panel included Nicole Amarteifio, Ozi Menakaya, Tanya .E. Taylor, Aml Ameen, Nadine Ibrahim and Sipho Dlamini from Universal. Juliet Ibrahim moderated the discussion, which focused on the challenges and opportunities in global storytelling. Distribution was a key topic, revealing differences between African markets and other regions. An executive explained why Apple TV tends to favour South Africa over Nigeria due to billing issues within Nigerian financial institutions, which are currently being addressed. The consensus was clear: African storytellers need to take ownership of their narratives and proactively network to achieve global recognition. Mekdese Haile, a young producer, raised the question of how prepared Africa is to embrace cinematic consumer behaviour, considering that by 2050, our continent will have the highest youth population worldwide, with one in four people on the planet being African, according to the New York Times. This highlighted the promising future of African cinema and reinforced the notion that it is indeed Africa’s time to shine. 

Janet Jackson Concert: A Showstopper Performance

I had an amazing time at Essence with spectacular musical performances. Usher’s performance on Saturday was incredible, but Janet Jackson’s concert on Sunday was a total showstopper. Her unmatched energy, stage authority, and sheer grace captivated everyone. She danced effortlessly and proved once again why she is a legend. Victoria Monet also delivered an impressive performance, giving off strong Beyoncé vibes. However, Janet’s command of the stage was unparalleled. There was a special moment when she asked us to celebrate girl power by singing to our best friends. I had the chance to sit next to Deputy Harris and take some selfies. It was a vibe all through.

Memorable Encounters: Cool People and New Connections 

The people one meets at Essence are always a highlight, and this year was no exception. I had the opportunity to reconnect with my old friends, comms queen Maliz Mahop, Essence producer Ama Larbi, and actor Kareem Grimes, and meet new faces like the incredibly talented Danielle Brooks and the hilarious Nigerian-American comedian Iyke Slimster.  The very inspiring Sarah Jakes and the adorable Little Van Van were a delight to watch up close on the Essence stages throughout the weekend. A chance encounter with Meagan Good over lunch was filled with mutual admiration and fun. I also had the pleasure of being introduced to the gorgeous Taja V. Simpson, Mike Merill, the fabulous Tajé Prest, Tiffany Yarde, the stunning model, Ms. Kristine, the incredible founder of Black Film Space, Lande Yoosof, and a few others.

Throughout the festival, every outfit was intentional, combining African prints with staples to keep things fresh and youthful, minimising the “auntie vibes.” My braids added an extra touch of flair, and yes, even Janet Jackson rocked the same braids.

The Essence Festival 2024 was a perfect blend of culture, cinema, music, and community, leaving me eagerly anticipating next year’s celebration. Despite not fully exploring the vendor marketplace this year, every moment added to the festival’s richness. Essence continues to be a cornerstone of cultural celebration in New Orleans, highlighted by the 30th anniversary of the Essence Film Festival. This year’s event underscored Essence’s enduring impact on NOLA, drawing crowds that contribute to the city’s vibrant atmosphere. See you next year, Essence.

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Did you miss last week’s conversation with Seye Dele? You can catch up here. 

This week, we’re doing life with Abbey Tumusiime, a Ugandan content creator. He gives us a glimpse into his life. Enjoy!

Hey Abbey, how is it going?

All is good. We are trying to outsmart the system.

Haha, indeed. Give us a glimpse into your background

I’m from Uganda, from the Basoga tribe. I grew up in a small village in Iganga, where I spent most of my childhood with both of my parents. I moved to Jinja, in a town called Bugembe, and I’ve been living there for almost six years. I’m the youngest of my parents’ three children, all of whom are boys. We didn’t have everything we desired or admired as a family, but my parents always emphasized the importance of finding joy from within. They taught us that happiness comes from essential things like family harmony, good health, and other seemingly small but significant factors.

Despite being boys, my brothers and I were taught the value of hard work by sharing household chores equally, including tasks traditionally considered for females in our culture, like cooking and cleaning. I attended Iganga Boys’ Primary School for my primary education and later completed my Ordinary Level Certificate at Busoga College Mwiri. I then obtained my Advanced Level Certificate at MM College Wairaka, where I studied Literature, Divinity, and History. This eventually led me to pursue a degree in Journalism at Uganda Christian University in Mukono. Interestingly, my parents always envisioned a career for me in engineering or law, but life had other plans for me.

I have fond memories of my dad introducing us to a computer (desktop) at a young age, hoping that we would learn to use it for educational purposes. However, my brothers and I primarily used it for games and movies, much to his dismay. I felt inspired to learn things that would make my dad proud, as I witnessed how his happiness resonated throughout our home. This led me to start editing videos, initially using Windows Movie Maker. Over the years, I progressed to using Microsoft Photos, and now I work with more advanced software like Premiere Pro. I currently edit videos, and I attribute this skill to the encouragement and support of my parents. There’s so much more that has shaped my journey, and I could spend hours talking about it.

Tell me about your content creation and comedy journey

My journey as a creator began at the age of seven when I started taking photos with my parents’ phone, transferring them to a computer, and using Windows Movie Maker to create stories or short movies. As I grew older, I shifted my focus to YouTube, where I would create dance videos and upload them. However, due to illness and feeling demotivated, I took a break from creating for about a year. It wasn’t until a friend, Owen, encouraged me to start creating again, that I began making skits with him, which I uploaded to TikTok and Instagram. Despite my efforts, success seemed out of reach, so I took a break and focused on shooting and editing videos for my friends, Cophi and Amon. Earlier this year, Cophi convinced me to get back into creating videos, even if they were simple. This led to the creation of “Dad Jokes with Amon,” which surprisingly went viral worldwide.

Your dad jokes are always funny. How do you make your videos? 

Thanks for appreciating. I start with brainstorming alongside my creative team and manager. We collectively generate ideas, from the concept of the Dad Joke to the editing, setting, and various other details. We then schedule specific days to shoot a certain number of jokes. As a perfectionist, I take charge of editing and directing the videos myself, unless directed otherwise. Before posting, the team reviews the videos. If they don’t find it humorous, we put it on the waiting list for adjustments instead of discarding it. We believe that all jokes can be funny if executed correctly. The shooting process takes around 8 hours a day, and the duration for editing depends on the content plan devised by my team, but it usually doesn’t take long.

Apart from making jokes and “geniusing” on social media, tell us about your life outside content creation

I am a web developer, running a company called TRilz Media. While my company does offer social media marketing services, my main focus is on web development. I am also a student of Journalism at Uganda Christian University. I sometimes engage in video editing and related tasks. I work with a team of creatives, assisting with editing, and sometimes with shooting and directing.

“I think this guy is a genius” and “By the way” are your signature tones, how did these two phrases come about?

“I think this guy is a genius” is an old meme that didn’t get people’s attention. I found it on a page that focuses on memes and realised that if I used it in my videos, it’d be of great impact. It sounded funny the moment I heard it. Then, “By The Way” is an intentional statement in a whisper to show sarcasm or satire. If you listen closely, you’ll feel that. Then there’s a phrase that has been used to identify me everywhere I go – “The System is Rigged”.  This is a statement we just one time mentioned and realised it got people’s attention. So we went ahead with it.

What are the challenges you’ve encountered in your journey so far 

Depression. This hits all the time and I think is the only thing I’m scared of facing. Waking up at hours when everyone’s asleep, only to be hit by a pound of depression.

Hmmn. How do you deal with this?

I have people I always run to. I’ll be real with you, when I face a challenge and successfully solve it or find a solution, it stops feeling like a challenge. As a result, I tend to forget about it because I no longer see it as a threat.

What about a moment when you felt so proud of yourself?

There are many moments I’ve felt proud of myself but those that stand out are when my loved ones are actually celebrating my wins. I’ve grown up with people who believe that I can be so great. But looking at it from my perspective, my consistency and determination make me proud of myself always.

What’s a typical day in your life?

My day starts at 5 am when I have a phone call with my team lead or manager to discuss the plan for the day and what content creation tasks are pending. We set a target for the day, which sometimes makes me wonder why my manager is awake so early. Then I attend school lectures and participate in group discussions. During breaks, I check on the performance of my content and make sure to post regularly. In the afternoon, I often shoot content for others. In the late evening, I spend time going through comments on my content and gathering feedback. I reply to as many comments as I can. Finally, I end my day by editing and perfecting any pending projects on my computer.

What’s that unconventional thought about the world that you think people won’t agree with?

I believe that failure is not only inevitable but should be celebrated as an essential part of personal and professional growth. While society often views failure negatively, I see it as a crucial learning experience. Throughout my life, I have faced several setbacks that initially felt devastating. However, each failure taught me valuable lessons, provided opportunities for self-improvement, and ultimately led me to greater success.

Love it for you! If you could introduce anyone to Uganda, where would you take them and what Ugandan meal would you serve?

The first place I’d take someone to in Uganda is Jinja. The Ugandan meal I’d recommend is the Rolex. It isn’t a traditional meal, but we consider it a national meal. One that unites all tribes and cultures in the country.

Let’s say you have a special power to change the world with a joke, which joke will you tell?

How come it’s a secret if you know it’s a secret? The system is rigged really.

Three fun facts about Uganda everyone must know about?

Food, hospitality, beautiful women.

Three words that best describe you? 

God fearing, humble, blessed. (I wish you asked for ten, haha).

Thank you for being on Doing Life With…, Abbey

Thank you for having me.

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Many thanks to Abbey Tumusiime for having this conversation with us and answering all our questions – and swiftly too, we must add.

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Simi, via Instagram

My guys and I sat on white chairs we formed into a circle. It was 2019. Simi’s Simisola album was playing from F’s speaker and G was passing around the doughnuts she made for us. It was like a final full circle moment, my secondary school friends and I together, listening to music, laughing, reminiscing on our days in secondary school and which teacher we loved and hated. We were recounting moments that happened over 30 months ago as though they happened yesterday. N was narrating his story when F jumped up from his seat the moment Simi’s tiny voice snuck out of the speaker.

“So Joro baby take my number (take my number). You know, you can call me later (call me later). Me I want to be your lover (be your lover). Oh baby call me later (call me later),” F sang along. F’s melodramatic reactions aided our reactions to the infectious lyrics, and we sang along with the chorus, even N joined.

As we waited for the next song after Joromi, F announced, “Simi is so good.” That simple sentence ushered me into the world of Simi. When I got home, I spent a lot of hours on YouTube listening to her songs. I had heard her song, Tiff, many times before but I never put a face to it; it was just another popular song my neighbour from the third house wouldn’t stop playing. But as an ardent listener, I have witnessed Simi grow and experiment with different sounds but one thing has always remained the same: how her voice aids the quality of storytelling in her music.

Many artists experiment with different sounds and elements to maintain relevance but I believe what has helped Simi maintain relevance is how true she is to her art,  not conforming to fit a narrative or satisfy the consumers’ preference. In The Artist, off Omo Charlie Champagne Vol. 1, Simi monologues, “The artist is always under pressure from so many sides. It can never really get away from it. Regardless of where you turn, there is a demand being made from you – pressure from the executives, from the consumers and there’s pressure from within as well. But my fear is this: when you start to cater only to the pressure from outside, your art is no longer as true as it should be. And in the long run, what’s the point of an artist when never says how she or he feels, but always says everybody expects him or her to be feeling.” It is one of the truest things I have ever heard as a writer.

In 2014, when Simi gained widespread recognition with Tiff, we were introduced to her lyrical prowess and her ability to blend Afropop with soul and R&B seamlessly. The success of “Simisola” wasn’t just in the numbers; it was in how it resonated with listeners. It expresses her ability to tell relatable stories through her music and, combined with her unique voice, made her songs anthems for many.

Simi may not be one of the most-awarded music artists in Nigeria, but her contributions to Afrobeats are unforgettable. Her dedication to authenticity and her openness to experiment with different sounds have earned her a place among the best in the industry. Several songs have gained popularity through her features.

She is now back with a very confident album, Lost and Found – the first cohesive body of work I’ve listened to this year. It’s a body of work that majorly explores love and romance but one identity shines through the album: confidence. On each track, Simi tells stories of a lover or girl who is confident to choose whatever she wants with love. Each song tells the story of where the persona is confident enough to decide to release herself to drown in love, or confident enough to leave a relationship. On X, she described herself as an album artist and “Lost and Found” confirms that because every song sounds like a continuation of the previous.

Every song and album confirms Simi’s talent. She has consistently shown that she is a force to be reckoned with. Her music continues to evolve, and with each new release, she reaffirms her place as one of Nigeria’s most beloved artists. She has showcased her versatility and dedication to her craft and her contributions to Afrobeats have not only helped to elevate the genre but also to push its boundaries. Her voice is distinct and influential; blending traditional African sounds with contemporary elements to create a unique and refreshing style. Her ability to infuse her music with soulful melodies, heartfelt lyrics, and a touch of R&B has set her apart from her peers, making her a crucial figure in the Afrobeats’ evolution. I love her music so much. She is gold(en).

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As Nigerians seek to build homes that suit the needs of their families, it is essential to consider various factors such as climate, cultural preferences, lifestyle, and future growth. To help with this, I’ve put together ten building suggestions that will ensure comfort, functionality, and cultural resonance.

Bungalows

Bungalows are single-story houses that are particularly suitable for families with young children or elderly members. They are cozy, offer ease of access and also minimise the risk of falls caused by staircases. Bungalows are ideal for many Nigerian families.  The fact that they have no stairs is beneficial considering our culture of having elderly people live with us.

Design Tips

• Incorporate wide hallways and doorways for accessibility.
• Use large windows to enhance natural light.
• Include a patio or veranda for outdoor relaxation.

Duplex Homes

A duplex is a multi-family home that consists of two separate units in one building. This style is perfect for extended families or for rental income purposes. Duplex homes are practical in Nigerian urban settings where space is limited and housing demand is high. They offer the advantage of dual living spaces within one structure, making them suitable for extended families or as investment properties for rental income.

Design Tips:

• Ensure soundproofing between units for privacy.
• Design a shared outdoor space for family gatherings.
• Include separate entrances for each unit.

Townhouses

Townhouses are multi-story homes that share one or two walls with adjacent properties. They are popular in urban settings where space is limited. Townhouses provide a balanced mix of privacy and community living, which is valued in Nigerian culture. They are well-suited for urban environments, offering proximity to amenities and shared outdoor spaces that promote social interaction. With townhouses, you can incorporate elements like shaded verandas or communal gardens.

Design Tips:

• Utilise vertical space efficiently to maximise living area.
• Incorporate balconies and rooftop gardens.
• Include garage space on the ground floor.

Villa Style Homes

Villas are luxurious, detached homes often situated in serene and scenic locations. They provide ample space and privacy for families. If you are a Nigerian seeking luxury and comfort, then you should opt for villa styles. They often feature expansive grounds suitable for hosting gatherings and outdoor leisure activities, and are often designed using decorative motifs or locally sourced materials to blend modern amenities with cultural heritage.

Design Tips:

• Design open floor plans with high ceilings.
• Include multiple outdoor living areas such as patios and gazebos.
• Use premium materials for construction and finishes.

Modern Contemporary Homes

Modern contemporary homes emphasise simplicity, clean lines, and the use of modern materials. They are designed for functional living with aesthetic appeal. Modern contemporary homes offer practicality and energy efficiency, which are increasingly valued in Nigeria’s growing urban centres. They utilise advanced materials and technologies to enhance comfort and reduce environmental impact, addressing local concerns about energy consumption and sustainability. These homes can be adapted to Nigerian climates with features like passive cooling systems and water-saving fixtures.

Design Tips:

• Use large glass windows and sliding doors to merge indoor and outdoor spaces.
• Incorporate smart home technologies for convenience.
• Utilise sustainable materials and energy-efficient systems.

Colonial Style Homes

Colonial homes are inspired by the architectural styles of early American colonies. They are characterised by symmetry and classical details, and have a sense of history and craftsmanship that could resonate with Nigeria’s heritage. They can also be adapted to Nigerian context by incorporating local building materials and traditional craftsmanship.

Design Tips:

• Include a central hall with rooms branching off symmetrically.
• Use traditional materials such as brick or wood siding.
• Incorporate large, multi-pane windows for natural light.

Mediterranean Style Homes

Mediterranean homes are inspired by the architecture of countries like Spain, Italy, and Greece. They feature stucco exteriors, red-tiled roofs, and arched doorways. They also have open layouts and ample outdoor spaces. Mediterranean-style homes also incorporate elements like shaded terraces, and natural ventilation systems that enhance comfort.

Design Tips:

• Use terracotta tiles and wrought iron details.
• Incorporate lush gardens and water features.
• Design spacious courtyards for family gatherings.

Ranch Style Homes

Ranch-style homes are single-story houses that are wide and shallow, and are popular for their simplicity and practicality. Ranch homes offer practical single-story living that suits Nigerian families looking for simplicity and ease of access. They provide spacious interiors and seamless indoor-outdoor flow, and are designed with Nigerian aesthetics in mind – earthy tones, local woods, and expansive verandas.

Design Tips:

• Include large windows and sliding doors to connect indoor and outdoor spaces.
• Use a simple, functional layout with minimal hallways.
• Incorporate a large patio or deck for outdoor activities.

Eco-Friendly Homes

Eco-friendly homes are designed with sustainability in mind, using renewable resources and energy-efficient technologies. They promote sustainability and are cost-efficiency, thereby addressing Nigeria’s energy challenges and environmental concerns. They also utilise renewable energy sources like solar power and incorporate water-saving technologies.

Design Tips:

• Install solar panels and rainwater harvesting systems.
• Use recycled and sustainable building materials.
• Incorporate natural ventilation and passive cooling techniques.

Smart Homes

As we think of technology, we also think of its influence in how we build our homes. Ever seen those house that is run by tech and everything – from the way you open doors to drawing the curtains – is done using a remote? Everything in the home is smart and driven by technology systems that enhance convenience and security. Smart homes not only support modern lifestyles, they offer optimal comfort and luxury.

Design Tips:

• Integrate a centralised smart home system for controlling all devices.
• Use smart thermostats, lighting, and appliances.
• Ensure robust internet connectivity for seamless operation.

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As someone who has not only faced various dilemmas but also coaches and mentors HR professionals through complex situations, I can affirm that HR professionals also face significant mental health challenges. While HR is traditionally expected to support other employees through their mental health struggles by partnering with professionals, it’s often overlooked that they also suffer from similar issues. Regrettably, there is no dedicated support system for HR professionals.

The challenge begins with the ambiguous responsibilities of HR professionals. Depending on the size and structure of a business, HR might find themselves handling procurement, administration, finance, operations, IT support, and more.

Recently, people shared the challenges they face this rainy season, highlighting the impact of the heavy downpour on their attendance and punctuality at work using the trend ‘Dear HR’. However, the truth is that such communication should not be directed at HR. Line managers are responsible for their team members’ attendance and punctuality. HR should be kept informed but should not be blamed for these issues. Here are some strategies HR professionals can use to protect their mental health:

Focus On What is Within Your Control

Organisations have various dynamics, and while HR professionals often treat the business as their own and wish for the best, it is crucial to avoid self-blame for aspects beyond their control. When it comes to employee satisfaction, if decision-makers do not approve of certain initiatives, do not tie your self-worth to the outcomes. This can prevent overthinking and unnecessary stress.

Try Your Best

Analyse what is within and outside your control, and strive to do your best with the elements you can influence. This reflection isn’t to justify yourself but to ensure you’ve given your all. This approach will help you sleep better at night, knowing you’ve put in maximum effort.

Seek Support

Don’t attempt to solve everything on your own. It’s okay to reach out to trusted HR professionals for advice. Realising that others have faced similar scenarios can be reassuring and provide valuable perspectives.

Maintain a Life Outside of Work

If work is your sole source of purpose and joy, your mental health will suffer when issues arise. Cultivate a fulfilling personal life where you feel loved and enjoy activities outside of work. This balance ensures that you have a strong foundation to weather any professional storm.

Engage with Professionals

Consider engaging with a coach, therapist, mentor, or counsellor. While friends can be supportive, the severity of certain issues may necessitate professional help. Therapy can address actual mental health conditions and past and present issues, coaching can guide your future progress, and a counsellor can provide advice on potential steps.

Practice Self-Care

Engage in activities that relax and rejuvenate you, such as exercise, hobbies, or meditation. Do what makes you feel good. Not long ago, I spoke with a therapist who asked me to define ‘rest’ and decide what it means to me. Now, any time I feel worn out, I ask myself, “what would rest mean to you at this point?” Then I allow myself rest to prevent burnout. 

HR professionals must recognise the importance of their mental health and take proactive steps to protect it. Taking action towards mental well-being not only benefits you but also enhances your ability to support others, creating a healthier workplace for everyone.

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